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The only thing I can think of pertaining to your statement about 'Guys wanting faster women' is this. Guys are usually (Again not every man) simple, they want only a few things out of life, which are: Money, Sex, Food, Sleep, Recreation, and thats about it. However, sometimes there are a few guys out there that dont mind a civil conversation, that can sit there and genuinely be interested about things other than whats the quickest way into the womans pants. There are some that have enough sense to pull out your chair and push it back in, open a door not only for you, but maybe the woman with her kid struggling behind yall. There are even some that have the brains to walk on the outside (closest to the cars) when you are walking down a sidewalk, or in any other position that may be dangerous (IE Side closest to the water, in near a lake or river). I guess its just really hard to find the 'good' people in the opposite sexes.
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I understand and I see where you are going with this, but I had to post on this topic because I was thinking along the same lines of the OP just a day or so ago.
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Trey- Man, your post was perfect. There's no way I could have said it better myself. Everything you've posted on this thread I'm backing you 110%. Like you said I've always been the guy to pull out her chair, help her with her coat, walk on the side of the side walk closest to traffic, open the doors for her, ect ect. That's how I was raised and that's all I've ever seen my dad do for my mom. Most women today would call me a doormat though and I'm the total opposite. You mentioned that the women on here are going to thrash you. LOL. Don't worry I got your back man. I guess it's you and me against them. :D
christiangirl- The fact that you would consider dating me based on my past posts, I find that flattering and I thank you, but based on your last post on this thread, you probably wouldn't like me very much. I say this because no I'm not a doormat nor am I a push over, but I am very nice and I respect women. Based on your last post on this thread alone it seems like you automatically associate a nice guy with a doormat like most women do. I say that because no one mentioned push over or doormat, but since bad boy was mentioned, you mentioned push over/doormat. I just took that as you meaning that to be the opposite of a bad boy. You mentioned the last guy you were with was a push over based on you testing him and trying him, just to get a reaction out of him. That's all fine and dandy, but me personally, if a woman ever tried me or tested me because she thought I was being to much of a nice guy or whatever, I would just keep it simple stupid and dump her on the spot. That's a game to me. I don't play games with women, and I wouldn't like her to play games with me. I see that as a problem so I think the best way to eliminate that problem is to leave her and move on to the next woman. I'm not a very argumentative person at all, I'm very calm. This doesn't make me a doormat and I damn sure am not a push over. Too me, I consider a bad boy a punk. He's weak, and not a man. cheerfulgreek-Question for you. You mentioned men cheating and how it's hard for women to trust men. I don't disagree with you, but my question for you is why is it when men cheat, a lot the women they cheat on tend to take them back? I had mentioned this same thing in the cheating thread, and the women on that thread agreed with me. Why is this? If the dude isn't cheating, a lot of times women will kick this joker to the curb. This is no personal attack because you mentioned this on several of your post, so it's already out here on GC. You mentioned that your X cheated on you and you took the silly joker back. You said you dumped him shortly after that which is cool, but my question is why did you take him back in the 1st place. You're a beautiful woman, so I can't understand why you would take a dumb joker like that back. So why do women take these men back only to have it happen again? |
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cheerfulgreek-Question for you. You mentioned men cheating and how it's hard for women to trust men. I don't disagree with you, but my question for you is why is it when men cheat, a lot the women they cheat on tend to take them back? I had mentioned this same thing in the cheating thread, and the women on that thread agreed with me. Why is this? If the dude isn't cheating, a lot of times women will kick this joker to the curb. This is no personal attack because you mentioned this on several of your post, so it's already out here on GC. You mentioned that your X cheated on you and you took the silly joker back. You said you dumped him shortly after that which is cool, but my question is why did you take him back in the 1st place. You're a beautiful woman, so I can't understand why you would take a dumb joker like that back. So why do women take these men back only to have it happen again?
It's like I said before. I took him back because I thought I could make it work. I already told you why he cheated and I don't feel comfortable posting that. Plus, I felt that since I never cheated on him, he would realize that he had a faithful girl, and I think he eventually did. What he did, he didn't consider cheating, but I consider that cheating. I only took him back for a few days and I just couldn't get it off of my mind that he cheated so I broke up with him. I know I shouldn't have taken him back, but I made a mistake. I'm a lot smarter now and I know a good guy when I see one. |
Thats another thing I meant to add, people have to make mistakes and learn from them on their own. No matter what people close to you say, you pretty much have to figure things out for yourself, but on the same note, you cant keep making the same mistakes over and over and over again. At some point you have to realize that this is wrong and its not working for you, and LEARN from it, and then apply your new found knowledge and wisdom the next time.
It seems to me that this scenario is exactly what Cheerfulgreek did, she made a mistake, acknowledged it, LEARNED from it, and now she pretty much knows not to let it happen again.:D |
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