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deadbear80 12-11-2004 02:51 PM

I wasn't trying to be snooty...but I think you're snippy attitude is a little uncalled for. I was just pointing out that some 'smart' schools do check GPA requirements...and I was talking about 1st years as well. Wash. U. does January Recruitment for freshmen and they used our 1st semester grades, not our ones from high school...so I was pointing out that some 'selective' schools do check GPA--especially when it's deferred rush and they are using college grades not high school ones. I was trying to say that your sweeping generalization was a little too large and that maybe it was different at other schools...
Neither one of us is 'wrong' per se...we just had different experiences. No need to jump down throats.

kddani 12-11-2004 02:54 PM

hey everyone, chill, no one knows everything about every school, things are different everywhere, no one truly knows it all, so chill! :)

sugar and spice 12-11-2004 03:05 PM

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Originally posted by deadbear80
You would be surprised...I went to Wash U--which is becoming harder and harder to get into...and VERY academically rigorous once you're there. I did very well in high school (over a 4.0), all honors and AP classes...and I had a 2.85 1st semester of my freshman year because I took 17 credits and read no less than 1,500 pages a night for all of my classes (on top of being social like most freshman try to be). Just because people are at a good school does not mean that once they are there they still always get good grades. I managed to dig myself out of a hole and never had a semester lower than 3.62 after that...but still. I think you're making a very huge and wrong generalization. Even the 'smart' schools check GPA--ESPECIALLY if they have deferred rush. The minimum GPA to rush when I did in Jan. '99 was a 2.0 and the chapter with the highest requirement had a 2.7--and there were girls who couldn't make that!

I think Munchkin is talking about freshmen rushing, and I can see where she's coming from. I can't imagine that there are more than a handful of freshmen at my school that had high school GPAs below 2.5, and the school I go to is not exactly top tier in terms of getting in. College GPA is, of course, another story. ;)

And carnation, I wonder why they only check the transfer students? At many schools it wouldn't be tough for a transfer (at least a sophomore transfer) to pass themselves off as a freshman if they really wanted to. And I'm sure that if they had been Greek at a previous school and really wanted to join a different sorority now, they might go to great lengths. Checking only the self-declared transfer students still gives the opportunity for many women to slip through those cracks if they really try. Although given the large number of rushees, it's not surprising that sororities don't check everyone, I think it's strange to assume that these women would lie about not having been Greek before, yet not about anything else (previous student status, etc.).

It makes more sense to me that the individual organizations would check up prior to initiation, but when you're thinking up to 80 girls in a pledge class x 25 other organizations to check in with, that's still a lot of people and a WHOLE lot of work. And when you consider the hundreds/thousands of women that initiate in every organization every year, I just don't think that most of our HQs have the resources to deal with checking up on the background of every single girl that rushes. (Clearly they don't, which is why they only check the women who are most likely to have joined before, but this also explains why so many girls ARE able to join a second organization with nobody finding out, or nobody finding out until long after.)

carnation 12-11-2004 03:15 PM

Deadbear and kddani, you have a good point--we've all had different experiences! I have no clue what rush is like at northern or western schools so I defer to the expertise of folks from there about their rush matters. Also, if I think that someone from another type of system has a really stupid way of doing something, I might say that in a pm to a third party but it would be evil to announce it on the forums to a woman from that system.

That's why I dislike it when someone from a different type of system runs down the way that the SEC works. We deal with huge numbers. We know that expansion is difficult at our schools because PNMs often decide before recruitment which groups they want and a new one is at a distinct disadvantage. We do what we have to to deal with both problems and despite those problems, our Greek systems are powerful and so are our alum clubs.

carnation 12-11-2004 03:25 PM

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Originally posted by sugar and spice


And carnation, I wonder why they only check the transfer students? At many schools it wouldn't be tough for a transfer (at least a sophomore transfer) to pass themselves off as a freshman if they really wanted to. And I'm sure that if they had been Greek at a previous school and really wanted to join a different sorority now, they might go to great lengths. Checking only the self-declared transfer students still gives the opportunity for many women to slip through those cracks if they really try. Although given the large number of rushees, it's not surprising that sororities don't check everyone, I think it's strange to assume that these women would lie about not having been Greek before, yet not about anything else (previous student status, etc.).

To pass themselves off as a freshman, they'd have to declare themselves as entering freshmen with no college gradepoint. Anyone with any college hours would have to submit their college transcript.

All PNMs are checked in my experience. Like I mentioned earlier, I get many calls and emails from Pi Phi chapters as well as other sororities asking me about PNMs. If ABC calls me about Ms. PNM, the freshman at Mercer, I might say, "Why's she rushing as a freshman at Mercer? She was a member of XYZ at Georgia State last year," and another one is caught. Somebody in your hometown always knows. They also know--and will tell sororities--if you're a troublemaker or a potential letter pimp. Or teachers will tell sororities if they know a girl cheated her way through school and will probably flunk out if not able to cheat in college. The hometown folks will also tell if someone is reeeaaallll strange.

33girl 12-11-2004 04:57 PM

I know that at our 2002 convention, we passed a bylaw that basically said when you sign your bid to us, you are affirming that you have never been initiated into another NPC group and if it's found out that you have been, your membership with us is automatically revoked. I'm guessing most other NPCs have similar policies.

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And as far as transferring to a new school where your group isnt at, i was told that the rule was that you could not belong to the two group at the same school, so if you transfered then a girl could join a new group.
I don't quite understand what you're asking here, but if you've been initiated into an NPC sorority at your old school, you cannot join a different one at your new school. You can affiliate with your original sorority if it is at your new school (most of the time). As far as local groups, that's a totally different matter.

KSUViolet06 12-11-2004 07:29 PM

As rush kicks up again in the spring, I wanted to add for the attention of ALL PNM's- Lying goes against the principles and purposes of ALL GLO's with which I am familiar. So if you have respect for greek life and want to be greek- BE HONEST. As seen in previous posts from ladies who work in Greek Life offices, etc, virtually ANY lie you tell can be caught.




alphaalpha 12-12-2004 12:22 AM

just to be clear
 
I just wanted to make myself clear, I didnt try to do anything. I was just miss informed about the rules and was confused and wanted to clear up my confusion. I did not do anything nor do i think that anyone else should lie or cheat.

Just want to clear up any confusion.

nongreekloser 12-12-2004 11:23 PM

Doesn't matter, you'll still get cut even if you tell the truth.

KSUViolet06 12-13-2004 01:15 AM

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Originally posted by nongreekloser
Doesn't matter, you'll still get cut even if you tell the truth.
Just an FYI- if you're looking for someone on this board to say "Bad sororities @ nongreekloser's university! Shame on you for cutting her." - not gonna happen. We aren't in the sororities at your school and we are in NO position to speculate why you've been cut so many times.

ADPiZXalum 12-13-2004 01:28 AM

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Originally posted by nongreekloser
Doesn't matter, you'll still get cut even if you tell the truth.
what is this girl's deal?! If you look around enough, you will realize that this (GC) is not the place to send out an invitation to a self pity party.

LovedOne 12-13-2004 01:54 AM

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Originally posted by ADPiZXalum
what is this girl's deal?! If you look around enough, you will realize that this (GC) is not the place to send out an invitation to a self pity party.
Exactly what I was thinking. And she's doing it on at least 5 threads..

ThetaPrincess24 12-15-2004 03:05 AM

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Originally posted by JocelynC
Just an FYI- if you're looking for someone on this board to say "Bad sororities @ nongreekloser's university! Shame on you for cutting her." - not gonna happen. We aren't in the sororities at your school and we are in NO position to speculate why you've been cut so many times.

Ditto!!!!!!!! Once again I will say as I believe myself and others have stated in other threads.......a sorority at any school has the right to cut any PNM at anytime for any reason as do the PNM's have the right to drop any sorority from their schedules at anytime for any reason. Constant speculations and pitty parties are a waste of time and energy. Move on and get over it. Not being greek is not the end all be all.

PenguinTrax 12-15-2004 09:40 AM

Let's just drop this aspect of the conversation, OK?

KDwxgrrl 12-15-2004 10:55 AM

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Originally posted by carnation
They also know--and will tell sororities--if you're a troublemaker or a potential letter pimp.
Changing the subject :rolleyes:

What on earth is a letter pimp? ;)

33girl 12-15-2004 10:59 AM

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Originally posted by KDwxgrrl
Changing the subject :rolleyes:

What on earth is a letter pimp? ;)

All you want to do is wear letters and say you're a member, not contribute anything to the chapter. We called them "jacket sisters" at my school.

LOL, I like your sig. :D

adpiucf 12-17-2004 02:21 PM

Ah! we called that the cotton club--- as in, collect as many tshirts as you possibly can!

KSUViolet06 07-24-2005 11:30 PM

sort of important, so I'll bump.

TXMom 07-29-2005 01:51 PM

incredible that many girls would lie.....on my daughter's applications we had to submit the official ACT/SAT scores and the HS transcript with the GPA on it....no way to lie there unless you changed an offical document I suppose!

kdonline 07-29-2005 02:59 PM

Do the PNMs who lie on their applications ever get caught?

For example, if a PNM says they had a 1200 SAT when they really had 1080, and their Panhell catches this discrepancy - does anything happen?

aephi alum 07-29-2005 03:09 PM

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Originally posted by kdonline
Do the PNMs who lie on their applications ever get caught?

For example, if a PNM says they had a 1200 SAT when they really had 1080, and their Panhell catches this discrepancy - does anything happen?

Yeah, they put the PNM up in front of a firing squad. :p

Seriously, as I understand it, Panhel will correct the information before forwarding the application to the sororities. Thus, each sorority is informed about the lie/misrepresentation and can decide from there what to do.

ejbiff 07-29-2005 06:02 PM

I was a recruitment counselor last year and one of my girls didn't put down a GPA or something. She somehow made it through to the last night before Preference before a Panhellenic member came up to me to find out what her deal was. The chapters had repeatedly invited her back, despite the fact they didn't have a GPA for her or the right GPA. I had to confront the PNM and tell her that if she had to tell us her true GPA. I also had to find out why she was lying to the chapters. She told me that her friends were doing the same thing and that they "knew" they would never get caught telling the chapters that they had higher GPAs than they really did. Needless to say, I explained the whole grade release process and that if she didn't tell the truth now, she would get dropped by most of the sororities if she ended up there becasue they could get her GPA from the school. It took me a good 20 minutes explaining to this girl that she was wrong and that we in fact could get her grades as soon as she signed the release form for her grades. It was such a mess and a pain in the butt having to deal with.

IF YOU'RE A PNM GOING THROUGH THIS FALL- DON'T LIE! THE CHAPTERS WILL FIND OUT YOUR GRADES. IT WILL ALSO CAUSE YOU LESS EMBARRASMENT TELLING THE TRUTH UP FRONT THAN WAITING UNTIL YOU'RE IN A CHAPTER AND HAVE TO BE RELEASED DUE TO GRADES!

TxGirl 07-29-2005 07:40 PM

Is it just a Texas thing that PNM's must submit a copy of their transcript with their application? Also, if you are already in school, the form you sign to sign up for recruitment allows PH to check you grades through the University.

KSUViolet06 07-30-2005 11:44 PM

Here at Kent State, when a freshman signs her application, she's agreeing to let us contact her HS and have her GPA disclosed to us. Upperclassmen are agreeing to let us contact the registrar and view their transcripts.

PhoenixAzul 07-31-2005 09:23 AM

Since we do deffered recruitment..GPA is checked against a woman's first quarter (if she is a freshman) or present (if she's upperclass status) GPA., rather than HS gpa. On the signup sheet for recruitment, there is a box to put your GPA, and I believe that the greek life advisor checks it against Cardinal Web, and if you don't meet the minimum rush GPA, you don't rush.

Kaguya 08-10-2005 11:59 AM

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Originally posted by nongreekloser
Doesn't matter, you'll still get cut even if you tell the truth.
That is pure and utter BS. You were probably cut for the rude, catty, condesending, cynical attitude you are displaying; your username doesn't inspire much confidence in you as a person.

So you didn't get a bid. So what? There are plenty of other things you can do instead of wasting energy bashing greek life just because you didn't get accepted in.

Kaguya 08-10-2005 12:03 PM

Sorry at the above reply to that comment, I didn't read that the topic was dropped until after.


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