Were you reinvited to ADPi ? If so you might not have to attend. Although should probably give them one more try.

Best of luck!!

I agree with greeklawgirl, if you were invited to pref, they must already love you. Sororities don't just invite back girls to pref and then drop them. Just stay calm and look around. One thing a lot of people say to do is to look around at the other rushees that are there, since those people will likely be the new member class for that sorority :) Kinda exciting how it all comes together huh? I am sure that you will soon have a house full of new sisters and that you will have the time of your life!

I'm sorry that things didn't work out with Alpha Gam ( :( ), but it sounds like Phi Mu might be right for you! Enjoy Preference and keep us posted!!!

Aphigal-yeah, I was reinvited to ADPi after I dropped them yesterday off my party list with interest.

Thanks everybody for your encouraging words. I'm still confused as ever about what to do. But hopefully, something wonderful will happen tonight and things will be okay. I need to go now, there's a storm going on outside!! But anyways, i will definantly post when I get in tonight. Later :) !!

Greek_Girl, I am praying for you girlie!!!! You sound so sincere, sweet, and nice - I'm sure they LOVE YOU!!! I hope you will be a Phi Mu in no time!

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Good luck girlie - follow your heart!! :D

Aack! Too much suspense. Cant stand it! Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!

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Okay so I went to both preference parties last night. My very first preference party was Phi Mu. It was so amazing. It was such a beautiful ceremony and I spent much of it in tears. The person that preffed me last night was the same one that rushed me the night before last. She was like I just fell in love with you last night, and I had to work on you again. I had told her the night before that I was confused, and she was like I don't know if you are confused still or not-but there is nothing that I want more than you running to us on bid day. I told her that I wasn't confused anymore and that it wasn't as hard of a decision and I started to cry and so did she. So after a series of songs, and making a wish by throwing a carnation into a fountain, we had to leave.I hugged my pref girl again and then after I made my wish she hugged me again. Then I hugged 2 of my friends in that sorority, and I hugged my pref girl 2 more times.....I really didn't want to leave.

Then I went to the ADPi party. The person who preffed me was telling me that by just being at the pref party I should realize that ADPi really wants me and all of this stuff. The main thing I realized in their party is that I do want to be a part of sisterhood however it comes around.

I signed my bid card putting Phi Mu first and Alpha Delta Pi second. Who knows how everything will turn out?! But I will know by 5:00 tonight, so wish me luck everyone!

Good luck! Good luck! :D

Good luck - both houses are strong nationally with great alumnae support. I think you'd be happy with either decision!

Good luck greekgirl! You'll be great wherever you go, and you'll truly be an asset to your sisterhood.

Best of luck! You're in my prayers!

Good luck sweetie! I wish you all the best :)

I hope every works out for you.