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Questions404 09-14-2003 12:58 PM

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treblk 09-14-2003 02:02 PM

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Originally posted by Questions404
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Bahhahahahahaha to funny:D :D

oneinamillion 09-14-2003 03:51 PM

They were already broke up. They just lied and said "the media did it". Ben got fed up with her; probably why he started hitting the town & clubs real hard.

toocute 09-15-2003 09:59 AM

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Originally posted by oneinamillion
They were already broke up. They just lied and said "the media did it". Ben got fed up with her; probably why he started hitting the town & clubs real hard.
I don't know. I think it's all a big lie. I think they're off on some island right now married or getting married. Big publicity stunt.

Steeltrap 09-15-2003 11:29 AM

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Originally posted by Sistermadly
Maybe Ben woke up and smelled the J. Lo. :D
As I've said befo, Ben.Lo, just say no to the J.Lo.Ho.
:p

prayerfull 09-15-2003 11:58 AM

NO SURPRISE! One of Ben's friends probably whupped his but and knocked some dang sense into his head. Either that or J.HO called out Diddy while her and Ben were getting their groove on.

AKA2D '91 09-15-2003 12:11 PM

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Originally posted by toocute
I don't know. I think it's all a big lie. I think they're off on some island right now married or getting married. Big publicity stunt.
It was mentioned that the late JFK, Jr and his wife did the same thing, but went to a small town in Georgia and got hitched. :confused:

Also, someone said, if they REALLY want to get married, it's not hard to do. All you have to do is get a judge or a minister to come to your house or a location and do the doggone thing.

lostnfound117 09-17-2003 12:13 AM

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Originally posted by toocute
I don't know. I think it's all a big lie. I think they're off on some island right now married or getting married. Big publicity stunt.
i completely agree....it is to throw the press off of their trail!

delph998 09-17-2003 11:24 AM

I don't know...I think this could be true. J.Lo has some issues. It's quite obvious.

Kimmie1913 09-17-2003 01:43 PM

Not to be outdone, US weekly says they know why the wedding is off.

From mtv.com
After People reported that Ben and Jen were over, Us Weekly is coming around to tell us why.

In its relentless (and often triumphant) quest to trump the competition, Us Weekly's next issue cites Affleck's penchant for gambling, the overwhelming hoopla over the massive planned wedding, and his mother as some of the reasons why the 31-year-old actor said no-no to J. Lo. The six-page cover story arrives at newsstands Friday. ( Click for photos from the magazine.)

An argument on Monday prompted Wednesday's postponement of the wedding, scheduled for this past Sunday, the article claims. Although it's uncertain what Affleck and Lopez were fighting about, sources say that the spat served as the last straw in their 21-month relationship (see "Ben and J. Lo Broken Up?").

The magazine also claims Affleck spent Friday at the Hustler Casino in Gardena, California, an establishment owned by pornographer Larry Flynt. Witnesses told Us that he spent the night playing poker at a $10,000-minimum table, where he eventually left a loser.

All-night gambling episodes such as this and the one on September 1 at another Los Angeles-area casino, Us sources said, upset Lopez and may have caused an insurmountable rift in their romance.

Other instances that may have played a part in their breakup include Lopez's consultations with a psychic and Affleck's mother, Chris, urging him to call off the wedding so that he wouldn't forever live under constant media scrutiny. Already the fantastic circumstances surrounding the wedding (i.e. constant paparazzi surveillance and the need for decoy brides to throw them off), may have been too much to deal with.

The widely reported stripper incident that took place in Vancouver in July, which found Affleck partying all night and performing sex acts with strippers at a private party, was not a direct factor in the split. The magazine dismissed it as "speed bump," but one that may have all been part of Affleck's master plan. As Us points out, Affleck told Playboy in 1999 that he's prone to creating some incident in order to get out of a bad relationship.

While Affleck was up to his old tricks at the casino on Friday, all accounts put Lopez in Miami, where she was spotted by an Us spy the next day without her 6.1 carat pink diamond ring. She was out hitting the hotspots when the sun went down, but the apparent fun she was having only served to mask her broken heart.

"She wants to sit on the couch and cry," Lopez's friend told the magazine. "If she goes out, it's only because her girlfriends want to get her mind off the heartache."

The magazine does note that the breakup may not be permanent, but if it turns out that Lopez is in need of a shoulder to cry on, a familiar one is already available.

"She has my number if she wants to call me," Lopez's second ex-husband, Cris Judd, told Us.

toocute 09-17-2003 04:29 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmie1913

"She has my number if she wants to call me," Lopez's second ex-husband, Cris Judd, told Us.

:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Steeltrap 09-17-2003 05:20 PM

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Originally posted by toocute
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
Amen. Jo Jo Dancer, Jennybenny dumped your butt. Why would she call you?
:rolleyes:

2Tuff2Quit 09-17-2003 05:24 PM

hmmmm
 
I think that she really wants to be with Puffy. I think she would have stayed with him if her agents and managers would have told her how that situation would have destroyed her career, they are the main reason that she left him. I think they would be perfect for each other, they are both high celebrity status people that love for everyone to look at them. To sum it all up I wouldnt be surprised if they hooked back up. I guess that is just me though.

Steeltrap 09-17-2003 05:32 PM

Re: hmmmm
 
Quote:

Originally posted by 2Tuff2Quit
I think that she really wants to be with Puffy. I think she would have stayed with him if her agents and managers would have told her how that situation would have destroyed her career, they are the main reason that she left him. I think they would be perfect for each other, they are both high celebrity status people that love for everyone to look at them. To sum it all up I wouldnt be surprised if they hooked back up. I guess that is just me though.
I kind of agree. I found Jennifer and Sean Combs to be an attractive couple. Sean, though, really needs to get with a reconstructive dentist. If you are a multi-millionaire, you shouldn't have jacked-up teefuses.:D :p

AKA2D '91 09-17-2003 05:49 PM

Re: Re: hmmmm
 
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Originally posted by Steeltrap
I kind of agree. I found Jennifer and Sean Combs to be an attractive couple. Sean, though, really needs to get with a reconstructive dentist. If you are a multi-millionaire, you shouldn't have jacked-up teefuses.:D :p
You ain't neva lied!
Tell him to take Ja-Rule with him when he goes. :o

CrimsonTide4 09-17-2003 07:24 PM

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Originally posted by Kimmie1913
"She has my number if she wants to call me," Lopez's second ex-husband, Cris Judd, told Us.
Shiiiiiii tell JENNY from da BLOCK to HIT DA ROAD JACK!!!!

Questions404 09-17-2003 10:08 PM

Re: hmmmm
 
Quote:

Originally posted by 2Tuff2Quit
I think that she really wants to be with Puffy. I think she would have stayed with him if her agents and managers would have told her how that situation would have destroyed her career, they are the main reason that she left him. I think they would be perfect for each other, they are both high celebrity status people that love for everyone to look at them. To sum it all up I wouldnt be surprised if they hooked back up. I guess that is just me though.
My mother said the same thing. She thinks that Jennifer's family had something to do with the break-up.

CrimsonTide4 09-18-2003 06:40 AM

Re: Re: Re: hmmmm
 
Quote:

Originally posted by AKA2D '91
You ain't neva lied!
Tell him to take Ja-Rule with him when he goes. :o

Add BABYFACE and FIDDY to the list.

lostnfound117 09-18-2003 08:20 AM

Re: Re: Re: Re: hmmmm
 
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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
Add BABYFACE and FIDDY to the list.


Well, while we are adding folks, you all forgot
"F-A-B-O-L-O-U-S"..... he needs to ride with Puffy, Babyface, and Fiddy to the dentist........................those muggs are jacked up shawdy (said in my Decatur, Ga dialect...hehehehehehehehehe)

And oh my God, I was watching Midnite Love last nite on BET, and they were spotlighting New Edition videos when they were young ("Is this the eeeeennnnnnnddddd).......talk about jacked up teefuses......Bobby and Ralph were hurtin' I tell ya!!!!

Steeltrap 09-18-2003 12:10 PM

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: hmmmm
 
Quote:

Originally posted by lostnfound117
Well, while we are adding folks, you all forgot
"F-A-B-O-L-O-U-S"..... he needs to ride with Puffy, Babyface, and Fiddy to the dentist........................those muggs are jacked up shawdy (said in my Decatur, Ga dialect...hehehehehehehehehe)

And oh my God, I was watching Midnite Love last nite on BET, and they were spotlighting New Edition videos when they were young ("Is this the eeeeennnnnnnddddd).......talk about jacked up teefuses......Bobby and Ralph were hurtin' I tell ya!!!!

Don't forget that Booby played this "jacked up teefuses" dude in Two Can Play that Game, which is in heavy rotation on the HBO in my digital cable. :rolleyes:

nachural 09-19-2003 01:19 AM

i think i bus should accomodate the road trip

include also

shemar moore


and not to get too off the subject. I think she needs to RUN back to Diddy. But I think she and Ben eloped or will soon. And whoever said get the minister to come to the house is right. please marriage doesnt have to be that deep. Say I do already...

Questions404 09-19-2003 08:56 AM

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Originally posted by nachural
and not to get too off the subject. I think she needs to RUN back to Diddy. But I think she and Ben eloped or will soon. And whoever said get the minister to come to the house is right. please marriage doesnt have to be that deep. Say I do already...
Diddy is with his old girlfriend -- and Ben got what he wanted. Everybody wanted a piece of Jennifer Lopez and Ben got a chance to run around town with her on his arm, literally kissing that rear end on a video lavishing her with gifts that he probably doesn't even want back . . . she is the one who got the raw end of the deal. I think she thought that she was going to get a lot of publicity (which she did), but she is the one who looks all used up after giving him the milk for free. She disappointed and he is running at strip clubs with a makeover as the newly annointed sexiest man alive. I thought he was ugly before, but others think he is the cat's meow and now he is on every best-dressed list in the country. She got the raw end of the deal -- but that's what she gets. While she was working on that horrible movie, Ben put an ad in the paper talking about how wonderful she is and all of the above. Ben named her restaurant and at the opening of her restaurant (the one attended by her and her husband), he had one of his boys deliver her flowers. You lose 'em the way you get 'em . . . first cheating with Puff, then cheating with Ben -- then Ben out the door.

Kimmie1913 09-25-2003 04:00 PM

Jennifer Lopez, Ben Affleck turn heads at Georgia courthouse
 
Jennifer Lopez, Ben Affleck turn heads at Georgia courthouse

Associated Press
Posted September 23 2003, 1:14 PM EDT

HINESVILLE, Ga. -- Just because Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez aren't doing much of anything doesn't mean they're not making news.

Hollywood's most overexposed couple set gossip pages aflame anew on Tuesday after they popped into a south Georgia courthouse near Affleck's Hampton Island home.

But apparently it was a gun license, not a marriage license, that the on-again, off-again super couple was seeking Monday.

``Affleck wanted to know where he could apply for a gun permit,'' said Liberty County Sheriff Don Martin, who mugged for a photo before sending the couple down the hall to the probate court.

The appearance has unleashed a horde of paparazzi and celebrity reporters onto the small town of Hinesville, where a court clerk verified Tuesday morning _ apparently not for the first time _ that the couple did not apply for a marriage license.

F. Barry Wilkes, the Liberty County clerk and court administrator, told Us Weekly magazine for its Oct. 6 issue that Affleck and Lopez requested an application for a marriage license several months ago, but added, ``If they had gotten married (already), I would know about it.''

Affleck's spokesman, Ken Sunshine, said only: ``We never comment on his personal life.''

The pair, whose recent film ``Gigli'' bombed after abysmal reviews, had planned to marry Sept. 14 before abruptly calling off the wedding. It would have been the third marriage for Lopez, 33, and the first for Affleck, 31.

Honeykiss1974 09-25-2003 05:03 PM

Good Grief!!!
 
I am sooooooooooooooo TIRED of them :mad: ?

PLEASE, no more! :mad:

Steeltrap 01-22-2004 06:39 PM

TTT/Buh-bye, Bennifer
 
Now maybe Jen can get back w/Sean Combs...

From E! Online

BENNIFER'S GONE BUST: Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have officially called it quits, E! has confirmed. "I am confirming the reports that Jennifer Lopez has ended her engagement to Ben Affleck. At this difficult time, we ask that you respect her privacy," said a statement from her rep. Lopez broke it off January 20 but the decision to split was allegedly mutual.

Strive 01-22-2004 06:47 PM

Re: TTT/Buh-bye, Bennifer
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Steeltrap
Now maybe Jen can get back w/Sean Combs...

From E! Online

BENNIFER'S GONE BUST: Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have officially called it quits, E! has confirmed. "I am confirming the reports that Jennifer Lopez has ended her engagement to Ben Affleck. At this difficult time, we ask that you respect her privacy," said a statement from her rep. Lopez broke it off January 20 but the decision to split was allegedly mutual.

About time she used some common sense. Ben Affleck was dissing her all over town. He called her a Ho on a talk show.

Engagement should be less than two years. I have this philosophy once a man propose to me and if I say yes. I want to be married within a year. Engagement is not "let's wait to see if we are right for each other" period. He should know that before he propose.

abaici 01-22-2004 11:45 PM

You know who I feel sorry for???? KIM. Puffy's about to drop her like a bad habit...AGAIN!!!

CrimsonTide4 01-22-2004 11:47 PM

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Originally posted by abaici
You know who I feel sorry for???? KIM. Puffy's about to drop her like a bad habit...AGAIN!!!
which means she will raise her FEES, err, CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS!!! PLZBLVIT!!! Kim ain't no fool. Misa is because she should have been on the child support band wagon. There ain't no way her child should be getting 6 TIMES LESS than his younger brother!!!! :eek: :( :mad:


Puffy must have the magic stick or sumin:eek: :eek: :o :o

abaici 01-23-2004 12:23 AM

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Originally posted by CrimsonTide4
Puffy must have the magic stick or sumin:eek: :eek: :o :o
Yep, the one in his car!!!

AKA2D '91 01-23-2004 09:24 AM

Re: Re: TTT/Buh-bye, Bennifer
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Strive
Engagement should be less than two years. I have this philosophy once a man propose to me and if I say yes. I want to be married within a year. Engagement is not "let's wait to see if we are right for each other" period. He should know that before he propose.
AMEN!

9dstpm 01-23-2004 06:55 PM

I'm real, real, real, real, REAL TIRED of hearing about Jen and Ben, Bennifer, or whatever the press calls them. J-Lo seems like a really needy person to me. I mean, in the last 5 years she has gone through 2 husbands, a fiance, and an on-again, off-again relationship with Puffy. She needs to sit her big butt down and focus on herself!!! :rolleyes: Maybe she won't continue to make such crappy movies like that hot mess Gigli!!

And Puffy, he needs to stay with Kim. I'm sick of all these men having kids and them leaving them and the mom to be with some other woman. :mad: And if he dumps Kim again, I hope she cleans him OUT!!! And Misa needs to fire her lawyer because whoever he is definitely not doing his job if her kid is getting $5,000 and his little brother is getting $30,000!!! :confused:


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