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knight_shadow 02-01-2009 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by migreek (Post 1773624)
Define: Teity

Don't you have class tomorrow? You'll be late for homeroom.

SWTXBelle 02-01-2009 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1773626)
Women usually have two of them.

:eek:

Feet. It's obviously feet.

migreek 02-01-2009 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 1773625)
Oh, you know it all. You tell us.

I never claim to know it all, but since you do. Tell me the definition, and maybe I would.

knight_shadow 02-01-2009 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1773626)
Women usually have two of them.

LOL

migreek 02-01-2009 11:58 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 1773627)
Don't you have class tomorrow? You'll be late for homeroom.

I actually do plan to get offline, just was hoping someone would define: teity. Looks like that's not happening, maybe looking at this website tomorrow someone will define it.

nate2512 02-02-2009 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by migreek (Post 1773633)
I actually do plan to get offline, just was hoping someone would define: teity. Looks like that's not happening, maybe looking at this website tomorrow someone will define it.

That would require people around to do something nice, and we've been deprived of morons, so the sharks must eat, so niceness isn't going to happen. Nice try though.

Not now chief, I'm the ****in zone.

migreek 02-02-2009 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by nate2512 (Post 1773634)
That would require people around to do something nice, and we've been deprived of morons, so the sharks must eat, so niceness isn't going to happen. Nice try though.

Not now chief, I'm the ****in zone.

Oh great now we went from playing song game to playing victim.

My first day on this forum, even if not meant to be was entertaining.

knight_shadow 02-02-2009 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by migreek (Post 1773659)
Oh great now we went from playing song game to playing victim.

My first day on this forum, even if not meant to be was entertaining.

Mostly at your expense.

HotDamnImAPhiMu 02-03-2009 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 1773572)
Well, that was fun.

I guess he had curfew.

That killed me.

Boodleboy322 03-07-2009 01:15 PM

Older Pledge
 
Go for it - My fraternity pledged a guy turning 40 that was working on a PhD when he was able to pledge. It ended up that the guy always wanted to rush Phi Mu Alpha but never had a chapter in residence at his undergrad or grad school. The guy ended up being a really good brother.

Being that you have an interest in music I would suggest looking into Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia if your school has a chapter. Phi Mu Alpha is a Social Fraternity for men that have an interest in music. Some chapters heavily recruit around the college of music but not the case everywhere. You don't have to be a specific major to join. I have brothers that are in accounting, business, computers, law, MDs, etc. We're similiar to Farmhouse in that we focus our energy on something unique.

Here's a list of all Chapters in Alabama:

197 - Delta Beta - Alabama State University [Expelled]
Province: 34

217 - Delta Psi - Auburn University [Probation]
Province: 34
Home Page: /Secure/Chapters/save.asp

222 - Epsilon Delta - University of South Alabama [Active]
Province: 34

230 - Epsilon Nu - Jacksonville State University [Active]
Province: 34

318 - Iota Nu - Troy University [Active]
Province: 34

347 - Lambda Omicron - University of West Alabama [Inactive]
Province: 34

395 - Omicron Phi - University of Alabama [Active]

400 - Pi Sigma - Samford University [Active]
Province: 34

496 - Omicron Delta - Alabama A & M University [Expelled]
Province: 34

514 - Pi Theta - University of Alabama-Birmingham [Expelled]
Province: 34

521 - Pi Omicron - University of North Alabama [Active]
Province: 34


990 - Alabama Delta - Stillman College [Colony]
Province: 34

CUTKE538 03-07-2009 01:19 PM

There is a 34 year old brother in our chapter and it's perfectly acceptable. There are some problems for him only because of a large age difference between our youngest members and our oldest members, but those are to be expected. There is much less of a gap between 25 and 18 or 19 than 34. We have other brothers who are in their mid to late 20s and it isn't a problem at all.

A personal choice to make, like most.

BSCKt 05-01-2009 04:56 PM

On my campus there is a fraternity that has several guys that are 22-28 running around. The thing is, they were rushed as freshmen or sophomores. AND, they are normally alum who just hang out at the house on the weekend. I really don't think if they came to the house now, as students they would be considered because they won't have much time to dedicate to the fraternity. I know that most of the juniors and seniors are so swamped with school, they really only make it to big date parties and band parties, but they miss the day to day things, and miss out on just "hanging out at the house" with the other actives.

KSigkid 05-01-2009 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by BSCKt (Post 1805409)
On my campus there is a fraternity that has several guys that are 22-28 running around. The thing is, they were rushed as freshmen or sophomores. AND, they are normally alum who just hang out at the house on the weekend. I really don't think if they came to the house now, as students they would be considered because they won't have much time to dedicate to the fraternity. I know that most of the juniors and seniors are so swamped with school, they really only make it to big date parties and band parties, but they miss the day to day things, and miss out on just "hanging out at the house" with the other actives.

Even as a 24 year old freshman, you're going to have trouble at a lot of campuses, with a lot of organizations. People who successfully pledge at that age are the exception, not the rule.

SigEpLegacy 06-20-2009 07:35 PM

Im currently in Iraq and will be rushing at 26

KSigkid 06-24-2009 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by SigEpLegacy (Post 1818298)
Im currently in Iraq and will be rushing at 26

Good luck to you.

However, a word of warning as far as this board: it appears from your user name that you're a legacy of a fraternity. That's fine, but I would hesitate to use the name of a group in your username (even if the description is accurate) unless you're actually a member. Some Sig Ep's may not appreciate it.

pshsx1 06-24-2009 10:19 PM

And if you're rushing SigEp at UK (http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...45#post1495745), you're gunna have a while to wait. They're on probation.

SigEpLegacy 06-25-2009 07:35 AM

I'm going to University of Kansas (KU), not University of Kentucky (UK). KU is on probation? for what?

pshsx1 06-25-2009 06:00 PM

Gotcha.

They're on probation b/c of a mistake they made.
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=105881

SigEpLegacy 06-25-2009 06:48 PM

That's not the Univ. of Kansas, but it was intersesting to read. Not to get off topic from the original post, but all that for throwing gas on a bonfire? How does that fit into hazing?

VandalSquirrel 06-25-2009 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by SigEpLegacy (Post 1819805)
That's not the Univ. of Kansas, but it was intersesting to read. Not to get off topic from the original post, but all that for throwing gas on a bonfire? How does that fit into hazing?

There is a mention of "personal servitude" which is what I thought that hazing charge came from.

SigEpLegacy 06-26-2009 12:01 PM

maybe I read it wrong.

VandalSquirrel 06-26-2009 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by SigEpLegacy (Post 1820139)
maybe I read it wrong.

I also believe that often some act that falls in with risk management or just happens, brings attention to other things going on. I am going to make something up here as an example: Fire alarm goes off at the Phi Alpha Tau sorority house so all members go outside. It is discovered to be a false alarm (popcorn burning, system malfunction) and then it is noticed that the new members are wearing strange outfits and have sharpie markings on their bodies, are extremely drunk, have food in their hair, whatever. That brings attention to them and it is discovered that they are indeed hazing.

Or people just put photos on facebook because they are DUMB, that's an easy way to get caught.

pshsx1 06-26-2009 07:35 PM

Yeah, I saw "University of K..." and went from there. Extra random info about another school never hurts though... right?... heh..

And if it were really hazing, Nationals would have taken their charter away in a flash. I think one major the university is upset is because of the irresponsibility.. hence why they can't do anything with their house now.. the house can't be monitored by the university.. campus facilities can.

SigEpLegacy 06-26-2009 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel (Post 1820253)
I also believe that often some act that falls in with risk management or just happens, brings attention to other things going on. I am going to make something up here as an example: Fire alarm goes off at the Phi Alpha Tau sorority house so all members go outside. It is discovered to be a false alarm (popcorn burning, system malfunction) and then it is noticed that the new members are wearing strange outfits and have sharpie markings on their bodies, are extremely drunk, have food in their hair, whatever. That brings attention to them and it is discovered that they are indeed hazing.

Or people just put photos on facebook because they are DUMB, that's an easy way to get caught.

I used to work at Guantanamo Bay Detention Center. I can tell you all about how taking photos of the wrong sh#t can get your ass in a sling.

tuck307 11-29-2009 11:47 PM

Just curious on how it went for the older guys that were wanting to join a fraternity. If they decided to and how it went for them.

Elephant Walk 12-01-2009 04:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Croakies n Bows (Post 1831351)
We had one guy come at 30 and one at 25 but as a rule of thumb the older you are the harder to get in. As far as coming from the service, i have a good friend that is a marine that went to iraq before going to fayetteville and when he got back he rushed a fraternity and said he de-pledged because he got so mad about the guys younger than him, hazing him right after he got back from iraq, he said he could not take people treating him worse there than in the marines.

I cannot believe that I know exactly who you're talking about.

MC, correct?

DXKevin34 01-22-2010 06:13 PM

we had a 28 year old pledge. he was our class president and we called him Blue because he was old lol

wolffootball37 01-25-2010 09:20 PM

we currently have a 30 year old and a 28 year old who pleged last semester. Both guys were in the Navy and both are huge contributors to our chapter currently.

TxBetaFlounder 01-28-2010 05:08 PM

My pledge class had two 23-year-old guys, a 28-year-old, and this new spring pledge class has several older guys. With more guys coming home from Iraq and Afghanistan, I wouldn't be surprised to see more older guys pledging over the next few years.

JamesOKE 02-10-2010 01:46 PM

About 6 years back we had a 32 year old pledge =) Now he is one of the most active alumis and is a great guy.

TheLambdaChiGuy 04-08-2010 10:54 PM

Hey man, the only thing you can do is try. If they say no just because of your age, then they probably aren't the kind of guys you'd want to hang out with anyways.

The fact that you're in a band is going to be a major plus. Be sure to push that so that it shows that you've got something to offer the fraternity. Perhaps offer to play some songs with your bands for some upcoming rush events?

wazzuAPhi 08-09-2010 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Blue Skies (Post 1759461)
Swampcritter, I just want to say, God bless you for your service to our country. I think that you will truly enjoy your college experience no matter what the outcome is to your fraternity recruitment. Please let us know how things turn out for you. :)


For quotes like these I wish there was a "like" button on these things.

stever60 08-11-2010 01:41 AM

I think it varies from school to school and chapter to chapter, my Greek system is pretty small and in my chapter we had guys join at 24 and 28 in resent years. It most def. doesn't hurt to take a look into it and see what happens. Best of luck to you guys.

Lady Pi 08-11-2010 01:44 AM

Just don't be the sketchy old guy at parties creeping on freshman girls.


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