Ideally, I'll wait until I'm married, but I realize that it probably isn't going to happen as I don't plan on marrying anyone before I'm 30.

That's what I thought, too..but here I am engaged now! You might be surprised by your prince charming when you least expect it..

I dunno about that. I don't see men very often.

Yes, because most men don't have a minimum time. "Right now" usually suffices. :p

exactly my thoughts.

I've never been one for seemingly "meaningless" sex, so...

For me, I believe in waiting until I am at a point in a relationship where I see it as a very distinct possibility that he could be a part of my life in a long-term sense... I'm not saying that we have to be talking about marriage or anything, but if not, I have to at least like the idea of sharing my life with him. And if I know there is no way that I could spend my life with him, I shouldn't do it.

Also, we have to have had "the talk" - where have you been with who, have you been tested, what will we do about birth control, what are your views on pro-choice/pro-life, how would we deal with things if there was an issue, etc...

Is it bad that I won't wait more than a week or two for a girl to dish out before I'll go looking for one that will?

Is it bad that once again you are full of BS and nobody cares?

-Rudey
--How are the hot imaginary girls you meet after graduating from imaginary college, being in an imaginary fraternity, spending imaginary parents' money, doing imaginary drugs, and being an imaginary dj?

Rudey....I love you.

--that is all

It all depends; I guess it's an instinctual thing with me. With my two longterm boyfriends before Mr. KR, we waited three months. With Mr. KR, we waited around 4 hours.

Sinner!

-Rudey
--I will wear white at my wedding.

Well, as my wise grandmother always said, "Good girls go to Heaven and bad girls go to Tiffany and leave with little velvet ring boxes."*

*Actually, I'm making that up. My grandmother is probably rolling in her grave right now. :eek:

i think that's a great saying! :D

Well, cash baby, all I have to say is - some things (or people) are definitely worth the wait! ;)

I honestly think that someday you'll meet a girl who you would do anything for, even if it means having to wait awhile or something. (Did you ever see "Cruel Intentions" a few years back? You're like Ryan Phillippe, and he fell HARD!)

Well I do know some studly guys that will wait. But a lot of them cheat while they are waiting . . I guess thats ok though? I mean their GF has decided not to put out for them so they have to get it somewhere eh?