Originally posted by lovelyivy84 Well the homothug will unfortunately be the first one and the loudest one saying no.
I see what you're saying Soror, and you do have a good point. I guess it should just be a regular part of the getting to know you process. Don't ask too soon or he'll be offended, but when you are becoming acquainted (second date maybe) ask away. Even if you don't feel comfortable. I would do it flat out, but might caution the man beforehand that even though he might find the question offensive it's a standard one that I ask all men with whom I am becoming involved.
Or get him drunk and play "I never". In Vino Veritas!
Thanks Soror. Sounds good. I'll be following your advice. :)
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