I'm more amused than angry. Good luck in figuring yourself out before you even look to Greekdom to accept you.

I have to agree with her. I can't understand the need for extremely condescending posts towards a kid who is probably 17 or 18. Of course she needs to "figure herself out", she's a teenager. The rest of them do, too. And considering that even at these highly competitive recruitments, the groups selecting new members include a LOT of teenagers, she'll be just fine. "Greekdom" is composed of teenagers just like her, too.

Kid, exactly.

Kids don't get to tell adults to calm down. LOL.

Exactly.

In other threads, you all tell people to worry about college because you go to college to learn and not the be Greek. Well, I say to worry about yourself, and then college, and then Greekdom. You all are telling her about recs and stuff. LOL. She brought herself to Greekchat but Greekdom isn't what her thread's about, as far as I'm concerned.

Personally, I realize that I am a stranger on a messageboard. She's asked about Greek life and that's what I can help her with. I do not presume to imagine she needs or wants unsolicited life advice from me....or anyone else here.

Whatever. You come here and share your Imitation of Life story and you will not be able to control how we respond. Period.

:)

That's correct. Only Dr. Phil has control over how she treats others.

clever..

but, I meant i can take someone saying yes they are racist or something along those lines.

what i do not need is some rude person sitting on their computer telling me that i should "figure my self out."

being blunt and being rude are two different things.

And I've been polite to you although I want you to shut the fuck up.