We deserve better than this thread! Haha, kidding.

But really, if you don't know the answer to this question by now, it's probably time to forget about it, right?

I don't mean to reply twice in a row, but...

I don't think guys operate like this -- they're not so subtle and calculating, as far as my experience would indicate. Maybe he just calls people "buddy" and it's not a big deal; I don't think it means anything in terms of what he thinks of you. That doesn't mean I think he's interested, but not because he called you buddy.

I call everyone buddy. Including boys I'm secretly in love with! Especially boys I'm secretly in love with! . . . because I am also inclined to call people "honey" or "sweetie," and I worry if I call them that they will think/know I want them.

But I'm a girl, so I'm overanalytical and calculating like that.

At any rate, I second the RC Plan of Attack.

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Originally posted by TheBest!
Bucutie02 you deserved better than that. Just wipe out a tear or two and.....NEXT!!!

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Any posts that include lines like this immediately lose credibility with, oh, anyone who's ever been on a date - if it weren't such a meaningless cop out, I'd love to spend my valuable time arguing, but instead I'll just say this:

bucutie . . . there's an easy way to find out everything you need to know. You just need to . . . ask.


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You don't make any sense.

If I wrote "...NEXT" means (I guess I have to explain it to you with graphics) it means not to take it seriously and move on with someone else.

Clear enough?

I was referring to "YOU DESERVE BETTER!", which is an awful cop out, and sets back her cause. Do you see why?

Would you like to at least venture a guess?

okay- well if I go to his branch, which I might this week- I will let you all know what happens.

I know this thread is kind of lame, but some of you guys need to understand that some girls like myself do overanalyze things and it was bugging me that I couldnt stop thinking about this guy. I needed other people to give me advice and let me know what they thought on the situation. I dont want to keep my hopes up because i dont think he'll ever call me. Oh well! It was probably just innocent flirting- which I guess I do sometimes too- the problem in this case was that I fell for the guy.

Good Luck!:)

Sweetheart,

He does not like you, period...

You run up under him when he's at another branch shows to him you are willing to do anything to be with him...

It like, why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

You put it out there for him to take, then know this, you will get got...

Just know what you are walking into with your eyes wide open...

Besides, he's probably has somebody and doesn't want to lose his chances screwing you too... If you want to be that woman, go ahead, you an adult. But if you are looking for a long lasting relationship, this ain't it...