You asked how are you supposed to know when you 1st meet a guy if he's that way?

Time will tell. Hold back on the draws and see how long he hangs around. If he truely likes you and only you, he'll stay. If he just wants the draws, he'll get it from a skanky dressed women who's loose as hell.

Nice guys have never finished last in my book. They're just so shy and so am I so it never works. I've never persued the well known or "extra fine" dudes. I find them cocky and aggrivating. Plus, if you are the only guy I'm seeing, why am I not the only female you're seeing. That seems a little shady to me.

Lmao! The way you phrased this was too funny. Seriously, I have seen this happen to girls before. So wrong.

*Insert plug/hijack for Abstinence here*

Hence the quote in my signature "Damn, she pressed the easy button..." This would apply to females who take the easy way out when getting a man. Stole this from the Facebook group:

"For those who are considered to be a challenge and have been passed over or given up on for a "Loser", or unworthy person. You know, those chicks who keep the books closed and legs and or mouth open!!! This group is also for anyone who has been passed over or overlooked and their position was given to a "less qualified" person because someone took the easy way out....They Pressed the Easy Button!!!!!"

Yup, it's very shady, but a lot of men do it or have done it. They like to screw. They can't seem to stay with one woman only. "Long Term."

The silly part about it is these dumb women take these trifling jokers back everytime without fail, then when they get older have the nerve to want a nice guy. Please.:rolleyes: I can't stand a used up woman that every dude has been with. That's trifling. Like I said in a previous thread, anything more than 3 and she can forget it.

Being with only one women is such a turn on for me, because I only want her.

So what EXACTLY is a "come screw me shoe" :confused:

Like this?

http://www.zappos.com/images/586/7133586/73147-t.jpg

In that case, my shoes told me to tell you that the last thing we'd say to you or any other male is "come screw me." :rolleyes:

Those look like shoes someone wear to prom or some type of formal event.

PB you would be so put off by some of the dresses I saw this year. Some of my class mates were scantily clad at best.

Then let's find a different name for them, shall we? My shoes are very free-spirited...they don't like labels. ;) As for finding a woman who doesn't own any shoes similar...well, good luck with that.

Z, I love how that group is "global by popular demand" yet it only has 12 members! :D

ETA: You know, most of the women I know who fit that list (tattoos, small piercings) were some of the most decent people I knew. My roommate was an extremely modest dresser and cheated on her boyfriend with 3 different guys in a month. :eek: In my experience, it's been the quiet, modest ones you gotta watch out for. Can't really trust anybody, can you? :confused:

So what do you like to wear? I have a mental picture of you, but what's your style?

Good...step 1 is admittance. ;) J/k, sounds good to me. What did you wear today, that'll be a more accurate portrayal. I don't know, after talking to you, I can't imagine you dressing anything like your name. No tight white tshirt and Colgate smile. I see you more plaid/striped button downs and khakis. Maybe an argyle sweater here and there. I definitely didn't see the glasses coming, though. Nothing wrong with eyewear.:D

I always tell people that "dudes like me are out of style", meaning the nice gentleman type! It seems like these days you gotta cuss a woman out, screw her friend, then maybe stalk her to get her to look at you twice:confused:

And all of those things are not me! Please add the "rings on every finger" to the list of 'no-no's' too!

The better to knock a guy out if he tries something on the first date. ;)

I think chivalry is like your favorite childhood candy--Haven't seen it in ages, but you can't help but look for it every time you go out.:cool:

Pullin' out your chair and singing *Imma buy you a drank*:D

You guys are great. Old (kidding) but great. Nice guys aren't out of style cause if you stalk me, I might have to call "Pookey, Re-Re, and dem" to give you the business.

Pookey, Re-Re, and dem are out stalking some other chicks!

That's why they wanna protect lil' cousin Z! Cause the know how the game goes. They bank dude for me and then go stalk they ladies. (Lmao, this is so wrong...)

This thread reminds me of a shirt my friend was wearing with some jeans. It was cute, but from the cut, you could tell it was really a dress. I asked her and she said, "Yep, it used to be my favorite dress but, now that I've grown, I wear it with jeans because I don't like clothes where all you have to do is bend over and there's the business." :cool:

*Sittin' down and ordering just a ginger ale...gotta keep my wits about me on the first date* :D

Girl, pack yo bags...I'm takin' you home to mama! Finally a good, wholesome, Christian woman *sigh*:)

PLEASE DO! It's about time somebody did! I wanna meet somebody's mama! :D:D:D

OMG, you are so full of crap!:rolleyes:

Right now I'm looking at 5 different outfits of mine that I know you wouldn't like, and I've gotten more compliments on them than I've gotten on others I wear that would fit your so called "standards". Personally, just because a woman is wearing something that's not to your "standards" doesn't make her a slut.

Joan Cleaver?:confused: You and your fraternity brother should just go and bring someones 50 year old mother home to meet your parents.

christiangirl, I like those shoes you posted. They're cute.:)

Thanks. :cool:


Is anyone else CTFU at the fact that she just said "Joan?" I think somebody just fused Beaver and Girlfriends. :p

1st of all before I even reply to your post, I'd like to know who Joan Cleaver is? (blank stare):confused:
2nd Please don't tell me you own a pair of shoes like that.

Nupe, I think she means JUNE Cleaver (wiki the name if you still got the :confused:).

Excuse me but 50 year old women still dress stylishly, wear stilettos, and know how to be sexy without being hoerish. In fact, they would be too much for these young Nupes to handle. :D

LG, that's the second time in a week. You are officially my hero(ine). :D

Get it! I hope to maintain my fabulousness like you, LG.

im curious @ some of the guys who like conservative women...

is that an "out in public" type of appearance you want your lady to have? i own heels and have mastered looking classy yet slightly sexy. do you want a woman that is that conservative behind closed doors & after hours?

i understand the public vs. private appearance. the public doesnt need to see all of the "sexy" side of me, its for my man in private...

CTFU @ Ladygreek!!! Some people don't know that 50 isn't even middle aged yet.