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deepimpact2 10-15-2009 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1857727)
Really? It's still a knife? You mean, it didn't magically transform into a unicorn because of the context? That sucks.

Years ago, my friend mistakenly left her butter knife that she uses to slice bagels at work in her bag as she went to the airport. It was detected by the powers that be. Instead of detaining her as a potential terrorist and damning her to hell, the airport authorities used their discretion. They took the object and gave her a stern talking to/warning that scared the shit out of her. Then sent her on her way. Message.

And?

Schools have different liability concerns.

DrPhil 10-15-2009 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by deepimpact2 (Post 1857731)
And?

Schools have different liability concerns.

And shut up.

deepimpact2 10-15-2009 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1857680)
Ok...exactly how thick headed and blind are you?

I'm not upset over 'those kind of kids' I actually find it funny that you had the STONES to even post that little ditty after the bullshyte you put KSig and Kevin through last weekend over that post you knee jerked over and everyone and their gran'ma had to explain the context TO YOU.

Having a hard time now trying to explain 'those types of children' hmm?

Doesn't feel so good now does it?

Any ol' ways...moving from your irrelevant rants to another.


Yes. Rules are in place to be followed...rules are also in place to be interpreted which is WHY rules tend to CHANGE.


and this...

School systems need to stop being so political and allowing parents to run over them. Many parents are just NOT going to accept or admit that their child is wrong in certain instances...

Just as some schools need to be fair and not think that every little child that walks in the door and makes ONE mistake (that can easily corrected by education and not punishment) will make that child a hardened criminal.

Read the article.

He. Did. Not. Know.

He is SIX.

No, I'm not having a hard time explaining my terminology. I made it clear in that other thread that from now on, none of you need to get offended when I use such terminology since you pitched a fit over the way I reacted to it. So that isn't me being hypocritical. I am now doing what YOU and others said was perfectly fine. So YOU have no grounds to complain. If you had the intellectual prowess you THINK you have, you would have realized that.

In response to your statement about acting as though the child is a hardened criminal because of one mistake...I don't think anyone is saying this child or any other child who has one incident is a hardened criminal. The point is that it is far too risky for school officials to start making allowances on a case-by-case basis. How fair would it be for them to determine that one child needs a "talking to" and that another child needs severe punishment? If you have one rule that covers it all, at least you don't allow much room for abuse of discretion.

And if you would stop trying to come against me so hard and use your head you would realize that.

Finally, with respect to your comment that he did not know? What's your point? Ignorance of the law is no excuse. Even at six school officials can make a child understand that they cannot bring guns or knives to school. Furthermore, his mother knew, yet she is responding as though this is just truly shocking. Perhaps she should have confiscated the knife in her own home only allowing him access to it when he is supervised. Wait, I'm sorry, that's asking for a parent to do their job as a parent. My bad.

You're pathetic.

deepimpact2 10-15-2009 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1857732)
And shut up.

1. Have I shut up yet when you "command" that I do so? Um no.
2. Your response speaks volumes. You don't know what the heck you are talking about and to compensate you resort to "shut up" with no additional comeback. How witty and original.

DrPhil 10-15-2009 01:45 PM

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Originally Posted by deepimpact2 (Post 1857740)
1. Have I shut up yet when you "command" that I do so? Um no.
2. Your response speaks volumes. You don't know what the heck you are talking about and to compensate you resort to "shut up" with no additional comeback. How witty and original.

1. Shut up.
2. Do you know how ironic this is? :) As with every other thread you participate in, things are cool until you get butthurt and annoying. You're much more stupiderererer than any other GC thread hijacker. LOL.

Psi U MC Vito 10-15-2009 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1857747)
1. Shut up.
2. Do you know how ironic this is? :) As with every other thread you participate in, things are cool until you get butthurt and annoying. You're much more stupiderererer than any other GC thread hijacker. LOL.

It's funny, but I usually stop reading a thread in this forum when I see certain people post, for I know the train wreck is to come.

MysticCat 10-15-2009 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by gamma (Post 1857744)
Did you ever go on camping trips with you scout master? Did he tell you that you were special?

MMITY? :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 1857748)
It's funny, but I usually stop reading a thread in this forum when I see certain people post, for I know the train wreck is to come.

You're not the only one. But some days, I have just have to watch the train wreck.

DrPhil 10-15-2009 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 1857748)
It's funny, but I usually stop reading a thread in this forum when I see certain people post, for I know the train wreck is to come.

And it's really stupid because we alllllllllllllll agree that the kid shouldn't have the damn knife at school. What the hell is deepimpact butthurt over?

If it makes her feel any better, Obama still has his Nobel Peace Prize. :)

AGDee 10-15-2009 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1857730)
No one is advocating that the school does nothing about it. Kids shouldn't have potential weapons in school, even if it is unintentionally a potential weapon.

It's a difference in opinion over what the school should've done.

I say the school should've taken the knife (duh), called the parents, talked to the kid and the parents, and given the kid a warning with the next offense being suspension (or whatever).

And I think that's what I was trying to say earlier. We don't know if that didn't happen the first two or three times this kid took the knife to school. We have no way of knowing whether this is a pattern for this kid...

I think we ALL (I do it too) are quick to make judgments on how other people should react in situations when we have only heard one side of the media hyped story and the other side is bound to confidentiality so they can't tell their story. I'd agree that, if things happened exactly as presented by the mom and kid, then the punishment was extreme.

I was a little concerned about the kid's own statement "It's a dumb rule" because I'm wondering if he thinks it is dumb to ban knives from school or if he thinks it is dumb to be expelled/suspended for doing so.

DaemonSeid 10-15-2009 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by deepimpact2 (Post 1857739)
No, I'm not having a hard time explaining my terminology. I made it clear in that other thread that from now on, none of you need to get offended when I use such terminology since you pitched a fit over the way I reacted to it. So that isn't me being hypocritical. I am now doing what YOU and others said was perfectly fine. So YOU have no grounds to complain. If you had the intellectual prowess you THINK you have, you would have realized that.

In response to your statement about acting as though the child is a hardened criminal because of one mistake...I don't think anyone is saying this child or any other child who has one incident is a hardened criminal. The point is that it is far too risky for school officials to start making allowances on a case-by-case basis. How fair would it be for them to determine that one child needs a "talking to" and that another child needs severe punishment? If you have one rule that covers it all, at least you don't allow much room for abuse of discretion.

And if you would stop trying to come against me so hard and use your head you would realize that.

Finally, with respect to your comment that he did not know? What's your point? Ignorance of the law is no excuse. Even at six school officials can make a child understand that they cannot bring guns or knives to school. Furthermore, his mother knew, yet she is responding as though this is just truly shocking. Perhaps she should have confiscated the knife in her own home only allowing him access to it when he is supervised. Wait, I'm sorry, that's asking for a parent to do their job as a parent. My bad.

You're pathetic.

Woman please...nobody pitched a fit except you.

Because you think everyone on GC has an agenda towards you...

And after reading your last post...well throwing spitballs against a brick wall explaining why your opinions are fails per each post is useless, so let's K.I.M.

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1857751)
And it's really stupid because we alllllllllllllll agree that the kid shouldn't have the damn knife at school. What the hell is deepimpact butthurt over?

If it makes her feel any better, Obama still has his Nobel Peace Prize. :)

Oh I dunno, maybe because 7 or 8 of us agree and she is the odd one out and we won't let her have the last word...so why don't we all shut up and let her so she has something to feel good about today, hmmm?

srmom 10-15-2009 02:00 PM

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Would your reaction have been the same had he been labeled as a little first grade gangbanger
Now that I'd like to see. :rolleyes:

I'm still on post 40, it's going to take a while to catch up - but I can already see CRAZY EYES in this thread - Where's that popcorn??

DaemonSeid 10-15-2009 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by srmom (Post 1857754)
Now that I'd like to see. :rolleyes:

I'm still on post 40, it's going to take a while to catch up - but I can already see CRAZY EYES in this thread - Where's that popcorn??

Popping some now ...will that be butter or kettle corn?

srmom 10-15-2009 02:11 PM

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why didn't his MOTHER advise him not to take the utensil to school and check to make sure he didn't?
Maybe she packed it in his little Spiderman lunchbox for him, because she would NEVER in a million years think that little fork,knife, spoon contraption could be considered a weapon.

I know Texas tends to lead the crazy train, but at least the legislature here realized that CONTEXT is important and should be considered before shipping 6 year olds off to District Alternative Education Centers!!!

They also decided that site administrators have the intelligence to make sound judgements based on circumstances... Who knew?

srmom 10-15-2009 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1857661)
What should happen (in my view):

Teacher sees kid with knife. Teacher asks him about it. He tells her he just joined Cub Scouts and it's his new knife from his mess kit. Teacher says, "I know you're excited and I'm glad for you, but you know it's against the rules to bring a knife to school. I'm going to need to take it for now; it will be in the office. Your parents can pick it up there. Please remember not to bring knives to school again. Thanks." (Can't give it back to him in case he rides a bus or something.) When the parents pick it up, they are reminded, nicely, that son can't be bringing knives to school. Done.

Yes, this is the answer.

In this particular case, the boy had no intention of bringing a "weapon" to school. He had never been told it was a "weapon", it was just a nifty eating gadget.

Intention should be taken into consideration.

aopirose 10-15-2009 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1857725)
Right. That's why I said "typically." though perhaps I could have chosen a better word. In my experience, Bear is when a den will do it -- often as the first step toward Bear ("yay, we're old enough to use knives now"). But you're right, it can be earned at any stage.

I'm pretty sure that since this guy had just joined, though, he hadn't earned it yet.

No, you're good. It is a tradition in our Unit that Bears earn it so that is "typical" for us too. I also agree with you that the Scout in question had probably not earned it yet.


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Yours too, huh? :D
Yeah that was a shining moment until our guest speaker, a Master Decoy Carver, cut himself a few minutes later. :D

srmom 10-15-2009 02:32 PM

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Oh I dunno, maybe because 7 or 8 of us agree and she is the odd one out and we won't let her have the last word...so why don't we all shut up and let her so she has something to feel good about today, hmmm?
I didn't get the memo until too late...

I'll take butter though, THANKS!! :D

DrPhil 10-15-2009 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 1857752)
And I think that's what I was trying to say earlier. We don't know if that didn't happen the first two or three times this kid took the knife to school. We have no way of knowing whether this is a pattern for this kid...

Right, so until we have reason to believe this is a pattern for this kid, we will keep saying they should've given a warning first.

It's interesting when the traditionally understood concept of "well, we don't know the complete story" becomes overstated, even to the point where people (not you) feel all opinions are unjustified and the discussion should cease.

deepimpact2 10-15-2009 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by AGDee (Post 1857752)
I was a little concerned about the kid's own statement "It's a dumb rule" because I'm wondering if he thinks it is dumb to ban knives from school or if he thinks it is dumb to be expelled/suspended for doing so.

He has been led to believe by his mother that he should speak out against the rule because it is wrong based on the punishment. That's probably why he said that.

deepimpact2 10-15-2009 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by srmom (Post 1857754)
Now that I'd like to see. :rolleyes:

What part are you having trouble with?

deepimpact2 10-15-2009 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid (Post 1857753)
Woman please...nobody pitched a fit except you.

Because you think everyone on GC has an agenda towards you...

And after reading your last post...well throwing spitballs against a brick wall explaining why your opinions are fails per each post is useless, so let's K.I.M.



Oh I dunno, maybe because 7 or 8 of us agree and she is the odd one out and we won't let her have the last word...so why don't we all shut up and let her so she has something to feel good about today, hmmm?

I don't care about being the odd one out because in the grand scheme of things I have found that most of the opinions of the same few who always disagree with me are not based in reality or actual knowledge. Periodically I talk to different people about the things said here on GC in response to various issues. Overwhelmingly I have found that most people I talk to think the opinions of those 7 or 8 are off base. And the people I talk to have no qualms about telling me if they disagree with me.

So I wear it as a badge of honor that I'm "the odd one out" on this issue because your ideas about how schools should handle this type of situation are beyond absurd. Not only do they show a lack of knowledge, and a willingness to disregard rules, but also they show a lack of concern for the welfare of other students in general.

Oh and you might want to lose the generalizations. I never said EVERYONE on GC has an agenda against me. It is just the same few that try to raise hell in every thread.

deepimpact2 10-15-2009 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1857747)
1. Shut up.
2. Do you know how ironic this is? :) As with every other thread you participate in, things are cool until you get butthurt and annoying. You're much more stupiderererer than any other GC thread hijacker. LOL.

No, the problem is that you and a few others were just determined from the beginning since you decided you didn't like me for whatever stupid reason, that you were going to attack everything I have to say. What is stupid is your level of pettiness and inability to have a discussion with those you may disagree with. Moreover, even if you agree, you still HAVE to find something snarky to say. Get over yourself. You're not nearly as brilliant as you think, not to mention the fact that your S/RH issues are blindingly obvious.

DrPhil 10-15-2009 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by deepimpact2 (Post 1857788)
....

You're psycho.

VandalSquirrel 10-15-2009 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by deepimpact2 (Post 1857679)
A knife is a knife. Either one can inflict injury. It is a slippery slope indeed to try and have different ways of handling a weapon based whether a person thinks one weapon is not as big as the other or some other such foolishness.

I thought he was making a Crocodile Dundee joke, and not really trying to define what a knife was in this context.

Munchkin03 10-15-2009 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel (Post 1857837)
I thought he was making a Crocodile Dundee joke, and not really trying to define what a knife was in this context.

Now, that would make too much sense, wouldn't it? :D

VandalSquirrel 10-15-2009 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Munchkin03 (Post 1857839)
Now, that would make too much sense, wouldn't it? :D

Well I try not to judge other people's knowledge of pop culture, but I am a little freaked out that this is the third time since Monday Paul Hogan has shown up in my life.

KSig RC 10-15-2009 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel (Post 1857842)
Well I try not to judge other people's knowledge of pop culture, but I am a little freaked out that this is the third time since Monday Paul Hogan has shown up in my life.

He doesn't have much else going on, to be fair.

DaemonSeid 10-15-2009 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by deepimpact2 (Post 1857782)
I don't care about being the odd one out because in the grand scheme of things I have found that most of the opini...blah blah blah...blahblah blah.

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Originally Posted by deepimpact2 (Post 1857788)
No, the problem is that you and a few others were just determined from the beginning since you decided you didn't like me for whatever stupid reason, that you we..blah blah blah.

Pssst....this thread nor any others you hijack are about you.

There. I said it. Now go run tell dat.

and Yes Vandal Squirrel, that is EXACTLY what DS was doing leave it to DI to take it seriously.

MysticCat 10-15-2009 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel (Post 1857837)
I thought he was making a Crocodile Dundee joke, and not really trying to define what a knife was in this context.

And that proves it -- your opinions are not based in reality. :p

knight_shadow 10-15-2009 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by deepimpact2 (Post 1857782)
Oh and you might want to lose the generalizations. I never said EVERYONE on GC has an agenda against me. It is just the same few that try to raise hell in every thread.

GC is really not that serious. At all.

UGAalum94 10-15-2009 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1857730)
No one is advocating that the school does nothing about it. Kids shouldn't have potential weapons in school, even if it is unintentionally a potential weapon.

It's a difference in opinion over what the school should've done.

I say the school should've taken the knife (duh), called the parents, talked to the kid and the parents, and given the kid a warning with the next offense being suspension (or whatever).

Exactly.

I also think it's funny that it was suggested that allowing discretion was naive, but apparently it's not naive to assume that zero tolerance is consistently enforced by the same people who can't be trusted with discretion.

UGAalum94 10-15-2009 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel (Post 1857842)
Well I try not to judge other people's knowledge of pop culture, but I am a little freaked out that this is the third time since Monday Paul Hogan has shown up in my life.

The horror.

Kevin 10-16-2009 09:06 AM

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Psi U MC Vito 10-16-2009 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Kevin (Post 1858124)

Dammit Kevin you almost made me spit soda all over my computer.


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