Excuse me, I never said we were having problems. You must have me confused with someone else. So you like harrassing me, Huh?
Good I know there were some real people out there. Yes, I am still in love and getting married soon to this same girl. And how are you doing today,Big Pimpin'?

I agree with what a lot of dog bang said. <<from what i could make out anyway>>

The thing is, stereotypes are pretty unimaginative. Imagine hearing someone say to you, "Nah, you don't wanna mess with she's a XYZ (sorority) and yeah baby girl pretty but she's dumb as a rock" or "Yeah, go for that one cuz she's a XYZ (sorority) and she may be a lil hard on the eyes but you know they known for giving up the azz".

I mean really do you think one or even two experiences qualifies one to say that guys from this frat are dogs. Like dog bang said if the person was a iyitch when he came in he'll be iyitch after being made.

Black women get pissed off <<I know I do>> when those professional ballers say that black women are too agressive, materialistic, negative, etc. and that's why I don't mess with them. What kind of ish is that?

I'll get off my soapbox now; but, I know the same people who are classifying these men as "q-dogs" <makes me wince just typing it> would really take affront if they were classified as pretty but empty-headed or ugly but easy.

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I don't like harrassing you so don't flatter yourself. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif I'm simply responding to what you type. If I remember correctly, you posted a thread on our forum (it mysteriously disappeared) regarding your relationship with some girl. Unless there are two people using your name "dog dog bang bang"?

Ok I'll post...
I was with an Alpha for 10 years of which 6 of those years we were married. When I was in college he took good care of me. He supported me, feed me, washed my clothes (panties included) http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif. And for that i will always love him. BUT when we got married he took me for granted and things went down hill.
Now I have also been with one of my Sexy Bruhs Of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity. We have our ups and downs but underneath he is a good person, that can get on my nerves like any other man.
As far as saying that my Bruhs are Que Dogs, its not an insult if you understand why they call themselves dogs, which is to sum it up Dogs are loyal and protective.
I was an Alpha Angel so I have love for the Alphas, BUT nobody puts it down like the Ques. They are out! And they love their women of Crimson and Cream! We accept them for who they are.
If a man or a woman is going to do doggish things it has nothing to do with what organization they are members of. If you think there is a difference between an Omega Man and a Que Dog, you may not be right.
Now thats my $19.13 worth!

IDEAL08

I'm not the least bit offended by the conversation. To me GC is like a cyber-coffetable. If you would say what you think to friends over a cup of coffee, you can say it hear. I know personally that being in a relationship with an undergraduate Que(Dog)/Omega is a high risk/high reward proposition as it can be with other Greeks or GDI's. I don't mind the sarcasm either. That is AKATUDE's feeling and as long as she can handle the reciprocity its cool. As far as the term "Q-Dog", there is nothing wrong with it. A lot of older members don't like being addressed as such and they shouldn't.

REDS695:
Thanks for the love.

And to all the ladies, pet your Q-Dog daily and twice on Sunday if you want to "manage his behavior". That is how I got housebroken. Now if I can find a way to stop sniffing so many booties.....

Shouts to the GOOD BLACK MEN OUT THERE! Alphas, Kappa, Omegas, Sigmas, Iotas and GDI's!

Hmmmm...

The Alpha: Really cool, extremely smart and super confident, I liked him lots, but had some...relationship issues. We're still friends though.

The Kappa: Lots of fun to spend time with, very intelligent, we're still cool...only one problem: turns out he was married! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

The Omega: Never Dated One (I tried to hook one, but he was NOT feeling me, ROFL), but...my entire undergrad became a "Dogs Chase the Cats" scene. As such, have lots of peripheral with the Omegas. Seemed to be lots of fun, larger than life, down to earth...but none of my Sorors are still with them, so I guess that speaks for itself.

The Sigma: Well...never really dated any. I LOVE my frat brothers, probably a few I would marry today, but er ah...never really dated any. BUT, they are the real-est men that I know! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

The Iota: Again, never dated one. A few of my Sorors have though...mixed opinions.


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Finer Womanhood: the "Cat's Meow" Since 1920

While I was in school, I did not date Greek men, although my boyfriend since 2nd semester freshman year(now husband) was interested in KAPsi. He went Kappa grad chapter.

Well, before my entry into Greekdom, I had some experiences with Greek men.

The Kappa - Forward, sometimes intrusive, cocky, overconfident, yet smooth, a ladies man.. not all that great with the lights out..

The Alpha - Intelligent, (but sometimes gets on my nerves thinking he knows it all) charismatic, gentle, articulate, a let me tell you!!! Brotha put it down in bed!! Umm Umm Umm.....

I haven't had any experiences with Sigmas or Omegas as of yet. However, being that I've recently crossed the burning sands of Delta Sigma Theta, I'm sure my horizons will be expanding in the near future http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

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Determined
Solo
Tenacious
Assertive
Creative
Essence

much respect...

The Alpha Phi Alpha man...escourted me when i was 16 to my cotillion...he (19) was the son of my mothers friend. he was polite and friendly.

The Omega Psi Phi man...*and i use man very loosely*...was a trip and a half. He did not give the fraternity a very good name. But that was as a boyfriend...as a friend...he was a'ight...it was just better off not knowing him.

The Phi Beta Sigma man...continues to be the best boyfriend that i ever had. Considerate, friendly, polite, giving, and brilliant. He was always fun to be with. But as most good things come to an end we both agreed that our friendship was just too good to have a relationship.

The Kappa Alpha Psi man...was nice. We went to a Red & White Ball together. But we definitely had no business trying to date...he was too all over the place with his.

No Iota's but I had a good friend who was one and from what i saw he was a great guy.

...now...hmmmm...should i get on the ladies of the Divine Nine...nah...I'll just drop that one.

peace

Soror! I guess this was such a good topic, I have skeen it "pop" up (in one form or another) around these here parts... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

Skeeeeeeee-WEeeeeeeeee! http://www.plauder-smilies.de/tiere/shakin.gif
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[This message has been edited by AKA2D '91 (edited April 28, 2001).]

From my experience......

Alpha: Very sweet, caring... forever the gentleman http://www.plauder-smilies.de/tales/koenig.gif

Kappas: Cocky http://www.plauder-smilies.de/coolman.gif , but fun & freaky http://www.plauder-smilies.de/party/dance.gif

Omegas: What this AKA can't get enough of... http://www.plauder-smilies.de/love/luvkiss.gif

Sigmas: Don't really know any, but from what I hear....their extremely romantic http://www.plauder-smilies.de/love/mushy.gif

I guess I moved from NYC to soon. Rats!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif

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Sorors I never dated greeks during college because of several incicents on the yard that I had been schooled about. However, I married an Omega MAN!!! He is my best friend , lover, wonderful father and my knight in shining armor....white horse and all