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Well . . that might not be true lol. How would you know for sure?

If you are conventionally attractive there is probably some, potentially sublimated, sexual attraction there . . .

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Originally Posted by afboiler (Post 1496955)

I am not homosexual and some of my best friends are guys...and they don't want to secretly "bed" me as you put it...just b/c this might be your story does not mean all guys are like that...if you are in your 30's you need to grow up and learn to deal with life....there are much worse things going on then you not having a good date

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496569)

THat's not my phone number. Back in Sigma Nu we were assigned numbers. Maybe things are much different.

I was never "assigned" a number and I'm a Sigma Nu.

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496544)

I went out partying with my good friend, Kelly, and it was understood that we were going out as a couple that night.

Well, at the bar, Kelly started getting a little drunk. Next thing I know, I'm giving a ride to her and this other guy she started talking to that said he needed a ride.

I dropped the guy off, and then Kelly said that she needed to go inside to use the bathroom.

After waiting for a while, I went in to check up and Kelly was in the bathroom having loud sex with this guy.

I was humiliated and drove home crying. The next day Kelly called up and was acting all innocent. When I said I didn't want to talk to her, she said that I was just a "Wierd stalker Jewish asshole" and she hated me.

I've just had a very bad couple of years. I hate to go on and on, but it all started last summer when I lost my job at Adbrite. My boss, Pud Kaplan, lost the position as CEO. On his way being escorted out of the building, he yelled at me and called me a fruitcake.

A few weeks later, I was canned. I tried to go out at night to make myself feel better. I ended up with this girl I'll call 'Scamp.' One night we were going at it and she was making sounds and I said, 'are you dying?' and she suddenly freaked out and left.

I guess I'm just very depressed. What can I do to feel better? And is there anyone in Washington DC that wants to hook up tonight

Hahahahhahahahahahaha:D

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496706)

I think the hard truth of the matter is... that I don't really like women. I'm attracted to them, but I tend not to like them.

I like old women, they're easy to talk to, no bullshit likeable people.

I can't believe I fell in love with that ho.

Hahahahahahahahaha:p

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496688)

I might whine a lot, but it's only because I know I'm a beta male.

wtf? :confused:

Awww...come on ladies...why are you all giving this guy a hard time...you can see he is sensitive.,..I mean after all he drove home crying... (insert snicker here)

and...he even talked to the hoe (I mean girl) after the date despite she scored (and he didnt) on thier date.....(actualy I will give her props for that, you can't get more ballsy than having sex with a guy you met on a date that wasn't your date...while your date was nearby)

(sidebar: can I ask a question.........and you didn't kick somebody's ass beeeecauussee....?)

what more can u ask for?

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek (Post 1497472)

wtf? :confused:

in other words he is a punk arsed beeeeyyyooottch.

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496706)

American Women are worthless. And from what I can tell from my friend's marriage, they make terrible wives. I'm going to marry a nice, submissive Asian girl.

Wow. Stereotype much? Surely your logic skills aren't so faulty that you'd actually believe that all American wives are substandard to their Asian counterparts?

So your ONE DATE with Kelly was a bust. Can you really say you fell in love with her? That's an awfully strong feeling (love) for someone who doesn't even like women. Obviously, Kelly didn't feel the same way about you. (Or, who knows, maybe she did five years ago, but it's taken you so long to muster up the courage to ask her out that she just couldn't see it happening.)

I agree that you should seek some professional help. It sounds like you've had your heart broken (maybe several times), and you're not sure how to mend it. While I'd be willing to bet everyone here has experience with being let-down in love, you're bound to find more helpful advice from someone who has counseled others in your situation.

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Originally Posted by SydneyK (Post 1497813)

I bet money that it's Kelly writing these posts

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1497814)

I bet money that it's Kelly writing these posts

I disagree. I really think Joe's writing it. In fact... this guy sounds remarkable like a guy I went to grad school with.... whose name, of course, was Joe!

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496544)

I guess I'm just very depressed. What can I do to feel better? And is there anyone in Washington DC that wants to hook up tonight?

Singing off,

Joe Wang
8792372632

Hmmm sure looks like a phone number to me.

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496566)

Well I can see you're shunning me, but I just wanted to go back to an old support group from back in my youth. I'm an old Sigma Nu.
I don't have anything to hide... and I just wanted to 'chat' so why shouldn't I 'chat' on a site that is called 'Greekchat.'

Warning bell going off here :mad:

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496569)

THat's not my phone number. Back in Sigma Nu we were assigned numbers. Maybe things are much different.

According to Wrecking Crew above, that isn't a Sigma Nu number.:confused:

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496649)

And the fact that I said I wanted to hook up with someone in the area, you think that's wierd? Maybe this will shock you, but there's just a little bit of casual sex going on in fraternities and sororities, and that's putting it mildly. The prudishness is somewhat amusing. You think that urges like that stop when you get out of college? Heck, you probably think 27 years old is over the hill.

This smacks way too loudly of the occipitofrontal thread saying we were too out there , talked about sex, being a "lush" :rolleyes: and enjoyed Nascar too much. The age mention again is curious.

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496652)

It's kind of tough being in your thirties and looking for a mate that isn't all used up or an alcoholic or something. Savor your 20s!

I have nothing...

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496701)

You'll meet oh so sensitive guys in your women's studies classes that pretend not to be misogynists, but deep down they're all pigs just like me. Which is not something bad.... it just is, you know? It's in our nature.

Not all men are misogynists. But I suspect you might be showing tendencies of one.

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496706)

I think the hard truth of the matter is... that I don't really like women.

American Women are worthless. And from what I can tell from my friend's marriage, they make terrible wives. I'm going to marry a nice, submissive Asian girl.

I hope you don't think I'm too out there, I just wanted to have an HONEST discussion about how I REALLY feel. I want you to all come back from this thread with the feeling that you interacted with someone online who wasn't pulling any punches or editing himself.

Thanks for listening.

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Originally Posted by kathykd2005 (Post 1496739)

Sirikwan?

Yep, I think it's Sirikwan.

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1496750)

Believe it or not, I like the anonymity of posting on the internet. I have included a bit of personal information, but not so much as you could identify me in any way.

What I expect to get from posting: what anyone expect to get from posting... maybe a good discussion where we learn from each other.

Yet you post that you were a former Sigma Nu, post what looks like a phone number and slam every good piece of advice you've gotten. Are you done using us yet?:confused:

Wow, for so many oppossed to the thread itself, there's no shortage of people chiming in to make fun of me. Whatever, it's all good, I'm just happy that I'm honest above all.

I don't need to post here, anymore... while there are some good posters, most are just here to pile on. Could've been a long productive conversation, because once everyone just loosens up about their own prejudices, you really learn something interesting.

And to the guy that pm'ed me, no, no numbers, thanks. I did buy a damn brick though. I hope it's preserved well.

Over and out.

Yeah, when two people both think it's Sirikwan and "Joe's" only reply is, "Over and out," well... I think we have a winner (or, in this case, two). Good sleuthing, kathykd and icelandelf!

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Originally Posted by JosephWang (Post 1497879)

And to the guy that pm'ed me, no, no numbers, thanks. I did buy a damn brick though. I hope it's preserved well.

Fine. I am calling BS on your claim to be a Sigma Nu then.

Feel free to create another account where you do not claim to be something that you're not.

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Originally Posted by SydneyK (Post 1497932)

Yeah, when two people both think it's Sirikwan and "Joe's" only reply is, "Over and out," well... I think we have a winner (or, in this case, two). Good sleuthing, kathykd and icelandelf!

I don't recall sirikwan's writing to be as intelligible as this guy's...unless he's taken grammar and punctuation lessons during the past few weeks.