Panhellenic Help...
 

I know that when I am asked to do a rec., etc., I don't mind. I feel like it is a duty as an Alum I need to follow through with. Of course I hope the girl goes AGD, but I want her to go into the Panhellenic system and have a great experience no matter where she ends up!

Best of luck to your daughter. I am looking forward to reading her thread!!

The more I read about how severe cuts have been at Auburn and Georgia, the more nervous I become about my daughter's upcoming rush! Maybe I need to quit reading the recruitment threads!:(

You're seeing the worst scenarios, but also the exciting ones! Look how many woman not only got a bid, but got the house they really wanted! It's all in the attitude!

Deep breaths, southernyankee, deep breaths. You and your daughter have prepared VERY well and it will be okay. It sounds like she's as ready as she can be, including the perspective that rush is tough and an open mind is the most important thing you carry in with you. If, by some chance, she doesn't join a sorority it also sounds like she's the kind of girl that will make the best of the situation. But I'm wagering it's going to be okay and keeping my fingers crossed.

Deep breaths...

P.S. I LOVE the football names - now that's something I can actually remember!!

I would normally go with the Titans but alas they are not available so lemme see

I will go with the Patriots - and the Saints

[QUOTE=proudmom]Deep breaths, southernyankee, deep breaths. You and your daughter have prepared VERY well and it will be okay. It sounds like she's as ready as she can be, including the perspective that rush is tough and an open mind is the most important thing you carry in with you. If, by some chance, she doesn't join a sorority it also sounds like she's the kind of girl that will make the best of the situation. But I'm wagering it's going to be okay and keeping my fingers crossed.

Deep breaths...

P.S. I LOVE the football names - now that's something I can actually remember!![/QUO

I know you are right...she IS a strong girl and will be fine either way, it's just that it would be so nice if rush went well! Thanks for the support!

southernyankee,
I am so impressed with your preparation! Sorority or not, it sounds like you two had a lot of fun hanging out and working together. Mom/daughter time is priceless. Good luck!

Time to let the cat out of the bag!

Alabama rush started today, and my daughter is a part of it. I know alot of GCers probably already guessed as much, but I was trying desperately to be somewhat discreet. ;)

Anyways, update...we moved her in on Sunday. I had almost forgotten how small a dorm room was and we ended up taking some stuff back home as it just wouldn't fit! After some creative rearranging, we managed to settled her into her room, and amidst alot of tears...left her to start a new chapter in her life!

Her and her roommate, (who is also going through rush) spent the next day getting settled, and taking care of a few things around campus before heading off to convocation. They met their recruitment advisors and their pnm groups. As someone said in an Auburn rush thread...girls came dressed to the nines, in heels and sundresses, full make-up and hair. It was a late night, and my daughter and roommate were exhausted and understandably stressed. They met today at 10am to start open house.

Here's how it went...

She visited 8 houses,

Falcons-was surprised that she liked this house as much as she did, as she knew nothing about it before today. Had a great convo with 2 of the girls and would love to revisit.

Browns-liked this house very much also, but not sure she would fit in there...would love to go back for round 2 to find out more

Texans-didn't feel much of a connection with these girls...but will continue to have an open mind.

Packers-liked this one alot, but knows several girls in this sorority and I think that has something to do with it

Patriots-also liked this one alot

Giants-ditto, liked this one too

Steelers-really liked this one, but only had a convo with one girl, who she knew somewhat, so convo was easy, would like to get a feel of the sorority as a whole

Cowboys-Didn't really feel a connection with this one, even though everyone was nice and convo was easy...couldn't put her finger on why it was not one of her favorites, but is very willing to go back and see what happens

Was very pleased that she liked so many and is looking forward to tomorrow when she will visit: Cardinals, Bengals, Panthers, Broncos, Colts, and Vikings.

They got caught in a thunderstorm today, hopefully tomorrow will be sunny!

P.S. roommate had a great time to.

This is just supposition, but under the circumstances, wouldn't it be funny if the New York Giants was Alpha Delta Pi (since "Broadway Joe" Namath's daughter's there)?

GO PACK GO!

Haha, I hope your daughter is loving rush. I just rushed last spring and while the waiting periods were hell, I had a blast! I had a conversation with a couple of other girls in my dorm between when we found out where we were going on pref day and the 2 ceremonies. One girl said "Well I'm going to X and Y, all the girls I'm already friends with are in X, I think I'll pref Y because I want to meet new people." It sounded absolutely rediculous to me. If you're friends with girls in X, and you get along with girls in X, and you really felt at home in X, why go against your instinct? You're going to meet 50-some-odd new girls every year and make TONS of new friends! Anyways, I hope tomorrow is just as fun!

My daughter's recap of the day at Bama was quite interesting. She felt very, very good about her experience today, but said it was difficult to gauge interest level because the sisters apparently treat everyone extremely well. She said its sooooooo hard to pick out favorites because all eight houses so far have all been impressive. Essentially, she is clueless and the confusion will only grow once she meets the ladies from the remaining houses. Its like picking out treats from your favorite candy stoe - so many incredible flavors to choose from and all equally good. Another thing - several talked to her in detail about specific items in her resume that I assume was forwarded with her letters of recommendation. They really read those things!

I have also been viewing this website for several months now...hoping to get updated on the recruitment process. I have a few years to prepare my daughter...as well as myself!

Just a few comments...I suspect those Bama girls are top-notch rushers and are very skilled at putting the rushees (I'm showing my age)...PNMs at ease. It is a good sign that details were discussed. Essentially, the PNM is being "rushed" by a pre-selected sister. This sister may have similar interests and is hoping to bond with the PNM.

Your daughters are attending a great SEC school with wonderful chapters. I wish them all the best and am confident that with such strong parental support, they are well on their way to becoming sorority members. Hang in there Moms and Dads!

I'm sooo glad that so many moms and dads have come to this site lately! :)

BamaDad - I'm very glad you're posting because you bring a different perspective to the table. When you mentioned about the "sisters treating everyone extremely well" it reminds me that when PNMs write their recruitment stories, they often remark on how well they connected and what great conversations they had. I think what some of them may overlook (naturally during this incredibly stressful experience) is that the sisters are also on their best behavior, pulling out all the stops to be as welcoming, convivial and friendly as the rushees are trying to be. It's part of why they're so devastated when they're cut.

I am very impressed that they mentioned specifics to your daughter. They sound like extremely seasoned professionals, LOL!

Good luck to your daughter and keep us informed.

My mom's best friend's daugher is rushing at Bama right now :)