Don't worry about what to bring, just don't burn cig holes in their couch. They'll appreciate that. ;)

Ohh.. so brinigng the hookah for everyone to smoke from is probably a faux pas too, huh ? :) :D

Bring flowers. Always appreciated.

My suggestion is bring a bottle of wine for dinner (after finding out if they drink) if not go with the mulled cider or a buttered rum. I would bring a hostess gift, something small that they can enjoy later on. I think Godiva is always good for this. My sister in law has found these really yummy burbon filled chocolates she always brings for this type of stuff and it always goes over great.

Hookah's are for Indians and GDI's .

Okay I've given this some thought and I think you need to bring a flask. That way if his family gets too much, you can just take swigs of your booze of choice. Think of it as a thanksgiving drinking game. Or, whenever someone says turkey, take a shot!

My little sister got me a flask as a graduation gift. It's been sitting in that box from Things Remembered for about 6 months now. Thank you for finally giving me a use for it.