Whose record?

Hey, if I had known when I joined this site that I would receive a nutty nastygram from a prolific member here stating that I am being "researched" by a group of you with whom I disagreed, I would have avoided even including "SEC" in my username. Creepish.

We'll just have to wait for the official Investigation Biddies report.

This is the deal, Hart. Even if we are wrong about who you are, even if you are not Bama54 or DanceOm54 on Greek Rank, even if you don't belong to the group we think you do, anyone who carries such a deep seated animus toward a specific group and its alumnae for some 35 years has serious problems that posting on public forums will not cure nor offer recompense. Whatever evil you think Delta Gamma has visited upon you is long since beyond worth. In the words of James Lee Burke "my experience has been that grief and loss do not necessarily become more acceptable with time, and committment to them is of no value to either the living or the dead." It's time to move on.

The deal, Tit, is that you are the person who sent me the "warning" that a group of you were "researching" me. Seriously, woman, that is creepish.

I don't know anything about long-standing feuds you maintain on the internet, or what Delta Gamma has to do with with me or with this thread.

You are the person claiming to know my identity, and interrupting threads with off-topic cryptic accusations.

So put up or shut up. And move on. Silly woman.


***ETA: If any of the Investigation Biddies (or anyone else, for that matter) need this particular PM nastygram (there are several), along with my very reasonable and too-patient response (for use in your "research," of course), I'll be happy to forward it to you. Just PM me.

lol, no, for obvious reasons. You indicate that you have knowledge of my identity anyway. Please see your silly response to my opening this thread -- the first post following the OP:


Oh, the drama. And original, too.

I can respect part of HartofSEC's response. I do not want real names posted but if you all have some information not related to GC, I encourage you all to handle it outside of GC.

HartofSEC typed "the deal, Tit." LOL. No disrespect to Titchou's awesomeness. :)

The GC Warriors are some mean people. Damn, my angelic self wears a halo.

Signed,
Lane Swerving Halo Wearing Angel
https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/i...bEIBn8bD95gY8w

okay, show's over. There's your proof, folks. And no, your conclusion is erroneous. "lol" indeed.

*yawn*

Another perp exposed. You're welcome. Good night.

WTF has been happening on GC lately? ... fo' realz..

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http://media3.giphy.com/media/Vn1ddbJqDD4hq/200.gif

This is scarily similar to what my face actually did.

I also offered to "bury the hatchet" if you would agree to not mention my chapter of initiation again. You refused.

The suggestion to bury the perceived hatchet was mine, not yours. You refused unless I agreed to some silly demands surrounding something you imagine I feel about your chapter.

I have the PMs.

Lane swerving back to all things Lilly--

I sew a little bit. It's about $20-$30 a yard on Ebay. I'm going to make some Lilly scrub tops for my friend, one of these days.

As long as you redact the parts about my employer (they need not be a part of this), you are welcome to print them on the front page of the Birmingham News.

Y'all are petty as shit.

So, let me state in words what the shocked-faced gifs are expressing:

We are witnessing two adult women who are at least 20-25 years past their undergraduate NPC initiation, still holding a grudge over some incident that one perceives as real, and the other is not exactly denying it. And apparently this grudge is over some isht one said about the other's chapter.

And we all get to watch this fight on a public message board because neither will be the bigger person and just let it go and walk away. Because I'm sure that whatever this is about, it is really small and petty.

I'm also bothered a little because it seems to me both of these women project the notion that the only thing they have going for them is their sorority affiliation since their feelings over it are so easily bruised.

Oh, and I will never get tired of looking at Prince. NEVER.

You beat me to it by one minute! :p

LMAO

HE IS MY ABSOLUTE FAVORITE! I quote him daily! His side-eye is legendary!


And I agree with your entire assessment. :D

Ditto.

IBTL.

What we have here (on this thread and the other locked Alabama thread) is a bunch of biddies PMing one another about my identity, and clucking off-topic on both threads to provoke drama.

With lots of on-lookers. ;)

lol, I couldn't agree more!

No one is forcing either of you to have this out in public.

Both of you are doing so because y'all obviously need the attention.

You started this thread with the intent to keep the isht going. Don't act like you are an innocent victim.

[QUOTE=sigmadiva;2242400]So, let me state in words what the shocked-faced gifs are expressing:

We are witnessing two adult women who are at least 20-25 years past their undergraduate NPC initiation, still holding a grudge over some incident that one perceives as real, and the other is not exactly denying it. And apparently this grudge is over some isht one said about the other's chapter.

QUOTE]

No, this is incorrect. During recruitment, either last year or the year before, the other poster made some disparaging remarks about my chapter of initiation that went back to when she was in school in 1978. I was there 15 years before. I asked her to stop, she refused and has kept on with little gigs here and there whenever she saw an opportunity. We did have an offline conversation where I asked her to stop mentioning my chapter and she refused. I have no clue what the source of her animus may be. And I never heard of her until the above mentioned encounter.

[QUOTE=Titchou;2242413]So, in other words this is over some petty bs.

Be the bigger person. Who cares what she said.

Has what she said hurt DG's recruitment efforts? Did it stop you from getting your paycheck?

Being in SGR, we are the smallest NPHC sorority in membership for which we get teased a lot!!! I do mean a lot.

If I got angry every time some Delta, AKA, or Zeta made some negative remarks, then I would have died from high blood pressure when I was 21. I'm just north of 35 now.

Really, who cares what one person said about DG all those years ago that has had no impact on DG then, today, and in the future.

Both of y'all need to grow up.

About 1969 or '70, back when Lily first closed up shop, some of the fabric appeared in a North Carolina thrift store that regularly got shipments of tony stuff from NYC. Then it popped up here and there in a few fabric stores (back then every town had a fabric store, even small ones).
When Lily reappeared this century, I did a little googling and found out a lot of that fabric had been smuggled out of the factory by the employees! Back then most fabric was produced in North Carolina.

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Cheese and rice. Stop it, both of you. I'm coming up on my 10 year anniversary and I wasn't even born in 1978.

Stop it. BOTH of you. Seriously. Act your damned ages.

Yes, follows is the original grudge thread, my first posts on this forum (I didn't say anything in 1978, lol). Just in case you have a morning to kill and are really, really bored.

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...54#post2167854