So my question for you is what is your point? Why are you trying to hate on something that a) you aren't a part of, b) apparently cannot get to be a part of, and c) are dying to be a part of? In asking what did you do to deserve this, if you aren't happy with being married to this man, do what you need to do. But as far as trying to blame his lack of bedroom/sexual skills on an organization, you've got things very wrong and backwards. You need to distingush between your problems with him and him alone and leave his organization out of the picture.

wow.

Get out of my head!!

Although your version is funnier!

You need to go back and read the thread or my past posts, then join the discussion. This ain't about 'the organization' the core is about how his bad habits have been potentiated by his zeal, his zest for the organization.

If you were krappy in bed before joining kappa, how does membership make it better all of a sudden? My point is, don't believe the hype. Kappa/Que/Sigma/Alpha/Iota/Mason membership is not a magical form of Viagra. Viagra only serves to change a slow sluggish man into a jack rabbit. Neither is completely satisfying.

Older men who become members in grad, shouldn't believe that their virility has changed. A preemie is a preemie and a frat can't help that problem. You are who you are, letters or not.

And again, I say, what is your point? You are constantly comparing your husbands lack of bedroom skills to his organization. They have nothing to do with nothing! If he was bad in bed beforehand, that's YOUR problem and issue! Again, it has nothing to do with his organization.
If he has a zest and zeal for KAP, then great and wonderful for him. But your constant complaining about his lack of bedroom skills is again, YOUR problem. Why bring it to the DST forum? Each has NOTHING, and I mean absolutely NOTHING to do with the other. We are NOT Kappas, we're Delta's--get it straight and get some marriage counseling or some sex therapy, or get a Kama Sutra to help SOLVE you and your husbands bedroom problems! Simple and end of discussion or better yet, learn how to use something to spice up the bedroom and quit complaining about it where no one can do what YOU want them to do about it. Or here's a better suggestion, learn how to SOLVE your own problems and chill out!
The simple heart of the matter is that homeboy had problems and issues WWWWAAAAYYY before he joinede KAP. You and homeboy need to sit down and talk about those habits and if you don't wanna talk about them, then get counseling, get a job, get out of the house, or just plain and simple, get a life and move on. If not, then stop complaining about it and look at what YOUR behaviors are that ARE obviously contributing to the problems that you have in YOUR marriage. Learn how to make it a PERSONAL issue, and stop making it a Delta/Kappa issue.
Now you say, "My point is, don't believe the hype. Kappa/Que/Sigma/Alpha/Iota/Mason membership is not a magical form of Viagra." Ain't nobody believing that BUT YOU! You obviously got duped from jump street. Again, THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM, not a problem of DST!
So let me make it plain and simple for you, a) you got duped by a man--wow, b) you and him don't have good sex--buy the Kama Sutra or the Joy of Sex, c) you're trying to gain sympathy from women that are thinking that you are an absolute dolt right now and it ain't working for you--join another group that can more easily relate to being a wife/gf of a fraternity member not DST!
Is this more clear for you, hope so!
You also say, "You are who you are, letters or not," and obviously YOU'RE NOT!

wait, her husband isn't stroking it right?

LOL.

she put that on the board?

HELL NAW!

tl;dr

For the record, you type too much and need to put some space between your paragraphs.

I know you mean well, but she doesn't want none of what you typed. She just wants to vent and vent more abundantly.

OO OOP, though.

I bet your line name was Little Sister Gorilla Ass.

Dayum. Still hurts to this day...some 14 years later. Get over your line name and I'll get over my issues.

hehe

What you're saying overall isn't wrong. You just seem bitter about your sucky life--if you're not just a troll who is making it all up--and your criticisms are misplaced.

LOL@ CT4. Have a seat, libramunoz...seriously.

Interesting parallel.

I'm just amused that you only quoted the exclamation mark.

Right...I mean DAYUM! 2.5 kids'..."maybe he's just not that into you"...lol!:D

ohhhh snap!

fixed it

:cool:

OMG I'm crying. I started laughing at the Strawberry Letter reference and the pictures of the BANANA SACK just made it better.

One of my friends (married to a Theta Chi) found these undies that said "I Love Frat Boys" on them at Gabe's and we made her buy them. I can't wait to hear his reaction.

CT4, I understand, but being a SWer, it's hard to stop and listen to someone constantly whining about their life and they ain't willing to do nothing about it but whine.
She wants a magic wand to fix her marriage or her sex life, she needs to buy a self-help book and a Kama Sutra!
Being a SWer, I've found that after awhile, sometimes you need to stop your clients from lying after hearing the first 5, 10, or 15 minutes of their bemoaning and set the record straight for them.
OOOOOO-OOOOOOOP back at ya!