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Your analogy is flawed. A better analogy would be watering your garden. Lets say that you are watering your flowers which need fertilizer, plant food, and the like. Since your garden is surrounded by grass, inevitably, some of your grass will get the benefits of this care. However, your focus is on your azaleas and daisies, etc because they need specialized care unlike grass that does just fine with rainwater and little else. While you don't intend to neglect your grass, it does not need as much care as flowers, it is hardier and there is an abundance of grass everywhere. Even though you have to step on your grass to get to the flowers, it is not because you like your grass any less. :cool: |
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School Location Chapter Year Initiated University of California, Davis Davis, CA Charter 1998 Arizona State University Tempe, AZ Chapter closed 2003 University of Minnesota, Twin Cities Minneapolis, MN Beta 2003 University of California, Riverside Riverside, CA Chapter Closed 2003 University of California, Santa Cruz Santa Cruz, CA Delta 2005 University of Oregon Eugene, OR Chapter closed 2005 Virginia Tech Blacksburg, VA Zeta 2005 Eta Colony Baltimore, MD Eta Colony In Progress I have a few thoughts but I will hold my tongue |
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I just want to state for the record that I don't personally have a problem with anyone joining the org of their choice...no matter what it is. What bothers me is when someone says that they didn't feel that the NPHC orgs fit them when they did very little research (if any) regarding our orgs. Some people will come to this conclusion after their encounter with only one of our orgs or possibly because of hearsay, rumor, or bad press. If you are truly interested in gaining knowledge about us, then do some "real" research...on your own. I would respect a person more if they just said I chose ABC because I liked it...or because I wanted to...period...no explanation needed. There is no need to act like you did any extensive research that would lead you to conclude that the NPHC orgs were not for you. I'm one of those people who likes what I like and I don't feel a need to justify anything to anyone. But there are those that THINK they know what we're all about today because they've observed an undergrad chapter or two that didn't align with our missions or they heard this or that through the grapes. All I have to say to that is...we have a lot of undergrad and graduate chapters and a whole lot of members and I truly believe that MOST of us are doing great things in our communities, things that don't end up in the press and that people don't spread rumors about. If you want to do the research, then really do it and if you don't care to, that's okay to.
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Hmm. All interesting points.
I'm gonna have to agree with whoever said the resources thingie. With the way our country is (ie lack of good public schools, bad support for the poor, etc.) I think if you take the NPHC orgs away, it would be a major blow to the Black community. I'm not saying that that would happen by focusing on serving other communities as well, but it would split resources. Now, there are other ways to help. As far as social programs and developing strong non-profits, the Black community is light years ahead of the Latino/a and Asian American communities. One thing I would like to see is things like the NAACP, NPHC, etc helping solidfy things like NCLR, OCA, NALFO, NAPA, etc. because their advice would be crucial to helping build up those organizations and allowing them to strengthen their own communites. However, right now, there just isn't enoug communication between organizations to really build effective coalitions that truly address the hearts of the issues. I mean, it's kind of a Catch 22. You need to help your own community because no one else will focus on it, yet when all the various communities focus on their own issues, it makes it harder to see the big picture at times and create coalitions that could possibly help one's own community and the communities of others. Hahahaha, I could go on for HOURS about this topic, but I'm sure people are bored of my post by now! :D |
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Also, who researches anything if at first they don't find it interesting or befitting? That's sort of like calling out someone for not buying a certain car...because although it's fast and popular...your head bumps the ceiling when you sit in it. |
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I joined AKA because of what I saw in AKA, not because of what I did not see in other organizations, and that is the only way that I would talk about my reasons for choosing my sorority. I would not frame my choice as a rejection of what I saw in other organizations, but as an embracing of what I saw in AKA.
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This still boggles my mind.
I could never imagine joining a "White Cultural Interest" fraternity (and no Sigma Nu is not always a "whitey frat", we're the minority at my chapter). I honestly had thought that the Sesame Street Generation had gotten past all this stuff. |
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I find the term "whitey frat" offensive. Was it used in this thread? Being the minority at a chapter doesn't mean anything. Quote:
Wanting to be around people with the same interests who tend to look like them? Why would humans ever get past that? There's nothing inherently bad about it as long as it isn't based on inequality or perpetuates inequality. Even people in multicultural organizations want to be around people with the same interests who tend to look like them. That's why most of them have friends, family, and acquaintances of the same race once they leave their multicultural chapter meetings and events. |
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