LOL. I apologize.

Long story short:

I firmly believe that every member was once an annoying aspirant to some extent. But, we were talking about an annoying collegiate aspirant who we both know. She's a very nice young lady but is sometimes loud and annoying when she realizes she's around Deltas. A Soror has yet to politely tell her to shut the hell up. I won't do it because I am much older than she is and want to see her "struggle" a little bit. I don't want to be her mentor and want her to learn the hard way, which is sometimes by interacting with the collegiate Sorors because they sometimes don't feel the need to act "grown and polite" like alumnae Sorors sometimes do. :) Also, she has yet to begin sharpening her networking skills and doing community service. That's an example of how someone can be the nicest person in the world but shouldn't be a Delta---YET. Maybe one day after she learns herself more and does more. Learning yourself and doing more is an ongoing process (until the day we die) and it includes learning there's a time and place for everything as well as learning how to shake someone's hand and wear business casual attire.

That's my polite and public version of the story. :p

LOL.

"With all due respect, ma'am, I respectfully request that you please shut the hell up. God bless you." :)