So I have question, are these dudes that you are generally attracted to, or is it any dude that offers to buy you a drink? But if you're saying, "OOOhhh, I sure am thirsty." Is that dude offering or is he being coaxed. I am curious to hear the women's perspective!:D

Well for me, it's anyone I see who is buying a drink at the bar. No attraction is necessary. :D I don't go to the club empty handed, but I usually wait a little while to see if anyone is gonna offer me a drink. If it doesn't happen, then I just go get one myself.

Sometimes you have to coax on the sly. Example: If you see a guy buy a drink, say "Hey, what is the name of that drink?" or "OOh, that looks quite tasty!" But the trick is you have to look really interested. Maaaan, you'd be surprised how many dudes fall for that stuff! ;) I miss my clubbin days.

Ugh, I NEVER come out and ask for a drink. Just not the type of person that I am.

So I can't imagine telling some random dude, "Oooooh, my throat is SO parched. What ever will I do???" *bats eyelashes and blushes*

I don't like leading guys on that have no chance in getting anywhere with me, because it's wrong to deceive someone in that manner. Plus, the dudes who are sub par tend to be the very annoying and possessive ones and I'm not trying to deal with that when I go out.

BUT, if a decent guy offers me a drink, I'd take it. Usually the drink leads to talking and the talking leads to me finding out pertinent information LIKE "Well, I have 4839572972 kids" or "I'm separated from my wife right now". THAT information causes me to exit, stage left!

Re: While in da club...
 

1. Cigarette smoke
2. Nasty boys
3. Too much noise

The only time I see Greeks strolling at a club is when it's a Greek-sponsored party or university party.

I feel ya, PV06, what cha' sippin' on tonight..my treat:D

when you have a nice quick conversation with a guy and they try to monopolize your time all night and you can't ditch 'em. I hate that shi$!

Re: Re: While in da club...
 

Then what are you doing in clubs, lol? Loud music is a given. That's one of the reasons why I prefer bars now. There's usually music there too, but it doesn't nearly bust out your eardrums like club music does.

Re: Re: Re: While in da club...
 

I'm not a clubbing type chick. The reasons I stated were reasons that I don't go. lol

Being a Neo I'm usually in tha Klub with my Dean and I hate when dudes look at us for not wearing white tees and gold grillz....All I got to say is....It's the Brothersssss, u Know, the NUPES...lol

I hate...

1. Nasty old men trying to grind with me. I don't do old men, K.I.M.
2. That one drunk kid who's trying to dance but can't, bumping into everyone one. I really hate it when its the club and they're trying to dance like they're at a rave.
3. B*4535* blowing smoke in my face. Oh hayle naw!

When I go out and drink, I have a short temper so my friends keep a close eye on me to make sure I don't get into a fight and beat someone down. :mad:

What I Hate at the Club
 

1. Overly crowded clubs
2. Bad bartender/drinks
3. Someone asking to sip my drink or to buy them one
4. Sweaty Betty's
5. People that dance with you and can't keep up
6. People that can't get the hint that you don't want to dance with them nor talk to them
7. No booty music**im ghetto**
8. Greeks that take over the floor by strolling at a non-greek function.
9. Fights/Shoot outs
10. Overcharging to get in
11. Holding line out to make club seem live inside when no one is in there**Club 112**
12. Smoke

I too live in Atlanta. I prefer the bar/house party scene. My spot is Barnacle's in Lithonia. I've also done Dudley's. I haven't clubbed since January. I'm young but old spirited. I'm very much the homebody.

I'm very blunt and honest with mine. There will be no game playing with me. I usually walk in and buy a drink.**absolute and cran** That let's them know I'm a drinker. Usually after that, I don't have to ask, bat lashes, wink, etc. Offers just come most times. On my slow nights, someone may try to sit at the table with me or holla at me and I say, 'Not without a drink you won't.' I may also see a cute man buying a drink and I'll say, 'Where mine?' I'm just too ghetto, but it always works cuz I'm cute and they love my attitude. You know you got it going on when you booty shaking hard as hell with drink in hand and haven't wasted a drop.

Isa Isa Could I Save Her... "I WANNA BE SAVED"
 

Here are Bobbyearl's club responses:

OK, WE PRETEND LIKE WE WON'T. IF SHE'S A DIME, WE WILL DO IT!

Look at that, you're offering me a drink and I didn't even have to ask....proves my point perfectly LOL!!!

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