Originally Posted by baci (Post 1719746)

Call me clueless, but I really did not think young ladies did this just to be part of a sorority of supposed "top tier standing".

I recall a transfer coming into my group and we never had a vote. She definitely was not a "fit" in our group and probably would not have been chosen had she gone through recruitment. What I do remember, she was welcomed with open arms and she was truly the absolute nicest young woman. She was a sister and of course she was forever a part of our group.

I am so saddened that people stoop this low now. It ruins it for the young women who transfer for all the proper reasons (whatever they may be) and then, they can't affiliate. It stinks!