The fact that you said, "despite what everyone thinks," leads me to believe that the "friend" in your dorm was YOU.

I wonder...:rolleyes:

Good luck! And be sure to let us know what happens!

Apparently, she will let us know...

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=107340

Haha nope! this is my first semester in college. I'm a freshy.

But thanks anyways, I'll try to keep you all updated.... I'm stoked. tonight we went and saw the sorority halls. Everyone seems nice. I have no idea which one I'll end up in because they're all great.

I'm a bit confused is App State code for the school she is actually attending? I ask because I thought App State did recruitment in the spring.

general question:

if a girl accepted a bid during formal recruitment and then depledged...can she join another group legally that is colonizing here this semester though its in the same calendar year?

no.

Yes, but Number 1, people have lives & obligations (and for the alumnae helping out at Recruitment: they have spouses, perhaps kids, jobs, pets, aging parents, etc.) and Number 2, it doesn't really set up a great precedent if you treat rushees with suspicion right off the bat. Basically people are busy and maybe finding out someone who wants to initiated in sorority #2 isn't a priority initially.

As to how people would find out - unless someone was to sever all ties with their former contacts, families, etc. a la a witness protection program, they WILL get found out. With Facebook, Twitter, Meet Up, Linked In, GC and the 5 gazillion other social networking devices out there, they will get found out.

Remember, we are talking about sorority women here, and sorority women (and women in general) DO TALK.

Signed,
CP2K, a Proud Sorority Woman.

Bumping.