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PrettyBoy 05-08-2008 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek (Post 1647645)
PrettyBoy, I was trying to see if there was a science to attracting the opposite sex. You arrive and start talking about sperm production, erections and orgasms.:rolleyes:

The last time I checked, the title of this thread was called "SEX". The title that "YOU" gave it. Sperm production, erections, and orgasms all fall under SEX.

cheers, I know animals are your thing and all, but if I would have known this thread was about animals mating and you comparing them to people, believe me, I wouldn't have posted on here.

PrettyBoy 05-08-2008 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1648128)
aight so say if ere'thing is a 10...and she got a corn on her toes...then what

If it was a small corn, I would buy her some corn medication so we could get rid of it. If it looked like something hideous, we would just be friends. Her toes have to be aligned right too.

tld221 05-08-2008 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1648123)
I literally will not get in a relationship with a woman if she's physically lacking in the leg and feet area.

darn, too bad for all those hot amputees. they never stood a chance huh?

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1648123)
You have to go back and read the whole post. I mentioned that some men are like me with the spiritual and emotional connection, but we're still visual.:)

i do real all your posts actually, jarring bold, italic darkred text and all. :D but honestly the takeaway was "i know everything about how men operate: were visual, and way more than women!"

what are you really trying to convince us of?

DSTCHAOS 05-08-2008 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1648127)
....but men are more visual.

This assertion is based on........

cheerfulgreek 05-09-2008 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Leslie Anne (Post 1647668)
I think it tends to go against nature for males to be monogamous.

Actually, there are some animals that are monogamous.:)

cheerfulgreek 05-09-2008 01:08 AM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1647795)
it's what I do...sometimes I have that effect on people...but really, I am a very nice guy! ;)

lol

I know. I was kidding when I said you were mean.:)

DaemonSeid 05-09-2008 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1648142)
This assertion is based on........

my opinion is that some of us are to overtly obvious and obnoxious about it....

think catcalling....

tld221 05-09-2008 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1648418)
my opinion is that some of us are to overtly obvious and obnoxious about it....

think catcalling....

can i just mini-rant and go OFF about how annoying and obnoxious (and borderline embarrassing) it is to be catcalled? its like, great, you think im hot but does the whole world need to know what you'd do to me if you had the chance?

does "being visual" mean being a vulgar ass? i mean really. its flattering, but then its really not. theres a difference in being straightforward about your intentions but another to scream out "yo, we f***ing tonight?"

DSTCHAOS 05-09-2008 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1648418)
my opinion is that some of us are to overtly obvious and obnoxious about it....

think catcalling....

That isn't about being more visual than women, though.

That's about this false sense of masculinity and manhood, mixed with insecurity and a need to assert power in the dumbest of contexts.

DaemonSeid 05-09-2008 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 1648489)
can i just mini-rant and go OFF about how annoying and obnoxious (and borderline embarrassing) it is to be catcalled? its like, great, you think im hot but does the whole world need to know what you'd do to me if you had the chance?

does "being visual" mean being a vulgar ass? i mean really. its flattering, but then its really not. theres a difference in being straightforward about your intentions but another to scream out "yo, we f***ing tonight?"

HEY BABAY!!!! WASSUP WITCHO' PHOINE @SS SELF!!!

DSTCHAOS 05-09-2008 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 1648489)
can i just mini-rant and go OFF about how annoying and obnoxious (and borderline embarrassing) it is to be catcalled? its like, great, you think im hot but does the whole world need to know what you'd do to me if you had the chance?

does "being visual" mean being a vulgar ass? i mean really. its flattering, but then its really not. theres a difference in being straightforward about your intentions but another to scream out "yo, we f***ing tonight?"

It sho don't. :)

And you'll notice that men who are truly secure in their masculinity and their accomplishments are least likely to do the cat calling. Unless they are succumbing to peer pressure, perhaps.

I can think of instances where females have done catcalling as a joke to tease men and let them know how stupid it is. And I can also think of the "types of men" that I can expect catcalling from versus "the types of men" who are more likely to express my hotness in a smarter way. :D

DSTCHAOS 05-09-2008 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1648496)
HEY BABAY!!!! WASSUP WITCHO' PHOINE @SS SELF!!!

LOL

That sounds like the kind of man whose sociodemographics probably don't match with mine, anyway.

tld221 05-09-2008 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1648496)
HEY BABAY!!!! WASSUP WITCHO' PHOINE @SS SELF!!!

:mad:






:D but still :mad:

DaemonSeid 05-09-2008 12:00 PM

you know what I always hate out of the young guys...the spray can approach...

DSTCHAOS 05-09-2008 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1648522)
you know what I always hate out of the young guys...the spray can approach...

tans?
beard dyes?

What?

DaemonSeid 05-09-2008 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1648526)
tans?
beard dyes?

What?

hey...hey....PPPPSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS SSSSSSSSTTTTT...hey shorty....PPPPSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSttttttt

Dionysus 05-09-2008 12:54 PM

I've never been turned on by looking at a man, even if he was really attractive, I guess I fit into PrettyBoy's stereotype.

tld221 05-09-2008 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1648530)
hey...hey....PPPPSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS SSSSSSSSTTTTT...hey shorty....PPPPSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSttttttt

bwhahaha that IS the worst. im like, are you tryna tell me a secret?

Ronnie B 05-11-2008 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1648530)
hey...hey....PPPPSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS SSSSSSSSTTTTT...hey shorty....PPPPSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSttttttt

That's me all the way. That's how I got with my girl. What's wrong with this approach?

AKA_Monet 05-11-2008 02:14 AM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1646369)
I have not read THAT much on pheromones in humans in the top tier science journals. Of course, I am not pubmeding that subject, that much anyways. Last I read, was that humans have too high of complex thought and socialization to really have the need to use pheromones. Of course, I guess these scientists never used aphrodisiacs or gotten pissy drunk that said these things? But, the folks at Pfizer with Viagra, and the others beg to differ on the pheromones in humans concept...

So the question remains, are the rules of attraction in humans controlled in part by genetics? Perhaps. However, we are socialized and learned as to how we attract individuals or attention to us. We use a variety of techniques. Are they different in humans from animals? Somewhat. I think in 1997 Science put an entire issue about that and how to study it.

I found this statement from Wiki... A jump off point.

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Humans

A few well-controlled scientific studies have been published suggesting the possibility of pheromones in humans. The best-studied case involves the synchronization of menstrual cycles among women based on unconscious odor cues (the McClintock effect, named after the primary investigator, Martha McClintock, of the University of Chicago).[5][6] This study proposes that there are two types of pheromone involved: "One, produced prior to ovulation, shortens the ovarian cycle; and the second, produced just at ovulation, lengthens the cycle". This is analogous to the Whitten effect,[7][8] a male pheromone mediated modulation of estrus observed in mice.

Other studies have suggested that people might be using odor cues associated with the immune system to select mates who are not closely related to themselves. Using a brain imaging technique, Swedish researchers have shown that homosexual and heterosexual males' brains respond differently to two odors that may be involved in sexual arousal, and that the homosexual men respond in the same way as heterosexual women. The study was expanded to include homosexual women; the results were consistent with previous findings meaning that homosexual women were not as responsive to male identified odors, but their response to female cues was similar to heterosexual males.[9] According to the researchers, this research suggests a possible role for human pheromones in the biological basis of sexual orientation.[10]

Another study demonstrated that the smell of androstadienone, a chemical component of male sweat, maintains higher levels of cortisol in females. The scientists suggest that the ability of this compound to influence the endocrine balance of the opposite sex makes it a human pheromonal chemosignal.[11] In 2002 a study published in the quarterly journal Physiology and Behavior showed an unnamed synthetic chemical in women's perfume appeared to increase intimate contact with men. The authors hypothesize, but do not demonstrate, that the observed behavioural differences are olfactory mediated. [12]

In 2006 it was shown that a second mouse receptor sub-class is found in the olfactory epithelium. Called the trace amine-associated receptors (TAAR), some are activated by volatile amines found in mouse urine, including one putative mouse pheromone.[13] Orthologous receptors exist in humans providing, the authors propose, evidence for a mechanism of human pheromone detection.[14]

Some body spray advertisers claim that their products contain human sexual pheromones which act as an aphrodisiac. In the 1970's "copulins" were patented as products which release human pheromones, based on research on rhesus monkeys.[15] Subsequently, androstenone, axillary sweat, and "vomodors" have been claimed to act as human pheromones.[16] Despite these claims, no pheromonal substance has ever been demonstrated to directly influence human behavior in a peer reviewed study.[15][17][16]

cheerfulgreek 05-11-2008 06:37 AM

^^^^This is really good. AKA_Monet thanks for this.:)

Also, I'm not sure if any of you heard of this experimental compound called bremelanotide, it's like a peptide which is currently still under development. What it does is, it blocks certain receptors in the brain that are involved in regulating basic drives such as eating and sex. So I'm guessing that it has an effect on boosting sexual arousal and desire in men and women. Pretty cool drug.:p

Hey, did you guys know that researchers at MIT are developing phone tech to make it easier to meet people? Serendipidy is a mobile phone application that uses Bluetooth to alert users when people with well matched profiles walk past them on the street. lol :D

cheerfulgreek 05-11-2008 07:00 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1648494)
That isn't about being more visual than women, though.

I do think the ingredients of desire may differ for men and women, but there are some similarities. While I did say that men are a bit more visual than women, (depending on the person) I do think that visual stimuli spur sexual stirrings in some women as they do in some men. I just think that men are more drawn to visual erotica, which explains the lure of magazines such as Playboy. I think most female desire is fueled by a richer cognitive emotional kind of thing. Kind of what PB said, but just not as one sided. I think a lot of women tend to experience desire as a result of feeling comfortable with themselves and the partner, or feeling safe and perceiving a true bond with the partner, yet the sexual imagery devoid of emotional connections can arouse some women just as it can in men. So like I said earlier to Daemon, it really altogether depends on the person. Like Dionysus said, for me too, it's so much for to it than just looks.

Coramoor 05-11-2008 07:31 AM

If by richer cognitive emotional thing you mean financial health, social status, and masculinity then I agree.

DSTCHAOS 05-11-2008 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek (Post 1649228)
I do think the ingredients of desire may differ for men and women, but there are some similarities. While I did say that men are a bit more visual than women, (depending on the person) I do think that visual stimuli spur sexual stirrings in some women as they do in some men. I just think that men are more drawn to visual erotica, which explains the lure of magazines such as Playboy. I think most female desire is fueled by a richer cognitive emotional kind of thing. Kind of what PB said, but just not as one sided. I think a lot of women tend to experience desire as a result of feeling comfortable with themselves and the partner, or feeling safe and perceiving a true bond with the partner, yet the sexual imagery devoid of emotional connections can arouse some women just as it can in men. So like I said earlier to Daemon, it really altogether depends on the person. Like Dionysus said, for me too, it's so much for to it than just looks.

You've got me goin' in circlesssssss....

cheerfulgreek 05-11-2008 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1649312)
You've got me goin' in circlesssssss....

Huh? What now, I'm generalizing again?:)

AKA_Monet 04-03-2009 05:39 PM

ttt

I found this interesting... Take the quiz, too!!!

Biggest Sex Myths--Exposed!!! ;)

It is amazing that some folks do not know this information, especially after being a college graduate... However, I would not be shocked these days... :rolleyes:


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