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ladygreek 03-25-2005 01:29 AM

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Originally posted by skajeff
I believe you said "Black Greeks don't depledge." State your purpose for such brave statement.
Because of the way our processes are now structured you aren't pledging in the first place. And that is all you need to know. Thus it is a statement of fact, not of race.

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:29 AM

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Originally posted by ThaBrickHouse
Where I was going with this 98, is that lets say if one day I lost my mind and decided to denounce or de-pledge Delta. There is no way in the world I could becaome an AKA Sigma or Zeta. When the other statements were made, they were worded as such and such de-pledged and joined the organization which suited him/her better. We don't do that.

It is extremely rare but I have heard a couple of nightmare stories about it. It is more common at the alumnae level and when people have moved to a different state, or something.

But, I agree that it is EXTREMELY rare. I have never heard of it at the undergrad level. The original poster never crossed, so he/she/it can't even "depledge" as BGLOs (and even some MGLOs and LGLOs) use the term.

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:31 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
Because of the way our processes are structured you aren't pledging in the first place. And that is all you need to know. Thus it is a statement of fact, not of race.

LOL :D

We have a couple of different interpretations of "depledge" going in this thread.

ladygreek 03-25-2005 01:31 AM

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Originally posted by texas*princess
I would like to see a statistical study by a government agency citing this very statement b/c I hardly believe it is true. In the century or so that NPHC and NPC/IFC and other types of GLOs that there are, chances are, there have been some African American people who have depledged at one point or another regardless of which umbrella organization you're talking about.

In fact, I would like to offer my own experience with a suitemate who pledged and later decided to depledge her NPHC organization. :)

Daught,even after they cross and decide to leave the organization, the term is not de-pledged.

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:31 AM

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Originally posted by ThaBrickHouse
Word life, because in my chapter, if you tried to pledge another sorority regardless of conference, and then decided on DST, you will not be coming through.
At my school, the young ladies wouldn't even dare.

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:33 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
Daught,even after they cross and decide to leave the organization, the term is not de-pledged.
I know, momma. That is just the term that a lot of people use. I guess it can be interpreted as they are "de-pledging their heart to the organization."

***fixing my halo***

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:33 AM

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Originally posted by skajeff
Not racially sensitive by far, just wondering why he/she had to make some lame statement pertaining to race.

Because,
Delta Sigma Theta is a Black Sorority
Omega Psi Phi is a Black Fraternity
Alpha Phi Alpha is a Black Fraternity
Alpha Kappa Alpha is a Black Sorority
Kappa Alpha Psi is a Black Fraternity
Phi Beta Sigma is a Black Fraternity
Zeta Phi Beta is a Black Sorority
Sigma Gamma Rho is a Black Sorority
Iota Phi Theta is a Black Fraternity


Black Greeks pledges don't de-pledge because the can't depledge if they haven't finished a process Smartecus!

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:35 AM

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Originally posted by texas*princess
Well sorry but what you think is pretty irrelevant :(

The poster is trying to get AWAY from this organization, remember ? :)


You aren't that bright are you? If you are giving this chick advise on what to do from one NPHC sorority to another you are giving BAD advise.

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:35 AM

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Originally posted by ThaBrickHouse
Because,
Delta Sigma Theta is a Black Sorority
Omega Psi Phi is a Black Fraternity
Alpha Phi Alpha is a Black Fraternity
Alpha Kappa Alpha is a Black Sorority
Kappa Alpha Psi is a Black Fraternity
Phi Beta Sigma is a Black Fraternity
Zeta Phi Beta is a Black Sorority
Sigma Gamma Rho is a Black Sorority
Iota Phi Theta is a Black Fraternity


Black Greeks pledges don't de-pledge because the can't depledge if they haven't finished a process Smartecus!


LOL!!!

:p

We don't "pledge," anyway. :cool:


<---- Black Greek

skajeff 03-25-2005 01:36 AM

Yeah, all right. This has gone way too far. I'm done, later.

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:36 AM

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Originally posted by ThaBrickHouse
You aren't that bright are you?
You're so diplomatic. :cool:

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:36 AM

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Originally posted by gillman
The research has nothing to do with it. I am not down playing the organization, I talking about the women who are making their organization look bad. Doing research and dealing with the girls on campus is too different things. And yes, this is greek chat, but people do not have to reply IF THEY DONT WANT TOO!!!

Go grad.

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:37 AM

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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
<---- Black Greek
<---Black Greek!

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:37 AM

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Originally posted by skajeff
Yeah, all right. This has gone way too far. I'm done, later.

Easy means of avoidance: SHUT UP IN THE FIRST PLACE.

ladygreek 03-25-2005 01:39 AM

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Originally posted by skajeff
Yeah, all right. This has gone way too far. I'm done, later.
bye, bye

skajeff 03-25-2005 01:39 AM

Ah man, you keep running your mouth online, so admirable.
:o

You ..surely.. told me. *gasp*

Kthxbye.

ladygreek 03-25-2005 01:41 AM

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Originally posted by skajeff
Ah man, you keep running your mouth online, so admirable.
:o

You <b> surely </b> told me.

on this board you use [brackets] not <arrows>.

PrettyGirl03 03-25-2005 01:41 AM

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Originally posted by skajeff
Yeah, all right. This has gone way too far. I'm done, later.
I'm going to announce that I'm done, as opposed to just being done.

Amycat...you need to come in here and do your job. The quote above isn't about greekdom, and folks are trying to have a convo about greekdom.

:)

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:42 AM

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Originally posted by skajeff
Ah man, you keep running your mouth online, so admirable.
:o

You ..surely.. told me. *gasp*

Kthxbye.

You sure should mind your business and stop being so threatened by the word BLACK as it pertains to a group of people!

PrettyGirl03 03-25-2005 01:42 AM

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Originally posted by skajeff
Ah man, you keep running your mouth online, so admirable.
:o

You ..surely.. told me. *gasp*

Kthxbye.

Amycat....Look^^^^^^^^^^^^^

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:43 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
on this board you use [brackets] not <arrows>.
HA!

ladygreek 03-25-2005 01:44 AM

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Originally posted by PrettyGirl03
I'm going to announce that I'm done, as opposed to just being done.

Amycat...you need to come in here and do your job. The quote above isn't about greekdom, and folks are trying to have a convo about greekdom.

:)

Especially since he pulled the race card--not us BGLOers.

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:46 AM

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Originally posted by skajeff
you keep running your mouth online
Easy solution: SHUT UP.

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:47 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
Especially since he pulled the race card--not us BGLOers.

"Black Greek" is highly offensive terminology.

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:48 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
Especially since he pulled the race card--not us BGLOers.
I've never seen a group so threatened by the term "Black Greeks"

Boogedy Boogedy Boo :rolleyes:

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:48 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
bye, bye

I imagined you saying this out loud and waving at the screen. :D

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:48 AM

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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
"Black Greek" is highly offensive terminology.
98 can you please get out my head today

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:49 AM

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Originally posted by ThaBrickHouse
Boogedy Boogedy Boo :rolleyes:
Bippity Boppity Boo!

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:49 AM

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Originally posted by ThaBrickHouse
98 can you please get out my head today

Ha!

Can you reply to my PMs? :)

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:50 AM

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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
Bippity Boppity Boo!
"Black Greek" Boo

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 01:51 AM

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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
Ha!

Can you reply to my PMs? :)

I don't know how to check em :o

ladygreek 03-25-2005 01:54 AM

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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
I imagined you saying this out loud and waving at the screen. :D
Yep. :D

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 01:54 AM

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Originally posted by ThaBrickHouse
I don't know how to check em :o

You sent me a couple of PMs. Do that again, but instead of sending me a PM go to the right corner where it says "private messages."

That's what I do. :o

ladygreek 03-25-2005 01:58 AM

Re: a serious question
 
Quote:

Originally posted by gillman
I pledged a sorority that I thought was going to be the bomb and it wasnt. On the fourth day I decided that I was going to drop. Is it to late to join another sorority?
You know I just thought of a very relevant question for you that could maybe change our answers:

Were you officially MIPing or were you voluntarily underground? It's alright. Now that you have dropped, you can be honest.

bekibug 03-25-2005 02:16 AM

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Originally posted by AKA_Monet

ETA: In the NPHC, we do not touch each other's potentials or interests... Once they have commenced with their membership intake processes, we refrain from trying to lure them away. Forever... Once an interest in one organization, always an interest. Interest RARELY switch traits. If they do, they will get blacklisted and blackballed. That is how it is done now every since the pledging moratorium was lifted in 1990...

Just a question from a person with terminal curiosity:

What is/was the pledging moratorium? The term sounds like a hold was placed on anyone joining an organization.

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 02:25 AM

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Originally posted by bekibug
Just a question from a person with terminal curiosity:

What is/was the pledging moratorium? The term sounds like a hold was placed on anyone joining an organization.

"Pledging moratorium" means that pledging has been banned in NPHC organizations since 1990. I wouldn't use the term "moratorium," I would just say "ban."

However, in general, a moratorium IS when joining an organization is stopped for a certain period of time.

ladygreek 03-25-2005 02:27 AM

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Originally posted by bekibug
Just a question from a person with terminal curiosity:

What is/was the pledging moratorium? The term sounds like a hold was placed on anyone joining an organization.

In the late 80s, some NPHC orgs did have a moratorium on pledging, so that the NPHC as a whole could address the issues of hazing. Since then all LEGAL processes have been changed to non-"pledging" ones. That it all I can say about that.

ThaBrickHouse 03-25-2005 02:28 AM

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Originally posted by DSTCHAOS
"Pledging moratorium" means that pledging has been banned in NPHC organizations since 1990. I wouldn't use the term "moratorium," I would just say "ban."

However, in general, a moratorium IS when joining an organization is stopped for a certain period of time.


biting my tounge

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 02:29 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ladygreek
In the late 80s, some NPHC orgs did have a moratorium on pledging, so that the NPHC as a whole could address the issues of hazing. Since then all processes have been changed to non-"pledging" ones. That it all I can say about that.

My bad. I completely misread AKA's post. :o

DSTCHAOS 03-25-2005 02:29 AM

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Originally posted by ThaBrickHouse
biting my tounge

LOL


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