^ That's extremely interesting because I do not have any friends on my Facebook with that name, and never have.

Ok. I guess all of us who saw it were hallucinating.

:eek:

Irish, I respect you immensely. However, I don't admit to actions that I did not make, or things that I did not do.

misscherrypie, since several people saw that you did, your actions concern me. Why would you friend a woman who has a restraining order out against her to keep her off that campus? Who terrified members and their mothers?

That is really weird. Why would someone be a follower of that person? That could be unsafe.

Trying to pick up protips for perping?

Then it's a good thing I took a screen shot of your Facebook page showing you following Jacki S******* T*****.

Oh my!

^ I'm Greek.

I'm also extremely confused Carnation. The only name I've ever seen this perp referred to on this website is Jacki. If that is her actual name, then I didn't Facebook friend her. (or accept any Facebook friend requests from anyone with that name.)

Irish hasn't stated who these "several others" are. I do believe that she is mistaken.

If this person uses another name on Facebook, could someone please PM me the name, and I'd be happy to remove her from my friends list. I do not support those to pretend to be someone that they are not, or terrorize others.

If you persist, I will post the screenshot I have. The one of you, with your real name, following Jacki, under her name (which I have no idea if it is real or not.). And I know at least 3 other people who saw it, and at least one of them screen shot it as well.

The very day that you posted on this thread about Jacki's AI status, you friended her on Facebook. I don't know if you sympathize with her desperate desire for NPC membership, or if you want to learn to perp or what, but that is just flat out bizarre.

You have always come across as a sweet-natured person, but don't you get that Jacki the perp is potentially dangerous? Why on earth would you friend her AFTER reading this thread about her psychotic behavior?

And don't post again saying you didn't, or I WILL post the screenshot.

OK, I'll step up. I can see that you are friends of Mrs. Jacki Wack-A-Doo myself. Miss Cherry Pie, time to stop and just step back. I know you have locked down YOUR account now, but way too little, way too late.

Oh, go ahead and post it. I'm feeling mean today.

I'm confused about why HER identity is being protected.

https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/6901525504/h518D0194/

As wackafarts as that one is, using her full name would probably give her some sort of thrill.

If anything is posted, if it has not already been done, please remove misscherrypie's real name prior to posting.

If the names were blurred out (which I wouldn't know how to do), it wouldn't prove anything, so why post it at all? I have not posted anything to avoid putting names out there, but, MCP links to her blog in her GC signature which contains her real name. She has also posted photos of herself on GC. It's as if she wants to share her identity, or does not care who knows it. Despite her carelessness, I am trying to protect her identity, which is why I haven't posted it yet.

1.Why does that escalator even exist?!

2. Gotcha. I thought we were afraid of offending her or something.

Okay, I usually avoid these threads but at this point even I have noticed that something hinky is going on. It might be time for some GC'ers to take a step back from the keyboard and reevaluate their level of honesty. Friending, or following, someone on Facebook that has shown such a high level of crazy isn't safe and there is no good reason for this to happen.

You've been caught, stop trying to cover your tracks, you're only making yourself look worse. I would suggest some time away from the keyboard and a fresh dose of honesty. You're making yourself look like you a fry or two short of a Happy Meal.

And now back to your regularly scheduled trainwreck!

Feet up and popcorn popping.

Haha, I first thought you said "blurt out her real name".

Yikes!! No nooooo. Perhaps I should use another word. :eek:

Blocking out her name is pointless. She has a link to her blog that gives her full name and it's not a common name either. I'm all for protecting ones privacy, but not if they don't care and put their info out there already.

It would be GC ToS violation, for the record. It's probably not worth getting banned over.

@ Nanners: Her at least appearing not to care does not translate to it being okay for GCers to post something with her real name.

And if GCers have so much contact with misscherrypie outside of GC, why is this being handled in this thread rather than outside of GC?

ETA: Thanks, DeltaBetaBaby. Some people don't care about being banned so, either way, I just think it is best to not put someone on blast unless we are creating an environment in which any GCers' identities can be posted just because they piss off the wrong GCer(s) or lurker(s).

There is a back story here... a tough love sort of thing. I don't think anyone is going to post something that would cause a ban...at least not any of the long time folks...newbies I can't guarantee....

I have no contact with MCP outside of GC. It took no time, effort, or stalking to find her real identity because she has plastered her whole life on GC and one link links to another and so on. I would never reach out to her outside of GC.

I completely agree that anonymity is sacred. That being said, being called out as a liar by MCP pushed my buttons, especially when the proof was right there where she led me. Plus, she needed to know that desperate, psychotic perping is dangerous business that will be discovered.

As for the backstory and why I showed particular interest, I have no desire to be cruel to MCP. Her posting history has always struck me as bizarre and desperate, but also naive. She exhibits serious attention-seeking behavior. Despite my reactions to her posts, it was really not my concern until she started posting clues that led me to believe she was going to attempt to AI, or even to perp as an alumna. Since my group is colonizing at her alma mater, in her current town, I took a personal interest. Then when I saw her reaching out to a known perp, I decided to post. Jacki the Perp posed an actual danger to collegiate members of a sorority. Why would MCP know that and still desire friendship with her? I wasn't taking a chance. You might not agree with how I handled it.

I agree. There have been a few times where I tried to help her too.

Y'all are all weird.

Aren't both MCP and Jacki members of the same organization? MCP may not even be aware of the whole "Jacki is a perp" backstory thing. And even if she was, she's allowed to friend members of her organization without waiting for permission from Greekchat.

If you are seriously concerned about AI or perping during colonization, just give your colonization team a heads up.

KDCat, check upthread. MCP knows full well what Jacki did.

On July 13 MCP posted in this thread inquiring about Jacki the Perp. That would indicate that she read this thread and knows about the backstory. This thread IS the backstory.

My posts considered the totality of MCP's posts on GC. To summarize:
* Displays attention-seeking behavior by over-sharing on the internet
* Displays desire to pledge NPC sorority as a second semester senior at her school
* Recruitment is unsuccessful
* Starts a new chapter of Beta Sigma Phi at her school. Apparently spends a great deal of her own money. Seems to want BSP to operate as an NPC sorority.
* Posts her graduation photos on GC
* Links to her blog containing her real name
* Joins SAEPi interest group but graduates before initiation
* Posts in several threads concerning AI and alumnae perping.
* Starts a thread asking how she can volunteer for an NPC chapter without being a member
* Many posts hint at a plan or thought process leading to potential perping or AI through the back door. Overall sense of desperation from some posts.
* Reads this psychotic thread about a potentially dangerous perp who has violated a restraining order regarding a collegiate NPC sorority
* Immediately friends this perp

Yes, they are both members of BSP. However, they live in completely different parts of the country (Jacki the Perp - Alabama, MCP - Nevada). Why would a person friend someone they have no history with, and have little chance of ever meeting, AFTER knowing that person is a total psycho? I think she empathizes with The Perp at best, or wants to emulate her at worst.

Of course it's a free country and you are absolutely correct that she can friend who she wants without permission. However, MCP denied friending her and insisted that she doesn't friend people who perp.

Again, maybe you would have handled it differently. As someone else suggested, this was a little of a tough love type situation. I felt I needed to post in order to shut down the ideas MCP had and to dissuade others who may read it.

The appropriate people have been notified in my organization. The funny thing is, they already knew about her.

This might be nit-picking: from what I recall (based on her posts, which I am not going to search for now), MCP went through formal twice, informal once, and also went through MCG recruitment unsuccessfully.

I think that this is a very sad situation in many regards. Not judging. I am saying that in this instance, "tough love" was probably way overdue. I do have compassion for MCP. We all have had to let go of dreams. It's long past time for her to move on.

That's pretty scary. I wonder how many other sororities have this information?

I really hope that no one answers this question. Seems kind of like pouring salt into the wound. Hopefully MCP will just finally move on.

While my intention was to ask this as a rhetorical question, I could see it being interpreted as "digging for dirt". My apologies.

You would be surprised by how many national organizations have at least one person on staff who checks out GC on a regular basis.

Ehhhh, time and effort or not, backstory or not, I'd be pretty upset if, in this day and age, someone posted a screengrab from my fb page, even though several members including those who are "big squirrels" know my real identity.

I'm not usually one who cautions against going too far but I urge us all to drop it. MCP isn't perping that we know of, if she's being less than forthcoming about who she's FB friends with (REALLY? We're gonna get shitty about facebook friending now?), that's her business.

It's more than that if you read all the posts....and we didn't want her to get "taken in" by the perp.

I know that, completely understood, but it seems she knows full well what's going on, or at least we're all assuming she does - she's not a member of any of our organizations, it's not worth doxxing her just to make sure she's not facebook friends with a nutter.

ETA: Better to make sure that if it's a potential AI situation and you want your voice heard, that you do that privately within your own organization, rather than doxxing her on an open forum. As we always say, membership selection should be happening behind closed doors...

She started a thread in September asking how to work with college Panhellenic when one is not a sorority member. And now she's befriending someone who's successfully and skillfully repeatedly perped. It's totally understandable why she's being called out on it. I'd be more surprised if no one said anything.