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christiangirl 03-22-2007 12:34 AM
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Originally Posted by centaur532 (Post 1416909)
I used to be a strong christian...before I lost my faith and became a giant asshole...anywho I also used to believe the same thing. If I had nothing to compare to, the sex would be amazing to me.
The reality is sorely disappointing. You won't know what you're doing in bed, if he's a virgin, he won't know, most likely you'll be really shy about your sexuality and after repressing it for so long, who knows if you'll ever be able to truly open up?
I'm not saying run out, sleep around like a $10 hooker, but...IDK...maybe wait until you're engaged?
Sex is not that great unless someone knows what the hell they're doing in bed. Anyone here will tell you that.
I'm sorry your reality was sorely disappointing. But not to sound like I'm trivializing the whole thing but....it's sex. I will know what I'm doing. I may not do it very well, but I'll have my whole life to practice. Even if that first time, neither or us knows what we're doing, that won't be true forever. Eventually, one of us will know "what the hell we're doing." I'm a smart cookie and pretty aggressive...I'll figure it out. :)

New question: AFTER 2 YEARS, WHY IS THE ONLY THREAD I POST THAT IS ABOUT SEX THE ONLY TO BECOME A "HOT" THREAD?? All the others died after like a page except for one I think.

AlexMack 03-22-2007 12:35 AM
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Originally Posted by ziasha07 (Post 1416918)
Centaur532 ~ I plan on marrying a somewhat experienced man. Not to endorse a double standard or anything but I'd feel quite dumb on my wedding night. And it would make us stronger, if he wanted to wait and be faithful to me for that long.
I will say it does make a difference. I'm all about integrity, standing by your beliefs, but sex is fun. It's supposed to be fun. The most important part is finding someone who you're completely comfortable with in an intimate setting, someone who won't make you feel dumb.

EDIT: ^^^if you say so...remember who's been laid here and who hasn't...

ziasha07 03-22-2007 12:47 AM
I think you misread. What I'm saying is, if we are both inexperienced I'd feel dumb. I will stand by MY beleifs but I can't force "him" to beleive in waiting. By the time I meet him if he has lost it already, he can't take it back and I have to know that now before I meet someone. At any rate, I think I'd feel more comfortable with him knowing things about sex versus someone who doesn't know anything.

christiangirl 03-22-2007 12:49 AM
What a second...HOW'D WE GET BACK TO THIS TOPIC?? lol We're supposed to talk about the potentially diseased people we're dating.

AlexMack 03-22-2007 12:57 AM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl (Post 1416928)
What a second...HOW'D WE GET BACK TO THIS TOPIC?? lol We're supposed to talk about the potentially diseased people we're dating.
CHLAMYDIA IS A FLOWER I SWEAR!

ziasha07 03-22-2007 12:59 AM
Wow... Great connection. :rolleyes: :p

DSTCHAOS 03-22-2007 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by ziasha07 (Post 1416927)
I will stand by MY beleifs but I can't force "him" to beleive in waiting.

Which is exactly why the "how many" question is dumb to ask a man or a woman.

Keep standing for YOUR beliefs and living YOUR life.

The only things you should care about regarding a man's past are: 1) if he's been regularly tested for ALL STDS and can prove that he's negative, 2) does he have children, legititimate or illegitimate, and 3) does he have remnants of his past (former lovers, a desire to be a playa, etc.) haunting him still.

DSTCHAOS 03-22-2007 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl (Post 1416802)
PB answered a question honestly, without passing judgement on anybody and while admitting that everyone has their own opinions and preferences. So what's with the cyber-teasing (this isn't directed at whoever's right above me)?
Honestly answering a question doesn't preclude being judgmental. There was an obvious value judgment in his post and he even admitted so by admitting to a double standard.

christiangirl 03-22-2007 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1417035)
Honestly answering a question doesn't preclude being judgmental. There was an obvious value judgment in his post and he even admitted so by admitting to a double standard.
I never said honesty and judgements were related. IMO, the fact that he started the statement with "I think" instead of "It is" shows that he was expressing an opinion rather than passing a judgement. Unless the double standard is admitting that his values are different from others', then I didn't see one, but that's me.

KSig RC 03-22-2007 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl (Post 1417162)
I never said honesty and judgements were related. IMO, the fact that he started the statement with "I think" instead of "It is" shows that he was expressing an opinion rather than passing a judgement. Unless the double standard is admitting that his values are different from others', then I didn't see one, but that's me.
Nah, the reality is that statements that start with "I think" can be just as judgmental as those that start with "It is" - PrettyBoy is entitled to his own opinion and values, and he wasn't really being a dick about it, but it's still pretty plainly there.

christiangirl 03-22-2007 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted by KSig RC (Post 1417175)
Nah, the reality is that statements that start with "I think" can be just as judgmental as those that start with "It is" -
They can be--whether or not it was here is subjective. I guess my glasses have a different lens.;)

DSTCHAOS 03-22-2007 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl (Post 1417195)
They can be--whether or not it was here is subjective. I guess my glasses have a different lens.;)
Not subjective at all. We all have different lens. That doesn't make the truth any less apparent.

christiangirl 03-23-2007 01:28 AM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1417302)
Not subjective at all. We all have different lens. That doesn't make the truth any less apparent.
In certain matters, I believe even the truth itself is subjective, making an absolute, objective truth, not only less apparent, but downright nonexistent. This is one of those matters.

But like I said: that's just how I see it. That's the truth to me. If you see it differently and no one unjustly suffers from that difference, then that's :cool:.

PrettyBoy 03-23-2007 07:21 AM
I knew this was coming.:rolleyes: Very funny.:D I always get picked on here at this site, but that's cool. Greeks started picking on me my 1st night on this site because of my screen name. Hey, its cool though. My fraternity brothers tease me all the time because I'm not like them. They still love me for me though.;) Besides, I never picked my screen name because I think I'm attractive. I picked it because women do, and I haven't met a woman yet who hasn't found me attractive, so it's not like I can't get with a lot of women sexually, I just choose not too. I want to see what she's about 1st. They always want more than friendship from me, so why not go with the flow.:)

DSTCHAOS hit it on the nose. 4 or more, and a woman is not PrettyBoy material. :rolleyes: You don't have to have a lot of partners to know how to have good sex and please your partner. Why even have sex if you can't please your partner. I would get more satisfaction knowing she was pleased rather than being pleased myself.

I'm not being judgemental, I've dealt with women who have had several partners and I don't really care for women like that. I only dealt with them because they lied to me by telling me what I wanted to hear just so they could get involved with me. I never get along with women like this, so it's not like I didn't give them a chance. If I just shut them out, then that's being judgemental. Now, I'll be friends with them and that's it, and even then I would rather not even associate myself with them at all. You all can laugh at me if you want, it doesn't bother me, I actually found these post to be funny too. Well, I gotta finish my sketches.

Later.;)

JonInKC 03-23-2007 09:49 AM
That reminds me of that Thompson Twins song from the 80's.

"Doctor doctor,
when I pee it's burnin' burnin'
Oh doctor doctor,
is this gon-or-heeeeeeeeeeahhhhhhh"


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