I would first like to know the source of the orginal stats.

There are several sources here's one Child trends data bank.org

I know it's somewhat hard to believe but it is that bad... too many baby daddys and baby mamas but not enough husbands & wives

Amen -my students look at me real strange when I say I don't have any children-and then they ask why- and I say that I have to be married to do so!