| BethKAT |
08-28-2006 06:57 PM |
Relax
1st of all flattery gets you everywhere (but don't be fake with it) Such comments as the room/house is so nice you must have worked hard Thanks for putting in all the effort it really welcomes visitor etc. Would be great. Don't fold your arms or look around the room instead of the person you are talking to (this makes you seem not interested and you always need to keep your options open) Don't ever say anything negative BE POSITIVE and smile and look excited but not flustered. The more confidence in yourself the better. Ask the sister about herself and try to find something in common so that sister will have a link. Anything interesting seems to stick out (Wierd names always help girls) Think of a cute nickname not vulgar or insulting for yourself. Like if your name is beth you might want to say I did xy and z you can just think of me a Buzy Beth or if Chatty Kathy or tell why your name describes you (Make your name STICK OUT)> Alot of time girls arent disliked that are cut but the sisters find it hard to keep everyone straight. Also they probably have a certain place to take you in the room so let them lead you and let them be the host, they are as nervous as you so just be gracious to your host and make sure they know it is appreciated but not to act too needy just confident. Hope this helps.
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