You know what...despite how weird and ridiculous I think your posts usually are...I actually AGREE with you on this one. Point taken...and look who it had to come from.


CHAOS

To be honest this whole discussion is pointless. I'm amazed that it has continued this far so I had to say something. Why are we so concerned about the dealings of other organizations? As someone stated earlier we, sisters of the Dove, have a LOT (I don't think I can stress that enough) more issues to tackle then whether or not other orgs are claiming each other as Frat or Soror. As a nation of Black people we have a history of tearing each other down(crabs in a barrel) and I don't think something like organizational bonds should be added to the ongoing list. Let's support Skee-Phi, Coleman Love, Indiana Love, Golden Love and all the other informal bonds. In the end it says that Black women and men are coming together in the name of service and sisterly and brotherly love to have a positive impact on our communities.Isn't that what we are all about? I love being a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sigma and I know about our bond and that's all that matters! The Dove has spoken. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

The NONGREEK speaks,

As a nongreek who was once researching to see which organization would best fit me I found out many things and many little pitty patty things that I could of done without.

Some might wonder why I as a nongreek would even comment but I feel that what I have to say might open some eyes.

I looked into all 4 NPHC organizations: and many said the only way was XYZ, the road to go is XYZ, and there is no other than XYZ.

But point is all they were doing was telling me bologna-that wasn't providing me with a penny in a nickel.

I dont want to single out anyone cause more than just Zeta did this-but a few of the members made extreme point to stress we are the "ONLY" organization that has a constitution to say we are brothers and sisters. Lovely, but it was very irrevelant being that I wanted to know about the "finer womanhood" because that's what impressed me. I have many Zeta friends and they love there brothers to death and vice versa-but how come I couldn't just get something than that same thing everytime.

Personally, if I was looking for a male affiliate like that wouldn't a so called little sister organization been what I should of looked for.

As for brother and sisterhood. People have the right to claim whoever, whenever they want.

I've heard them all:
Skee Phi Love
Indiana Love
Golden Love
The Phirst Family
Crimson and Creme Connection
Coleman Love
Poodle Que Pounds
And many others even with NPC and LGLO organizations.

My complaint is to focus on what you have not what others are admiring and developing. Isn't that part of the principles being role models and leading the way. Well what way are you trying to lead people-something to think about don't you think. Just remember to take all sides that could be effected before going through such.