Back to the vibrators
 

Umm kay, I heard from a certain source that if a woman habitually uses her vibrator, sex with a man will disappoint her. In other words the pleasure you get from a vibrator exceeds the pleasure you get from a man. Is that true?

Dionysus, not necessarily. Sex is in the mind. Remember hearing about how guys think about baseball to delay an orgasm? You wouldn't use a vibrator while thinking about how to balance chemistry equations for the test tomorrow would you? If you have the right partner, you would receive more pleasure from him than any device. Of course, you could incorporate the use of toys WITH your partner for added fun.

Has anyone thought about how cruel a joke that is?

Ladies generally want men to last longer, but also to be arousing and stumulating to their man . . .

The more arousing and stimulating we find you, the less long we last. So if your man can hold out for a long time, even several minutes . .. he isn't superman, he just isn't as into it as you might want . . .

Just some food for thought ;) .

Personally, I would rather be with someone who isn't marathon man. Not only does it get boring, but sometimes it starts to hurt. I prefer quick motions over the slow, lovey ones. Save the love for afterwards. Just make the sex feel the best you can without hurting me!:D As far as oral goes, my favorite method has got to be Road Head. He loves it, it's risky, and the girl is in a great position where she doesn't hurt or get tired. Only, save it for a night car ride, or you might really get into trouble;)

Hahaha yeah...after awile...you kinda lose interest in it. I'm glad to hear a girl admit that it gets boring after a bit.

great response jeff. i totally agree. and i do agree that sometimes it gets boring when a guy just keeps going on some marathon sex trip. all i ask is that i get mine before he gets his. or better yet, at the same time.

shelley j
sigma k

jadey- true true... if sex goes TOO long it just isn't fun anymore. painful, even, sometimes...

what a thread, what a thread...

Sucks to be y'all, lol. Y'all have had some bad sex, man. The best sex does not get boring...EVER. Partially it is YOU guy's fault for sitting there like a bump on a log and not trying to say, "hey look, man. This is kinda sucking. Can we do something to speed it up or make it more fun?" If you just sit there and endure it, what do you expect?

How come some women says it is disrespectful to go to sleep right after sex? Hell, I think I would be pretty tired after some good sex.

Hey guys, ever broke? :D

In response to Librasoul22, I never sit there like a bump on a log, and I am always suggesting new things to try. However, sometimes you just get a little sore down there from all the motions. Anyway, I didn't mean to say that I like sex all the time to be quick. Long sex can be fantastic also. However, I would rather have sex 2 or 3 times a night (or day, whatever) than one long episode. That's just my opinion:eek:

actually studies have shown that good sex triggers something in a guys brain that basically puts him to sleep after he finishes. so girls, take it as a complement and not a rude gesture. you must have been pretty good.

shelley j
sigma k

yup, it's a seretonin surge. Same chemical that makes you feel good can also make you sooooo drowsy.

it's a different chemical for women -- starts with an a, I'll have to think on it.

eh
 

Hey you know what's awkward? Getting the girl out of your bed so you can get some sleep.

How many times have you just finished busting and you glance at the alarm clock and it says 10AM?? All you want is to just give her a gift certificate to IHOP and tell to go get breakfast or go home.

-Rudey
--And honestly you guys should make sure the girl knows she's to blame for not getting off in under five minutes (If this happens to be the case with some of you - for me it's not of course). Some girls set up the equivalent of an industrial strength diamond mining drill down there with their vibrators. After much use, they couldn't even tell if you were throwing stones at their tangs let alone licking it. :cool:

Haha Rudey, that was so funny.

And you're right about those stupid girls who always want to "cuddle" and "sleep in your arms" after sex. The furthest thing from my mind after I bust is getting close to them...especially the ones I've known for just a few days/weeks...they really disgust me and I usually tell them to go away.

I really don't mind doing it with my girlfriend...but after my ex, I doubt there are any "good" girls out there.

Probably if you two quit sleeping around you'd get more sleep.