I have a Question about letters, this guy that I really like never got any letters from his big bro when he was initiated. I wanted to make him some letters and send them to him for valentines day since he lives in another state, but i wanted to put my letters on there too, or half letters. But i don't want to get in any trouble or get him in trouble. My big sis told me that there are "sweetheart" letters that people used to give to their boyfriend/ girlfriend. Does anyone know about them, because I don't think he'd lavelier me, and i just want to give him some letters.

Don't put your letters on a gift for him. He won't wear them. They aren't his letters. If you really want HIM to have a set of HIS letters, then do just that. He'll know where he got them so you don't have to put your letters on him to remind him! It sounds like you're trying to mark him to keep the other women off, and that sounds desperate.

That right there worries me a little. I don't think he'd wear your letters either and I also agree it would smack of desperation. Make him some letters for his org but don't think that they mean anything more than a nice gift you made/bought him - you giving him letters for his own org won't be like lavaliering, in that, it means some big commitment. Nice idea for a gift, but it's just that, a nice gift.