Make a friends list. I called mine SL.

Edit the Privacy Settings for this list. Those on my SL list don't see everything else my other friends see.

When adding random people, make sure you add them to this list. It makes it easier to track em down to delete em later.

Add them on Sorority Life.

When they accept, delete them from your Facebook friends.

(I recommend slifetrain.com because you get a lot of people added just from one place. Don't pay for it, though.)

That's what I tried, but it was showing that they were in with my regular friends anyway.

So, if you randomly show up on the fight list even if you're not signed in to facebook, why do I not have any attacks all night while my computer's off, but get attacked by 4 people as soon as I sign on?

They'll show up on your friend's list, but they'll only have limited access to your profile

i have a couple questions on strategy:

when buying/claiming glam, is the goal to have at least one of each item, regardless of how much charm/popularity it's worth, or many of the the top pieces of glam i have access to at my level?

as i level up, i can get rid of the smaller things like party packs, sunglasses and bicycles, right?

also, i really dont invest in the game by completing offers for BPs. so when i get my 1 BP per level, should i save for the next few levels (which would be a long time, as all the good glam is 10+ BPs) or keep spending them on the Summer Vacation Gala and social events that require BPs? i really didnt understand the concept of BPs in the beginning and spent them at the casino. i didnt know that having 30+ meant something valuable!

When you attack or are attacked, you fight with a number of sisters equal to 5x your level, up to a max of 500 (or the number of sisters in your house, whichever is smaller). You should have one accessory, one outfit, and one ride for each of them. So if you're a level 12, you should have 60 accessories, 60 outfits, and 60 rides. Go for quantity first, then go for higher quality.

As you level up, you can start selling off smaller things to buy better glam. Keep in mind, though, that many of the socializing events require that you own certain glam items.

I agree
If you don't have much $$, get as much high-point glam as you can to reach your number of fighting sisters. When you DO have enough $, sell off the lower stuff and buy the good stuff like the Mocha Suede Boots, the Chocolate Ankle Boots, the Dolce Gown, the Silk Gala Gown and the Hummer Limo (but keep what you'll need for socializing events!)

sorority-life.com isn't up anymore. :-(

what levels are these at? im on level 34. i have 2 Hummers already.

and about the 5x thing... i have 35 sisters, wouldnt i need to have 175 accessories, rides and outfits, versus what aephi alum says about having 5x the level? that doesnt make sense to me.

also, is this realistic to have 5x whatever level/# of sisters?

arrrrrggggh!

that sucks! I used that website all the time for the social events that you had to find stuff

If you are on level 34 with 35 sisters, you are attacking/defending with 36 sisters (yourself and your 35 sisters). You should have 36 accessories, 36 outfits, and 36 rides at minimum.

And you should start recruiting PDQ or you will be toast. You could be attacking/defending with 35*5=175 sisters. Anyone I friend for games (I play on FB) goes on a list where they can see only a limited part of my profile. You can also friend someone, add to SL, and then de-friend, and they'll remain your SL sister. So, with a bit of care, you don't have to worry too much about privacy.

I'm at Level 90 with 41 sisters. Does this mean I should have 41 x 5 necklaces, 41 x 5 Dolce gowns, etc?

Is anyone else getting a "temporarily disabled" message when they try to fight?

The game won't let me fight since yesterday, but yet...people are able to attack me! :O

Fighting worked for a bit this morning, so that may have been when you got attacked. Looks like SL is having a bunch of problems. Also, there's a rumor that it's closing down tomorrow?

Some girl BL'd me because she attacked me and lost! WTF! :mad:

I haven't even been able to get it to open today! I haven't heard the rumor that it is closing down, but it sure does seem to be having problems.

I've been getting it too!

Facebook in general seems screwy today.