Thanks for all the concern. I don't think anyone has any intentions of sending this to random people. I would like to reiterate that it is a "silly" but fun tradition (although I'm not sure where, I've never seen anyone do it) and is not apart of Phi Mu ritual, not even open ritual. Thank you.

thanks for the advice. im new to this site, not really sure what a pm is.

Private Message, not Phi Mu!

Private Message. If you click on someone's user name, one of the options is to send them a PM. Or, look under the spot in the upper right of the screen where it says "Welcome SaraAnn Phi Mu."

Yeah, I figured it's not really real ritual, but since Phi Mus seem to have not wanted to post it, I figured it's private.

I just PM'ed a few people, but I figured I'd also post the request here. I'm an old-timer, so most of you probably don't know me after a few years hiatus, but I was a forum mod back in the day. A sister is getting married this weekend, and just to be cheesy, her fiance gave her his letters last night, so I'd really like to respond in kind. If you have it, please PM me.

(Also, I'm happy to verify my identity via PM or over on Bloom. I know it's not ritual, but I think we keep it as a silly secret anyway)

My Carnation Sister is getting married in 2 weeks (July 9th) and I would really like to know as well. We have been trying to figure out exactly what it is, too. Our chapter recently closed, Rho Epsilon, and we have not been able to find out! Can someone please inform me so we can incorporate this! It would mean so much! Lion Hugs!!!!

It's not ritual, but it's kinda like an inside joke. It's very silly and totally unofficial, so it's less about "OMGkeepthesecretwithyourblood" and more about not wanting it, for example, to show up in a google search. In fact, it's largely been restricted to alumanae, AFAIK.

In any case, I have it, and will PM it to trusted posters as required.

Hey, I'm new here! I'm a sister from the Theta Gamma chapter down at FIU. I've already PMed someone but got no response so I figured I'd post it here to see if anything happens. As far as I know, no one from my chapter really knows about this tradition. I've never heard about it so maybe it hasn't made it down to South Florida? I'm not sure. Thanks <3

Hello sister! It should have made it down south because the first sister to post in this thread is an alumna of your chapter. I'm from the north and I know about it but, I don't know that much or I'd help you out. Sorry. Send BabyPink_FL a private message and I'm sure she could help!

I still haven't heard back from anyone :(

I would LOVE to get this "ritual" in a private message as well! Sorry, but this is not something to be found on Phi Mu's official Leadership Center, so please share with me on GreekChat!