I've re-read this thread and don't see any disparaging or negative remarks; @futuregreek?, unless you really dislike your current user name, just carry on! And welcome to your lifetime membership. Happy that you have found a home. whatever the letters.

When I first (re)read this thread late last night I had the same reaction as Aztheta: What did you say that was disparaging/wrong/un pc about your sorority chapter? The worst thing you said, I believe, is that you couldn't see yourself as a member. So what? I believe that there are many of us here who felt (and expressed) those feelings about a chapter that we later joined and thrived. Read my recruitment story, I wondered if the girls were too laid back.

What is not ok, in my book, is to say the girls are too fat/not pretty/not hot enough to compare to the fabulous me. That, on so many levels, is something to be ashamed of saying. You grew (as real friendships) as a person.

I'd love to know where you joined. Be proud. You're happy. Congratulations!

Congratulations!! Enjoy yourself and your new sisters!!

Congratulations and thank you for coming back and giving us an update.

Congrats! I wondered how you had done!! I hope you have a wonderful experience at UNL! Speaking of UNL, I did hear that ADPi has a house now! (don't know where, sorry!)

Excellent! I know a few NU Alpha Delta Pis and if they do not already know, I suspect they will be quite happy to hear about the house.

By the way, no address is listed on the UNL Sorority Chapters page for the house. However, on the chapter website, it does say the house will be "... coming Fall 2011".

Here is the picture of the house from the UNL Greek Affairs website.

http://www.unl.edu/greek/images/adpi.png

Oh my word... that house is GORGEOUS! Lucky girls :)