Your founders [mine too] didn't need to pass that rule because for a long time, we weren't at any schools which accepted black students.

As far as purposes, they change, right? I mean, Sigma Nu was founded because our founders perceived the precursor ATO organization to be abusive of their fellow students, unaccountable to anyone, and just generally perpetrating a reign of terror on the school. That problem was solved, and we still exist. Purposes change. I figure you probably get that.

Because you keep providing such a big target?

Seriously, dnall, I've said it before and I'll say it again -- you've got some great insights and great things to add to discussions. But you do seem to have a way of mixing the good observations up with some disrespect for other organizations and, I've got to say, a little arrogance. I mean, you couldn't really think that no one would take offense at or challenge a statement like this:

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Originally Posted by dnall (Post 2042715) I would say their founding was short sighted. They have lost their purpose & therefore should dissolve or remake themselves with a new change the world purpose. Otherwise it's sitting in a car that's out of gas blasting the radio and pressing on the pedals thinking you're getting to your destination. I'd rather see them out of the way so those members will go to orgs that do actively have a serious change the world mission to accomplish.

As Kevin said, people rarely join organizations whose purposes they find to be pointless. They also rarely take kindly to some outsider standing in judgment of them or commenting on whether their purposes are valid or not. It's just not your call.

I think our two orgs have VERY different recollection of this period. ATO's version is we took the best students at VMI, which by natural effect rather than back room politics led to them controlling all leadership positions of the corps. Hopkins thought he was being unfairly excluded from corps leadership because he was not part of this fraternity & they would not admit him. So, he broke into our original ritual, which involved members washing the feet of new members as in Jesus doing so to with the disciples with all the lessons connected to that. Of course he was ejected with some force, as any of us would do today if some random kicked in the door during in any of our initiation rituals. He then accused our Alpha chapter of hazing, but not in the way any of us understand it now. His claims were required participation in secret ritual, having a leadership hierarchy, and that outside the fraternity they were less than accepting to what we'd today call GDIs wanting to seize power at the University.

I don't see that as any different than modern situations where non-greeks don't like greeks and are mad when greeks control a lot of student government or other positions on campus through what often seems less than democratic means.

That is our recollection of our perspective. I fully understand and respect that Sigma Nu has a different recollection/perspective. Hence, this is not the thing we should seek agreement on.

In terms of change, yes absolutely the mission can change over time. I said specifically that if that original mission has passed away then the org should remake itself with a new bigger vision. ATO completely remade our ritual in the 1880s. It was still the original founder that did it, and still basically the same purpose, but it took that 15-20 years to refine our purpose from what some kids in their early 20s came up with during a tumultuous period of history to a more mature long-term vision for the world.

But, my impression is not that Sigma Nu had a short-term vision. I get the short-term complaint raised by your founders. For better or worse, that's fine (even if your snake is specifically to oppose our Christian basis). But I don't believe that's what Sigma Nu was founded on. I'm not a Sigma Nu so I'm just guessing. That may have been the catalyst that motivated their creation, but I suspect the ritual and meaning of the org from its early days is aimed at something quite a bit more meaningful.

Yes, and at no point have I disagreed with that. I said I want to believe all orgs were established with a grand change the world vision rather than just correcting some short-term injustice or being a social club. I was asked my personal opinion on the theoretical case of an org having either lost its way or never having had such a broad meaningful mission in the first place. And I said, they should get back to their roots &/or remake themselves with such a purpose for being, or they should cease to exist. I don't want anyone to dissolve. I want them to find that change the world mission and focus the existence of their org on that.

You're right that it's not my place to judge if any particular org does or does not have such a purpose, and at no time have I done so. I am not some god of greek life with the authority to decide if an org has purpose and should continue to exist, nor do I have any desire to be. I haven't seen their rituals & don't understand their meanings. I can only see the surface, and I'll tell you right now that a whole lot of ATO outwardly projects something different than the org I described earlier. That doesn't change the soul of it, and even if I wanted to I can't judge the soul of other groups without being able to see it first hand. So, at no time have I said anything about any other org.

My confusion here is because the only way I can see anyone being angry with what I said is if they thought their own org didn't have a real reason for being and had in fact become little more than a social club. I really hope that no one thinks that about their own org, and if they do I hope they are working aggressively to change it.

How precisely do you reconcile the two bolded statements? It's not your place to judge buty ou're going to do it anyway? It's not YOUR place to judge, but others SHOULD judge and do what YOU think is right?

Lol. "You can only be upset because you think I'm right about your org."

LOL

You are stupid.

What you were asked wasn't exactly theoretical:

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2042392) I don't think you can say that overall, as there are many religious or ethnic groups out there who part of their purpose, if not their primary purpose, for being founded was that they were denied membership in other groups. You can't really blame them for "losing their purpose" when society has moved forward and (hopefully/theoretically) made their purpose moot.

Anybody familiar with Greek life can quickly identify a number of specific fraternities and sororities that would fit this description, so it should come as no surprise that you would be interpreted as commenting on those fraternities and sororities when you said:

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Originally Posted by dnall (Post 2042715) I would say their founding was short sighted. They have lost their purpose & therefore should dissolve or remake themselves with a new change the world purpose. Otherwise it's sitting in a car that's out of gas blasting the radio and pressing on the pedals thinking you're getting to your destination. I'd rather see them out of the way so those members will go to orgs that do actively have a serious change the world mission to accomplish.

Meanwhile, your constant focus on a "change the world purpose" prompts me to ask again:

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2042730) So only "serious change the world" missions are valid or worthwhile missions? Anything else is short-sighted? My org certainly has what I would call a "serious change the world" mission, but I can't imagine ever suggesting that other orgs with different kinds of missions (like, say, change/grow the person) aren't equally worthwhile or valuable.

Then I'm afraid you are indeed confused. Whether you intend to be judgmental or not, that's how it's coming across, and that's what we're trying to tell you.

BTW, being challenged on something you've said =/= angry challenger.

I could not readily identify any such orgs. And I'll tell you why. Cause I don't see behind their closed doors and I don't know if one chapter is the exception or the rule. I prefer to give other orgs the benefit of the doubt. It is frustrating for me when I see orgs give a different impression than that, particularly when they're chapters of my own fraternity, but I don't interpret that to mean their whole org has somehow become meaningless.

The question seemed to me to refer to NPHC groups or sororities. I tried to avoid that specifically to avoid offending anyone, but since you press the point... Similar to what I said about SigNu above, I don't want to believe race or gender is or ever was the basis of any of those organizations. I understand exclusion on that factor may have been the catalyst that initially brought them together, but in my heart of hearts I want to believe that once they sat down and defined the permanent meaning of their org that they did establish a much more meaningful change the world type purpose.

If they didn't, which I still don't believe in history has occurred, then I would find that incredibly unfortunate. That is to me what, beyond the parties and bullshit, what it really is to be greek. In that theoretical situation they'd be missing out on the whole purpose of the experience. Actually, they would be taking good members that could have otherwise been in any other org that does have a major purpose to reshape their lives with.

So, no, I cannot identify any group that meets the criteria listed, and I do view it as an entirely theoretical question. I don't know how anyone could know it to be otherwise about any org particular unless they are an initiate with some experience beyond their own chapter.

The key word you're hunting for in those two bolded statements is "particular." I answered a question about my opinion on a theoretical situation that as far as I know does not exist. And then I said it is not my place to judge if that situation actually exists in any particular org. Those two statements juxtapose perfectly well together.

If it makes either of you feel better, I will retract the way I originally stated my opinion, and say instead: If MY fraternity lost touch with its purpose, I would move heaven and earth to force it to reconnect. If it did not have an original change the world purpose or had completed that purpose, then I would force by all possible means it to remake itself with such a purpose nationally and permanently. If I found that not to be possible, I would work to dissolve it, not because I don't love it, but because exactly because I do.

Thanks, dnall. I understand where you were coming from much better now. While you read 33girl's question theoretically, I read it concretely -- as a reference to orgs like those in the NPHC or traditionally Jewish orgs. So, I read your answer as a concrete response, complete with "they should dissolve." Given the posts of those who responded to you, including 33girl, I'd wager they were all looking at the question and answer concretely as well. Hence the breakdown in communication. Ah, the challenges of the internet..

I got no problem at all with that.


But I am still curious as to why the emphasis on a "change the world" purpose as opposed some other noble purposes.

MC you have so much more rationality than I do with this poster.

+ 5 million e-points.