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PhiUSMmu 01-11-2002 10:37 PM

I think that women are more emotional on every subject due to our hormonal makeup. But, that might just be an opinion. (I don't think so, but I can't sight where I've heard it). And also, we feel more strongly towards things because throughout history we've been the ones who have had to hold things together, emotionally bond with our children more outwardly...things like that. It's the whole: boys don't cry thing. But, I'll look it up and get back to ya!
:)

Three_Love 01-11-2002 11:43 PM

I have no problem with someone trying to make money by selling items on Ebay. But when a person buys a pin on Ebay and then uses that pin in an attempt to "infiltrate" (for lack of a better word) an organization, that's a problem. There are lots of "perpetrators" out there, unfortunately.

To the "badge/pin" collectors out there - so, you collect sorority/fraterity badges and pins like others collect coins or baseball cards or shot glasses? Mmm...you learn something new every day.

Me, myself, personally, I just don't think that anyone who isn't a member of my sorority should have one of our pins. But hey, that's just me.

The bottom line - make sure that you have made provisions for what should be done with your sorority/fraternity pin in the event of your death so it doesn't end up at an estate sale or on Ebay.

hocnsoc81 01-11-2002 11:56 PM

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Originally posted by wptw


Here's another thought. No offense intended. In my experience, it seems to me that women tend to get much more upset/angry about this issue than men. Do you think that's true? And if so, why?

wptw

No, not true with me. While I disagree with the practice, it is nothing I would croak over about.

You've caught on to something. I've also mentioned that women tend to get much more upset/angry WITH ANY ISSUE. I admit, I take a few things very personally, but not almost everything.

If so, why? I think it has to do more with nurture than nature. We were brought up that way. Most comply to that, a few don't.

Some food for thought. :cool:

33girl 01-12-2002 12:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by wptw
“Why are WE the collectors willing to pay a higher price than YOU the members?”

wptw

Maybe because you have extra $$ since you just sold an ostrich Beanie Baby to some nut job who was willing to pay $5,000 for it. This is an attempt at humor...

wptw 01-12-2002 09:02 AM

Good morning all,

Valkyrie: I collect these because I think they're beatiful, I admire what they represent, and I love the history that's packed into them. Have you ever been to a place or looked at an object and you can really FEEL the history around it (like a heavy blanket is the best way I can describe it). Well, for me that's the attraction to old greek badges. I research the owners to find out about their families, their school, their town, their career, their death, etc. Sometimes you can find a picture of them wearing the badge, which is very cool. And I have to admit, I also like the hunt.

btw, ZZ-kai-, the $1600 pin she's referring to was a very old Alpha Phi "lazy phi" pin with opals. Gorgeous! And incidentally, it went to the family of an Alpha Phi.

wptw

valkyrie 01-12-2002 03:19 PM

Thanks for the explanation, wptw. I have to say, I can understand what you're saying (I'm the same way about buildings), and I appreciate how thoughtful you are about your collecting.

I'm glad that the lazy phi pin went to an Alpha Phi's family. It was the most gorgeous badge I have ever seen.

Steeltrap 01-12-2002 05:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Three_Love
I have no problem with someone trying to make money by selling items on Ebay. But when a person buys a pin on Ebay and then uses that pin in an attempt to "infiltrate" (for lack of a better word) an organization, that's a problem. There are lots of "perpetrators" out there, unfortunately.

To the "badge/pin" collectors out there - so, you collect sorority/fraterity badges and pins like others collect coins or baseball cards or shot glasses? Mmm...you learn something new every day.

Me, myself, personally, I just don't think that anyone who isn't a member of my sorority should have one of our pins. But hey, that's just me.

The bottom line - make sure that you have made provisions for what should be done with your sorority/fraternity pin in the event of your death so it doesn't end up at an estate sale or on Ebay.

Three_Love makes an excellent point about the pin issue on eBay from the NPHC perspective. Having pins available to any bidder could lead to misguided individuals trying to perpetrate our organizations.

Steeltrap
Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc.
8-EXO-00

AGDLynn 01-12-2002 08:34 PM

I would be glad to know that my badge belonged to another Alpha Gamma Delta. After all, isn't that the reason we all joined our respective organizations..sisterhood and brotherhood?

WPTW, I'm curious as to why you became a registered GreekChat member in Sept. 2001, if you are not a member of a Greek organization. Is it so that you can learn more about the badges and other Greek items that become available so that you can sell them?

wptw 01-12-2002 11:11 PM

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WPTW, I'm curious as to why you became a registered GreekChat member in Sept. 2001, if you are not a member of a Greek organization. Is it so that you can learn more about the badges and other Greek items that become available so that you can sell them?
Uhh... what? I don't even know where to begin.

Where did I say I'm not a GLO member? I am in fact a very active and proud member of an old and prestigious NIC fraternity. I just have never mentioned which one.

I'm a collector, not a dealer. So I buy badges and trade badges, but I rarely ever sell badges.

And no, believe me I wouldn't come to Greekchat to learn about GLO badges and their value. I was doing this long before Greekchat started, and no offense, but I'd bet I know more about a given group's badge than 95% of the organization's members.

wptw

EDIT: I have a question for Three_love and Steeltrap. The "perp" issue seems almost exclusively to be a concern of NPHC groups. Why do you suppose that is?

AGDLynn 01-13-2002 11:55 AM

Thanks for the reply, wptw...I apologize for thinking you weren't a member of a fraternity/sorority. I do agree that you probably know more about an organization than some of its members, epecially the longer one's been out of school...that's a shame.


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