But it's warmer when you have someone to cuddle with...

But he lives in Florida. When I'm at home in Munchkinland, I sleep ALONE, with fans and A/C. The Mr. stays in one of the guest rooms 'cause it's too hot to cuddle.

Okay, good point. But you can crank the AC so that you can cuddle!

Not everyone likes to cuddle. My woman likes to turn on her side...and she snores sometimes. And every once in awhile she has bad dreams.....she tosses and turns in her sleep when she has a bad dream. Recently she woke me up while she was still sleeping. When she woke me and I realized she was having a dream....I woke her up and was like " Baby, wake the fuck up! You're having a bad dream." Instead of waking up.....she hit me. It was actually pretty funny. She's this tiny thing and she's swinging in her dreams. But in real life, she's the last chick you'd think would swing.


Anyhow, I miss my space in bed sometimes.....

I love being unattached. I sleep diagonally on my queen size bed. I don't know if I could adjust to dealing with someone else.

Heated water beds are the answer to keeping warm.

I enjoy my independence so much and I am getting very set in my ways. I don't think I could tolerate another adult living in my house. I love that I know where everything is, because it is right where I put it. I no longer have to clean whiskers out of the sink (that are stuck to toothpaste) because HE never rinsed the sink after his morning hygiene routine. I like that if I left a piece of pizza in the fridge for lunch the next day, it's still there when I pack my lunch in the morning. I have control of the "clicker" and watch whatever I want on tv, whenever I want. I can hit the snooze as many times as I want. I can fall asleep with the TV on.

The only thing I miss about being married is the financial security. But, then again, my money is my money and I get to choose what I spend it on, even if there is less of it.

Dee