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Gusteau 02-22-2012 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Cen1aur 1963 (Post 2127638)
LOL @ this shit. I'd never say anything was stupid about my frat. I hope another Kappa doesn't see this.

:rolleyes:

Members and non-members of an organization making sophomoric paraphernalia that does not promote the values and ideals of an organization is stupid. That does not mean the organization is stupid, or that members should not be critical of said paraphernalia.

IUHoosiergirl88 02-22-2012 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by NutBrnHair (Post 2126574)

I actually have this hoodie for ADPi in blue and white. It's sold on our Gift Mart :)

Kontagious 02-22-2012 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Cen1aur 1963 (Post 2127638)
LOL @ this shit. I'd never say anything was stupid about my frat. I hope another Kappa doesn't see this.

Technically he wasn't saying anything was stupid about the frat. Those are just stereotypes, and Kappa Alpha Psi wasn't founded on that.

Kontagious 02-22-2012 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 2127478)

This one made me laugh. I've never seen a t-shirt like that. I'll admit, I used to wear paraphernalia similar to the ones you've posted, but that was when I was a neo and through most of college. I stopped wearing the bunny because of the lawsuit. Can you imagine a 60 year old Nupe wearing that t-shirt? LOL.

SOPi_Jawbreaker 02-23-2012 02:35 AM

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Originally Posted by nittanygirl (Post 2127549)

And if I ever saw a man wearing those with my sororities name on them I'd slap them!

Since you said "slap them", and not "slap him", it sounds like you're saying you'd be slapping him right about where those letters are. ;-p

PrettyBoy 02-23-2012 04:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Gusteau (Post 2127684)
:rolleyes:

Members and non-members of an organization making sophomoric paraphernalia that does not promote the values and ideals of an organization is stupid. That does not mean the organization is stupid, or that members should not be critical of said paraphernalia.

http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...ykjFm1CNZ9ZkWU

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Originally Posted by Kontagious (Post 2127724)
Technically he wasn't saying anything was stupid about the frat. Those are just stereotypes, and Kappa Alpha Psi wasn't founded on that.

http://us.123rf.com/400wm/400/400/ra...00-you-win.jpg

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Originally Posted by Kontagious (Post 2127730)
Can you imagine a 60 year old Nupe wearing that t-shirt? LOL.

http://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/24.gif

Cen1aur 1963 02-23-2012 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Gusteau (Post 2127684)
:rolleyes:

Members and non-members of an organization making sophomoric paraphernalia that does not promote the values and ideals of an organization is stupid. That does not mean the organization is stupid, or that members should not be critical of said paraphernalia.

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Originally Posted by Kontagious (Post 2127724)
Technically he wasn't saying anything was stupid about the frat. Those are just stereotypes, and Kappa Alpha Psi wasn't founded on that.

It's all good. I feel you, but for me, I'm not going to make insults about anything associated with my frat. Even if it's shit I don't like.

DrPhil 02-24-2012 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Cen1aur 1963 (Post 2127888)
It's all good. I feel you, but for me, I'm not going to make insults about anything associated with my frat. Even if it's shit I don't like.

I agree with you on the larger point. However, some of the items in this thread are not only ugly, they are violations of the GLOs' protocol, policies, and procedures. Do you consider paraphernalia that violates Iota's protocol, policies, and procedures to be (officially) associated with your frat? It would be different if those items were official items that are sold by your NHQ or a licensed vendor. You would then be slamming your NHQ and licensed vendors that sell official Iota items.

With that said, I typically would not call another GLO's paraphernalia ugly or horrible. It could be ugly and horrible to me but completely in line with that GLO's protocol, policies, and procedures. Therefore, I typically only care about and therefore comment on inappropriate Delta items from nonlicensed vendors. I would also talk about other NPHC items with the understanding that my take on their items may not match how the members feel about the items.

PrettyBoy 02-24-2012 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Cen1aur 1963 (Post 2127888)
It's all good. I feel you, but for me, I'm not going to make insults about anything associated with my frat. Even if it's shit I don't like.

Good, then don't -do you. For me, I don't like to see perry that's degrading to women. Yes, NPHC glos all have stereotypes that are sometimes fun to joke about, but when it becomes a reality (and I'm speaking about my fraternity) then it's not only disrespectful to women, but that person is also disrespecting himself as a result, and the fraternity. Then, to advertise that mess (The Kappa - The Nupe with arrows pointing up and down)? Playboy bunnies? shirts that talk about making women "go drawless" "Nupe Juice, a taste akuired by women everywhere", etc? (yes, I've seen it) it's silly. Women are to be honored and respected, not degraded, and Kappa Alpha Psi was not founded on womanizing principles. Period.

Perry like this is what I like to wear and what's acceptable (TO ME).

http://cf.mp-cdn.net/30/fd/ca547607c...883cf45d69.jpg

https://s3.amazonaws.com/storenvy/pr...cket_large.jpg

https://doomwear.ipower.com/uploadim...rkCardinal.jpg

https://doomwear.ipower.com/uploadim...erVest_Red.gif

DrPhil 02-24-2012 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 2128080)
Perry like this is what I like to wear and what's acceptable (TO ME).

Perhaps not just to you. Doesn't your fraternity have protocol/policy/standard regarding 'nalia and any representation of your fraternity? For instance, your fraternity and the Playboy franchise made that statement regarding the Playboy bunny being used as a ridiculous representation of your fraternity.

Kontagious 02-24-2012 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 2128080)

This is phat as hell. I have to get me one of those. Where did you get it? That's nice as hell. I tried to send you a private message, but it's locked or something. I'm just trying to share info with you that's fraternity related. I'm looking forward to chatting with you.

YITB

PrettyBoy 02-24-2012 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2128086)
Perhaps not just to you.

Perhaps.

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2128086)
Doesn't your fraternity have protocol/policy/standard regarding 'nalia and any representation of your fraternity?

It does, but unfortunately, not all members follow it.

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2128086)
For instance, your fraternity and the Playboy franchise made that statement regarding the Playboy bunny being used as a ridiculous representation of your fraternity.

I felt that symbol was a ridiculous, silly representation of the fraternity long before those statements were made. Or at least before I knew about the statements being made.

PrettyBoy 02-24-2012 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Kontagious (Post 2128094)
This is phat as hell. I have to get me one of those. Where did you get it? That's nice as hell.

Thanks. I bought it at a greek website called "Doomwear". They have some really nice perry there. It looks really good with a nice blue shirt, a nice tie (complementary bow tie or neck tie) and a pair of nice pants, and shoes.

http://dimg.dillards.com/is/image/Di...le?$c7product$

Cen1aur 1963 02-25-2012 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2128015)
I agree with you on the larger point. However, some of the items in this thread are not only ugly, they are violations of the GLOs' protocol, policies, and procedures. Do you consider paraphernalia that violates Iota's protocol, policies, and procedures to be (officially) associated with your frat? It would be different if those items were official items that are sold by your NHQ or a licensed vendor. You would then be slamming your NHQ and licensed vendors that sell official Iota items.
.

I feel you to a degree. Yup, we do have protocol, and policies. I think most BGLOs do, but if it's related or associated to my frat, I'm not going make insults about it. If it's something that makes my frat look bad, I'll step to the bruh wearing it. You feel me?

DeltaBetaBaby 03-13-2012 11:29 AM

Well, I think this deserves a mention. This is from Phi Mu's official collection, and I've sent a letter asking that it be discontinued immediately.

https://carnationcollection.phimu.or...mal/201430.jpg

PiAlphaGammaFM 03-13-2012 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby (Post 2131923)
Well, I think this deserves a mention. This is from Phi Mu's official collection, and I've sent a letter asking that it be discontinued immediately.

https://carnationcollection.phimu.or...mal/201430.jpg

I'm not sure what you dont like about this shirt..... I don't see anything terribly wrong with it, what am i missing?

AlphaFrog 03-13-2012 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by PiAlphaGammaFM (Post 2131950)
I'm not sure what you dont like about this shirt..... I don't see anything terribly wrong with it, what am i missing?

Ummm...you don't see anything wrong with blackfacing their mascot and calling him "homeboy"?

DeltaBetaBaby 03-13-2012 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2131951)
Ummm...you don't see anything wrong with blackfacing their mascot and calling him "homeboy"?

I like how they gave him a 5-pointed crown for good measure.

AlphaFrog 03-13-2012 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby (Post 2131952)
I like how they gave him a 5-pointed crown for good measure.

Actually, it's an 8 point crown. Each of the three in the front have one directly behind that you wouldn't be able to see. That's why ASA's badge confused me at first when they told the NM that it's a 4 point crown...the 4th point is directly behind the middle point.

MysticCat 03-13-2012 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2131953)
Actually, it's an 8 point crown. Each of the three in the front have one directly behind that you wouldn't be able to see. That's why ASA's badge confused me at first when they told the NM that it's a 4 point crown...the 4th point is directly behind the middle point.

True, but it's also a 5-point crown in the same way that ZTA's official symbol is a 5-point crown.

AlphaFrog 03-13-2012 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2131955)
^^^ True, but it's also a 5-point crown in the same way that Zeta's official symbol is a 5-point crown.

I've always wondered about that...I thought it was usually depicted more tiara-style which wouldn't have additional points out of view.

DeltaBetaBaby 03-13-2012 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2131955)
True, but it's also a 5-point crown in the same way that ZTA's official symbol is a 5-point crown.

Well, I was more concerned about the OTHER use of the 5-point crown.

AlphaFrog 03-13-2012 03:01 PM

There doesn't seem to be an "official" version, and even their website seems to vary between five total points and five visible points. Huh.

MysticCat 03-13-2012 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2131956)
I've always wondered about that...I thought it was usually depicted more tiara-style which wouldn't have additional points out of view.

I imagine it's more of a semantics thing -- does 4/5 points mean 4/5 points total or 4/5 points visible. To ASA, it means 4 points total, with one being hidden. But to ZTA, I assume it means 5 points visible. Per the ZTA website:
http://www.zetataualpha.org/cms400mi...(1).jpg?n=9667Crown – The five-pointed Crown is an official symbol of the Fraternity. The significance of the five points is revealed to each member upon her Initiation. Many examples of crown artwork can be found within ZTA, and all are acceptable as long as the crown contains exactly five points.


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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby (Post 2131957)
Well, I was more concerned about the OTHER use of the 5-point crown.

Ah. I guess since I was on GC, I went for the Greek reference first, but you're exactly right.

Well, then, lets just say there are layers of inappropriateness going on here.

DrPhil 03-13-2012 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2131951)
Ummm...you don't see anything wrong with blackfacing their mascot and calling him "homeboy"?

Only people who know what the mascot normally looks like will know that it is blackface. I am not one of those people. I too was unsure what was so offensive about the tshirt...mascot + "homeboy" is not the dumbest thing I have seen on tshirts, including things posted in the recruitment pictures thread. I figured that was for the members of whichever GLO to battle out since my nonmember opinion means nothing.

So, yeah, now that I know what it is and whose it is, I feel some kind of way about this being part of Phi Mu's OFFICIAL collection. Phi Mu has some serious explaining to do...and I am being polite.

DeltaBetaBaby 03-13-2012 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2131961)
Only people who know what the mascot normally looks like will know that it is blackface. I am not one of those people. I too was unsure what was so offensive about the tshirt...mascot + "homeboy" is not the dumbest thing I have seen on tshirts, including things posted in the recruitment pictures threads. I figured that was for the members of whichever GLO to battle out since my nonmember opinion means nothing.

So, yeah, now that I know what it is and whose it is, I feel some kind of way about this being part of Phi Mu's OFFICIAL collection. Phi Mu has some serious explaining to do...and I am being polite.

I've sent e-mails to a bunch of higher-ups, but it's really hard to explain why this is offensive to anyone who can't immediately see that it's offensive (given knowledge of Phi Mu and our mascot).

DrPhil 03-13-2012 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby (Post 2131964)
I've sent e-mails to a bunch of higher-ups, but it's really hard to explain why this is offensive to anyone who can't immediately see that it's offensive (given knowledge of Phi Mu and our mascot).

Serious questions and I am not trying to be a smartass:

Since this is an official "representation" of Phi Mu, do you see an issue with posting the picture and announcing this to GC? Are you trying to essentially shame the higher ups into understanding what is so offensive?

And why don't the higher ups understand why blackfacing the mascot would be offensive with and without the however-many-crowns-homeboy? :confused:

MysticCat 03-13-2012 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2131965)
And why don't the higher ups understand why blackfacing the mascot would be offensive with and without the however-many-crowns-homeboy? :confused:

I will admit that the blackface didn't immediately jump out at me. My first thought with the crown and the style of the design was that it resembled a brass rubbing, where everything is black except the outline:
http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/...g_1248838c.jpg

AlphaFrog 03-13-2012 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2131966)
I will admit that the blackface didn't immediately jump out at me. My first thought with the crown and the style of the design was that it resembled a brass rubbing, where everything is black except the outline:
http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/...g_1248838c.jpg

I would have taken it that way too, except the "homeboy" thing and you could argue some of the features are exaggerated.

MysticCat 03-13-2012 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2131967)
I would have taken it that way too, except the "homeboy" thing and you could argue some of the features are exaggerated.

Oh, I definitely see it, especially with the "homeboy." I'm just saying that my first reaction was that it's the style of brass rubbing, not blackface.

PiAlphaGammaFM 03-13-2012 03:44 PM

I still dont really get why having the whole design printed in black is offensive... i dont think there is anything racial or deragatory there , its simply a white shirt with black design. homeboy has become slang for white people too and isnt necessarily offensive. would you feel different if the same design was in pink rather than black?

i dont think its really worth getting so worked up over, but what do i know? *shrug*

AlphaFrog 03-13-2012 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by PiAlphaGammaFM (Post 2131969)
I still dont really get why having the whole design printed in black is offensive... i dont think there is anything racial or deragatory there , its simply a white shirt with black design. homeboy has become slang for white people too and isnt necessarily offensive. would you feel different if the same design was in pink rather than black?

i dont think its really worth getting so worked up over, but what do i know? *shrug*

In pink it would be merely stupid, instead of stupid AND offensive.

Google the history blackface if you still don't get it.

knight_shadow 03-13-2012 03:54 PM

FYI -

http://gallery.mtbr.com/data/mtbr/51...my-homeboy.jpg

http://www.jesusismyhomeboy.com/


I don't think the word homeboy and "blackface" are being used in the way some of you are thinking.

DrPhil 03-13-2012 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2131966)
I will admit that the blackface didn't immediately jump out at me. My first thought with the crown and the style of the design was that it resembled a brass rubbing, where everything is black except the outline:
http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/...g_1248838c.jpg

Same here. I kept staring at the photo and concluded that the only issue was the "homeboy."

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 2131967)
I would have taken it that way too, except the "homeboy" thing and you could argue some of the features are exaggerated.

I wonder if the Phi Mu representatives will say that it was mere coincidence--brass rubbing and "homeboy." It was an unintended consequence.

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Originally Posted by PiAlphaGammaFM (Post 2131969)
would you feel different if the same design was in pink rather than black?

It would be a silly pink "mascot is my homeboy" shirt rather than a seemingly blackface "mascot is my homeboy" shirt. That would make it dumb rather than racially and ethnically offensive.


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Originally Posted by PiAlphaGammaFM (Post 2131969)
i dont think its really worth getting so worked up over, but what do i know? *shrug*

You are kind of new to posting on Greekchat. There are two things that grate GCers' nerves:

1. Speaking for a council/conference and GLO other than your own

2. Responding to social and political discussions with "don't get worked up over this."

MysticCat 03-13-2012 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 2131971)
FYI -
http://gallery.mtbr.com/data/mtbr/51...my-homeboy.jpg
http://www.jesusismyhomeboy.com/


I don't think the word homeboy and "blackface" are being used in the way some of you are thinking.

I think what DeltaBetaBaby put in parentheses is probably key to understanding her reaction to the shirt:
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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby (Post 2131964)
. . . it's really hard to explain why this is offensive to anyone who can't immediately see that it's offensive (given knowledge of Phi Mu and our mascot).


DrPhil 03-13-2012 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 2131971)
FYI -

http://gallery.mtbr.com/data/mtbr/51...my-homeboy.jpg

http://www.jesusismyhomeboy.com/


I don't think the word homeboy and "blackface" are being used in the way some of you are thinking.


By the way, that Jesus is a lot "blacker" than 99% of the depictions of Jesus around the world:

http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...OZo-JJOMT9XH-g


But, yeah, everything's a mere coincidence and unintended consequence. LOL. Sure.

knight_shadow 03-13-2012 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2131973)
I think what DeltaBetaBaby put in parentheses is probably key to understanding her reaction to the shirt:

I must have skimmed past that. Why was it brought up on GC if only a handful of people would realize what was offensive? I would think that it would be kept within the Phi Mu family.

In any event, I still think that the homeboy thing was in reference to the site I linked.

DrPhil 03-13-2012 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 2131975)
In any event, I still think that the homeboy thing was in reference to the site I linked.

And that is absolutely fine. There are Christians who find that reference to Jesus to be offensive, just as there are apparently Phi Mus who find that reference to their mascot to be offensive.

What's more interesting is how that mascot is now a brass rubbing "homeboy" and Jesus is now a big nosed, crinkly haired "homeboy."

LOL @ the "Jesus Is My Homeboy" website claiming that the tshirt was designed without a race, creed, or color and that it was a neutral image that everyone can identify with. That's as much bullshit as the Eurocentric images of Jesus being neutral without race, creed, or color. Anyway, people just need to be honest. If you wanted a darkened Phi Mu mascot for a tshirt, just say so. If you wanted a darkened Jesus for a tshirt, (regardless of how Jesus really looked and whether there was ever a "Black Baby Jesus"), just say so. Quit the bullshit. LOL.

naraht 03-13-2012 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2131959)
I imagine it's more of a semantics thing -- does 4/5 points mean 4/5 points total or 4/5 points visible. To ASA, it means 4 points total, with one being hidden. But to ZTA, I assume it means 5 points visible. Per the ZTA website:
http://www.zetataualpha.org/cms400mi...(1).jpg?n=9667Crown – The five-pointed Crown is an official symbol of the Fraternity. The significance of the five points is revealed to each member upon her Initiation. Many examples of crown artwork can be found within ZTA, and all are acceptable as long as the crown contains exactly five points.

The crown displayed would have fooled me, I would have guessed that it had 8 points with three hidden behind the three in the center. But in heraldry, you define it be the number of points visible...

naraht 03-13-2012 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 2131974)
By the way, that Jesus is a lot "blacker" than 99% of the depictions of Jesus around the world:

http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...OZo-JJOMT9XH-g


But, yeah, everything's a mere coincidence and unintended consequence. LOL. Sure.

At least both of them have a beard. Though beardless is less bizarre than Blonde and fair skinned. (How far from Palestine do you have to get before you get a decent number of Blondes, Austria?).


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