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People were locked up until their family paid their debts and often died. Later they were often required to pay for their keep too. You mostly sound personally affronted that they had the audacity to make a choice different than yours and HOW DARE THEY. |
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Sorry if it makes you feel like a sucker for working hard, having good credit and getting to keep your house, though I'm not sure why it would, but this is all a civil matter and no one's a thief by any sense of the word. |
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Well, at least somebody is as outraged as I am...
Thos of you who are saying they arent a thieves due to a technicality of the term - :rolleyes:. If you take something without paying for it, and it was not a gift to you, then it is considered stealing. If you have money to go to Outback, and boating, and gambling, then you have money to pay your mortgage. The good news is, thanks to asshats like these, the lenders have finally toughened up to where they should have been all along. Because my husband is not working full time, and only acquired his part time job 3 months ago, the lenders will not count his income as income, Therefore, for us to buy a house, we have to rely on my income alone. By myself, I qualified to a whole $100K. My credit is high (no credit card debt) but I have student loan debt. So as disappointing as it is that I cant look in the 130-150K price bracket that I wish for, at least I know what I'm capable of for now. So I can either get a home at 100K, or I can wait until I have some of these student loans out of the way, or for my husband to graduate and get a full time job so that we can qualify for more. As hacked off as I am at these irresponsible freaks, at least I know I'm not going to be like them - because I am restricted to what I truly CAN afford, and not just on a dream. |
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Through the Looking Glass, Chapter VI. Words have meaning. Recognizing that isn't a technicality; it's good communication. |
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I'm still missing how they're getting away with anything that can't be handled by the bank. Do they get to keep a lump sum of money and/or a house to show for their stealing? Drolefile once told me to not get stuck in the literal (despite how words and phrases have meanings) because you miss the general point that is being made. :) People are debating the "theft" and "steal" parts of this when we all agree that it's not a good thing what these people are doing. What are some solutions to this problem that don't involve extremes of labeling these people based on the criminal code (because, as was said already, all of the people in debt aren't spending money at Outback)? |
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Legally, the house belongs to the owner/borrower, whose name is on the deed. The bank has a secured loan, with the real property as the security. If the owner/borrower defaults on the loan, the bank has the right under the terms of the loan to initiate legal proceedings to take possession of the property (which wouldn't be necessary if the bank already owned the property) and have the property sold in order to satisfy the loan. But despite the fact that people say it all the time, the bank does not own the property unless and until it forecloses. Hence, no stealing. Call them deadbeats, call them defaulters, call them useless. But thieves simply doesn't fit because they, not the bank, own the property. Meanwhile, what Dr. Phil said. |
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