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I pledged my sorority as a Senior, but I was also a transfer student and a founding sister of my chapter. However, I have many guy friends who have pledged both as founding and established chapters on my campus. I think it also depends on the enviroment of your campus. But don't let any one discourage you! As someone else said, your college years are only the start of Greek Life!
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Taking out of the equation that you are a senior, and traditional policies per chapter/nationals, what is it that you can offer the fraternity during the time you will be on campus?
It has to be something pretty spectacular. I would think that you need to show the Fraternity what you can do for them in that shorter amount of time, as opposed to what you can take from the experience (ie. letters, a sense of brotherhood, etc.). Then ask yourself, how can you demonstrate you willing to continue your membership in practice, as an alumnus? Those are the questions you need to ask and answer of yourself, and to make pretty darn clear to the brothers. No one here can do anything but speculate. Try and see what happens. |
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I would say go for it.
During my time we had several guys pledge that were almost ready to graduate. In a few of those instances, they ended up dual majoring so they could stay in college longer and therefore stay in the frat longer. Hell, in one instance they guy graduated a semester later but stayed extremely active by visiting all the time, going to football games, and still paying 'dues' even though he was out of school. The guy also constantly invited people to his parents country house over near DC to hang out and then go into the city to have fun. On the flip side, I have several friends that thought frats were ok, but didn't want to join one. Now that we have all graduated and they see me going back to tailgates, alumni parties/dinners, and going 'home' to the frat house they would give anything to go back and do it again so they could pledge. |
I wouldn't do it. Granted everyone has their own situation and their own reasons, but I just don't see the point. Maybe if it's a brand new chapter just coming on campus that needs founding members or something, otherwise no.
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Can't speak for ALL multicultural orgs, but I pledged as a senior and know other sisters who have done the same. Ours is a lifetime committment, so the bond is just as strong. I actually think it's a good thing to have had some exposure to Greek life before deciding on such a committment. Good luck! |
While harder to be accepted as a Senior, the lfe time commentment can be so true! Being a Grad at the same school, living in the same town or going to school near by could be a plus!
Just check into it! Give it a chance!:) You may offer a lot!:D |
Yeah, definitely depends what your plans are for after college. Joining a fraternity can be the best decision of your life for a multitude of reasons, but as a 21-22 year old pledge, expect to be doing a lot of bitch work for your pledge class and membership, namely...buying alcohol.
Give it a shot though, I had two 21ers in my pledge class of 23 guys, and they did fine. |
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Not to knock other orgs (outside of D9) but when I speak to many co workers that are not members of BGLO but joined a sorority/frat in college, they don't understand how and why I am still active...then I go into "teacher mode". |
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Now, my first little was a senior when she joined. She was busy her senior year, but was involved in every activity that we had as a chapter, and helped us to plan activities as well. She held an office and put her everything into it! I know someone mentioned that a 22 year old shouldn't join...but I disagree. I was 21 when I joined, but I was a second semester transfer freshman as well. Now that I'm done, I'm still involved as an active alumna getting ready to help with a recolonization of another AOII chapter this fall. If it something you want to do, and you know you'll be active, then I say go for it! |
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