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DSTCHAOS 10-05-2007 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by lillady85 (Post 1532929)
If you know for a fact that someone is in a NPHC sorority and has now pledged an NPC sorority...should you say something?


Yes.

DSTCHAOS 10-05-2007 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by KAPital PHINUst (Post 1533848)
I have the challenge that call on the issue of local orgs. I don't think that founding or being a member of a local GLO inherently bars you from membership in a more established national social org.

I would think depending on the degree the local was a full-fledged (locally) well-known established fraternity as opposed to it being an unorganized or unincorporated Greek letter club, whether or not your affiliation or association with such an org would disqualify you as a member of an NIC/NPC/NPHC organization would have to be on a case-by-case basis.

While I understand by general principle that such affiliation would disqualify you from joining a larger org, due to the lesser-known and less established nature of such orgs, I wouldn't be so quick to say that such affiliation will shut you out of another org, especially if the likelihood of its existence and being "found out about" falls under the radar.

What's the "debate" on this for?

Everyone refer to their own organization's policies and be done with it.

AlphaFrog 10-05-2007 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1533860)
What's the "debate" on this for?

Guilty conscience???

KAPital PHINUst 10-05-2007 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1533860)
What's the "debate" on this for?

'Cause I like to play devil's advocate. You of all people should know this by now. ;)

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Everyone refer to their own organization's policies and be done with it.
My point is that some organizations may not have dual membership policies that addresses local orgs, and due to the smaller nature of the orgs, what constitutes a full-fledged local fraternity from a mere club with a Greek letter name is largely a judgment call, hence requiring such a determination to be made as they arise on a case-by-case basis.

This is one gray area that an org's written policies really don't fully address because of the rarety of the issue arising.

It's not quite that easy to "be done with it".

DSTCHAOS 10-05-2007 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by KAPital PHINUst (Post 1533865)
'Cause I like to play devil's advocate.

No need. There are rules that don't require speculation or debate.

If some orgs do NOT have local orgs in their dual membership policies, it isn't against the rules. Cut and dry.

DSTCHAOS 10-05-2007 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1533864)
Guilty conscience???

On the part of his organization, yes. :)

Senusret I 10-05-2007 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1533875)
On the part of his organization, yes. :)

DAMN.

KAPital PHINUst 10-05-2007 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1533873)
If some orgs do NOT have local orgs in their dual membership policies, it isn't against the rules. Cut and dry.

So to sum it all up:

Local org and NIC/NPC/NPHC org: Depends on the orgs involved. Check with the respective orgs' membership policies.

I love it when there's a constructive collaboration :)

KAPital PHINUst 10-05-2007 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1533875)
On the part of his organization, yes. :)

In your dreams, DELTA!! :)

Folks taking that crimson and cream concept on a whole nother level.

DSTCHAOS 10-05-2007 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by KAPital PHINUst (Post 1533880)
Local org and NIC/NPC/NPHC org: Depends on the orgs involved. Check with the respective orgs' membership policies.

Did you need your "devil's advocacy" to reach this obvious conclusion?

Drolefille 10-05-2007 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by KAPital PHINUst (Post 1533880)
So to sum it all up:

Local org and NIC/NPC/NPHC org: Depends on the orgs involved. Check with the respective orgs' membership policies.

I love it when there's a constructive collaboration :)

I love it when people say fake things like " I love it when there's..." when it was quite obvious that didn't occur. It just makes you look smarmy and does NOT actually make you look like the intellectual or emotional superior you try to be.

DSTCHAOS 10-05-2007 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by KAPital PHINUst (Post 1533881)
In your dreams, DELTA!! :)

Folks taking that crimson and cream concept on a whole nother level.

Huh?

KAPital PHINUst 10-05-2007 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1533887)
I love it when people say fake things like " I love it when there's..." when it was quite obvious that didn't occur. It just makes you look smarmy and does NOT actually make you look like the intellectual or emotional superior you try to be.

^^^(Oh, the irony of this post).

Thanks!

KAPital PHINUst 10-05-2007 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1533890)
Huh?

*LOL and SMH*

Ne'er mind.

Drolefille 10-05-2007 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by KAPital PHINUst (Post 1533892)
^^^(Oh, the irony of this post).

Thanks!

There's no irony there.

KAPital PHINUst 10-05-2007 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1533882)
Did you need your "devil's advocacy" to reach this obvious conclusion?

Naw, just the keep the discussion krunk like I always do. You know how I roll. I get folk like you outta the funk and into da krunk. :D

Senusret I 10-05-2007 12:16 PM

http://brentroos.files.wordpress.com/2007/03/troll.jpg

KAPital PHINUst 10-05-2007 01:06 PM

^^^*LOL*

BlueNYC2 10-05-2007 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by ealymc (Post 1513299)
Please forgive me if already covered, but there has been little talk regarding denouncing your letters in an IFC fraternity and going through intake with a NPHC organization. Does this happen often? Is it even allowed? A recently deaffiliated Sigma Nu brother (yes, traitor knight, as adequately stated earlier) now just came off probate with Phi Beta Sigma and it just blew my mind!

No this doesnt often happen. Its fairly infrequent. I mean, he's a member of my fraternity now...ionno if i would call him my frat BROTHER tho...i mean, i understand ppl make mistakes sometimes and chose the wrong org for them, but yo, there aint no redo's here...you got to live wit that decision you made.


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Originally Posted by lillady85 (Post 1532929)
If you know for a fact that someone is in a NPHC sorority and has now pledged an NPC sorority...should you say something?

damn, i've heard of it bein the other way around, not this way...um, i wouldnt say nothin...i mean, whats done is done...

ladygreek 10-05-2007 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by BlueNYC2 (Post 1533946)
No this doesnt often happen. Its fairly infrequent. I mean, he's a member of my fraternity now...ionno if i would call him my frat BROTHER tho...i mean, i understand ppl make mistakes sometimes and chose the wrong org for them, but yo, there aint no redo's here...you got to live wit that decision you made.

If it is not against your org's rules, why not?

DSTCHAOS 10-05-2007 11:28 PM

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Originally Posted by KAPital PHINUst (Post 1533900)
Naw, just the keep the discussion krunk like I always do. You know how I roll. I get folk like you outta the funk and into da krunk. :D


:confused:

BlueNYC2 10-07-2007 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1533952)
If it is not against your org's rules, why not?

it is against my org's constitution and by-laws. i mean, i'm sure he's not the only one to have done it, so i cant really get up in arms about the whole pancake bizness, but if i knew that he was a pancake, i wouldnt really bang with him like that...i'm not gonna be disrespectful towards him, unlike how i'm sure some other pplz would be(from both orgs)...

AKAShannon 10-17-2007 09:45 PM

Agrees with Still Blutang!

I rep TBS and AKA! Most of the ladies of my chapter of Tau Beta Sigma are also members of a NPHC and/or a service/professional org.

ladygreek 10-17-2007 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by BlueNYC2 (Post 1534686)
it is against my org's constitution and by-laws.

Okay, that wasn't clear (at least to me) in your post.

ealymc 10-18-2007 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by BlueNYC2 (Post 1534686)
the whole pancake bizness...if I knew he was a pancake...

What is "pancaking" about?

AlphaFrog 10-18-2007 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by ealymc (Post 1538996)
What is "pancaking" about?

Flip-floping.

ealymc 10-18-2007 12:14 PM

Always the bearer of enlightenment, AlphaFrog!

TAPchica09 11-19-2007 12:01 AM

Ah to reply to the topic...on my campus (and for my fraternity specifically) we allow members and potential pledges to be a member of a social fraternity or sorority (we're co-ed) and one other professional fraternity. We do have a member that is in an NPC and another professional fraternity besides ours, but it's really rare...and very time consuming. We also have a member that's in Phi Mu Alpha as well as our fraternity...but at my school the theater and music programs pretty much try to support one another the best that we can, so it makes sense.

MinisterPonds 11-30-2007 05:29 AM

Can you??
 
Can you pledge a greek and a non greek??

Senusret I 11-30-2007 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by MinisterPonds (Post 1555176)
Can you pledge a greek and a non greek??

Define, or give examples of, a non-greek organization. It really depends.

fyrnymph 12-07-2007 09:35 AM

Dual memberships
 
Oh, I know plenty of members of another fraternity and Delta Iota Kappa. :cool:

Tom Earp 12-07-2007 03:05 PM

Yes you can as long as it is not part of NIC, NPC, or NHPC.

Any professional or service greek named organizations are available to you.

If once you are initiated into any of the 3 councils while it is not impossible, it is almost so.

Remember the time involved and if you can afford it.

AlphaFrog 12-07-2007 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom Earp (Post 1559414)
Yes you can as long as it is not part of NIC, NPC, or NHPC.

Any professional or service greek named organizations are available to you.

If once you are initiated into any of the 3 councils while it is not impossible, it is almost so.
Remember the time involved and if you can afford it.

Speak for your own council. In the NPC it IS impossible.

STFU, Earpus.

Tom Earp 12-07-2007 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1559417)
Speak for your own council. In the NPC it IS impossible.

STFU, Earpus.

I guess you will never change and even try to be a decent person.

Once a B, I guess always a B!:o

B M and will you give a lip hug to your favorite enemy to make up!:rolleyes::D

Why don't you try to help instead of being such a negative person.

God, you must hate your self and evryone else.:o

AlphaFrog 12-07-2007 04:06 PM

Umm...Drole...help? I don't understand.

Drolefille 12-07-2007 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom Earp (Post 1559426)
I guess you will never change and even try to be a decent person.

Not only will you never change, you will also try to be a decent person.

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Once a B, I guess always a B!:o
I've decided to be like all those LJ moms and call you B! Actually I mean "Bitch" but it doesn't count because I didn't say it!

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B M and will you give a lip hug to your favorite enemy to make up!:rolleyes::D
Either you need to poop or bite me, also go make out with a certain psycho friend of mine.... I mean, I just want to watch.
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Why don't you try to help instead of being such a negative person.
How dare you not ignore my incorrect information. Of course a member of an NIC fraternity can join an NPC sorority if he wants! Why? Because I say so!
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God, you must hate your self and evryone else.:o
God hates Himself and everyone else. We're screwed.

Tom Earp 12-07-2007 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1559515)
Not only will you never change, you will also try to be a decent person.


I've decided to be like all those LJ moms and call you B! Actually I mean "Bitch" but it doesn't count because I didn't say it!


Either you need to poop or bite me, also go make out with a certain psycho friend of mine.... I mean, I just want to watch.

How dare you not ignore my incorrect information. Of course a member of an NIC fraternity can join an NPC sorority if he wants! Why? Because I say so!

Well, I do as a Greek Member. Keep a Grin!

God hates Himself and everyone else. We're screwed.

Well as usual, you explain things to well but always have to throw in some thing untruthful! So that makes you better?:rolleyes:


AlphaFrogie you never seem to understand except what you feel like saying!

God what a waste of a body.:o

Does Your Sorority know about you or are you just a posser?

If I were and ASA, I would disown you!

Drolefille 12-07-2007 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom Earp (Post 1559524)
Well as usual, you explain things to well but always have to throw in some thing untruthful! So that makes you better?:rolleyes:

Drolefille is a wonderful interpreter, particularly when I've been on the sauce. Also my store has never been burglarized.
One of the previous sentences is a lie.

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AlphaFrogie you never seem to understand except what you feel like saying!
Tee hee! Frogie! Get it? You don't understand it except when you want to reply to me. I think. This sentence is illogical actually.

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God what a waste of a body.:o
God was a waste of a body. Thus, Jesus was a waste of a body. Hmmm... I think I should go to church.
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Does Your Sorority know about you or are you just a posser?
Yes are you just a .... well.. one of these things?
http://www.yorksview.freeserve.co.uk...possercafe.jpg
They're those things you used to agitate laundry before washing machines.
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If I were and ASA, I would disown you!
If I were, I would disown you, however I am not, because I do not think.

And ASA.

knight_shadow 12-07-2007 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1559535)
If I were, I would disown you, however I am not, because I do not think.

And ASA.


LOL You're gonna get me kicked out of work for laughing too loud :D

PageantDiamonds 12-14-2007 02:54 PM

I have a friend who pledged an NPC sorority, but wasn't initiated. She is attempting to AI into a different group, and has almost completed the process. I told her that she should relinquish all of her old letters.


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