She should get in some form of punishment for all the cops wasted time. If I were her fiance i would dump her in a second because of her little runaway act news people and regular people were comparing him to Scott Peterson. That is pretty harsh, and I bet some of that will still stick with him even though she was found alive and it was all her fault.

I think that by running away, she dumped him.

No kidding. All the people saying that he should dump her crack me up, because HELLO, she clearly didn't want him anyway.

But she claims the wedding is still on just postponed.

Great minds in orgs that start in Delta and Sigma think alike :D

I know, but people are acting like him dumping her would punish her. She faked this whole thing to avoid marrying him, so how is him leaving going to punish her?

I think she is punished by looking like a dumb ass bitch on national tv. I just think he would be dumb to stay with her after what she did to him and everyone else.

Oh, I definitely agree with you, and I think he would be dumb to stay with her too.

I'm talking about the people (not necessarily on GC) who say things like, "He should dump her, that would show her," when clearly she ran away from marrying him, so she pretty much already did the dumping.

Does that make sense?

Yes. Makes sence. If she doesn't want to marry him she should end it offically and quit saying it is still on. She probably will end up marrying him unless he dumps her offically so she doesn't look even more like a bitch, and that is no reason to marry anyone.

honestly, i think she should be punished, too. i don't care if she was being pushed into the marriage or not. she could have made a phone call to a good friend and said she needed to get out town for a while and wasn't going to tell where she was going. the friend could have told the parents before they called the police. it sounds premeditated. she had cash for the bus ticket...and on her person when they found her in nm.


on cnn yesterday, a criminal profilier said that if they don't punish her for this, then when people truly go missing, the community is less like to be supportive of the search.

I definitely agree!

I think ADqtPiMel made a good point. How can he dump someone that ran away from him?

I don't see the point of charging her. I can understand her panicing after the nationwide attention the case got.

There was a case in Philadelphia years ago where a woman from India was being forced into an arranged marriage. I believe she was a Temple Student. She went "missing" and the woman-hunt started. A few days into it she quietly contacted police and told them she was safe and why she was hiding from her parents.

Looks like she might face charges:

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20050501/...NlYwMlJVRPUCUl

I'm wondering if she didn't want that mega-wedding that she was going to have, but didn't know what to tell her parents or her fiance. I family friend married recently, and her fiance's mom pretty much dictated what needed to be done for the wedding (in Chinese culture, the guy's family traditionally arranges everything, including footing the bill). The girl and her fiance had almost no say, except for who the bridesmaids and groomsmen were going to be and what the wedding gown looked like.

:D

The guy is a tool!

Also he is either a dumb ass, P-whipped or both!

Dude, she humiliated your ass by doing the runaway bride isht! RUN like hell man!