Let's see. Four of these girls were legacies to one chapter--all of their mothers were members of those chapters on the campuses where their daughters rushed. Two were double legacies to one chapter. Two were legacies to 2 chapters on campus.

And every girl, although she was attractive and had tons of activities and was popular in high school, was cut not only by her legacy sorority(ies) but also most of the rest of them after second parties. Four went Greek (although 2 had to COB) and four didn't.

I understand the intent of the new release figures but it's been hell on legacies.

If the release figures are wreaking this same havoc on more than one campus, then maybe the NPC should check into it. Granted, many more women are going to college now than say, 50 years ago, but there either IS a legacy system or there isn't!

It's too bad there is not a way that only the legacy house would get notified if a PNM was a legacy and not the other GLOs. Somewhat on a need to know basis. Since so many recruitments now have computerized registrations, this doesn't seem like a terribly difficult thing to program. And yes if the PNM is a legacy to 2 different groups, then each group would know about themselves being a leg. but not about the other.

People would still find out - at recruitment they'll ask "so why do you want to be in a sorority? was anyone in your family in a sorority?"

This is how things work at Mizzou I believe but it always comes out anyway... chapters are so big that someone knows the PNM from high school and knows her family or knows she has an in-house sister somewhere. It seems in most situations that the chapters will know if a PNM is a legacy regardless of whether or not they are given that information with registration.

well, say that a legacy is going across the country to college and will be participating in a traditional, competitive , southern rush. literally noone knows the girl on campus. would anyone suggest that she leave the sorority affiliation blank on her recruitment app.?

she would have recs. to all of the houses, including her legacy house.

what if she has several legacy houses? say her mom in one, her grandmother in another, one sister in a third and one sister in a fourth? do you think that that would make a difference to the chapters? do you think that she would still be considered a risk to all those legacy houses or to the non-legacy houses?

No, what I'm saying is that the computer program would let the the Theta house that the PNM is a double legacy through a grand-mother and sister at Theta and the Kappa house would be told the PNM is a Kappa legacy through her mother. The Greek Office would see the overall printout but not the individual non-legacy group.

In terms of talking during rounds, I'm not sure how that could be addressed.

i believe that the university of central florida makes enough copies to equal the number of chapters on campus, and they manually cover up the legacy affiliation if it does not apply to that particular chapter.

maybe adpiucf or ztangel could expand on this?

To play devil's advocate a little...

One point of keeping a legacy around could be money. If you cut a member's daughter, grand-daughter, or sister, I would guess that the chances of that alumna giving money to your chapter or your GLO have gone down the tubes. (Not every alumna would react that way, but it would be hard to know which ones would.)

I'm just speculating though, not speaking from experience.

well, i CAN speak from experience. I advised a chapter when i lived in oklahoma, and the exact thing happened. zeta alums daughter pledged another house, and zeta alum would have nothing to do with the zeta collegiate chapter or alumnae chapter after that. she was quite nasty when i called to invite her to an alumnae event, and i had never even met the woman.

I was a legacy to Kappa via my sister and I believe that I was cut very harshly after 10-party day at my campus because of this fact. I didn't know at first if the chapter was the best fit for me (and even sometimes after I was in the house I had doubts, but we all do at one time or another) but I did love it. And I knew it wasn't automatic I would be in.

As an adviser, I have had to field calls and letters from angry or disappointed sisters, mothers and grandmothers about how their legacy was not given a bid to the chapter. I do my best to explain to them and the chapter that while we give legacies extra courtesy and consideration, the chapter might not be the best fit. Nonetheless, some of these women have cut ties completely to the fraternity (not just the chapter or alumnae association) because of these situations.

I realize I'm kind of an unusual case, but a system like this would've totally worked for me--my sister is 13 years older, went to a different school, and (because we're actually stepsisters) we have different last names. If I had chosen not to mention on my rush application that I was a legacy, I doubt anyone would've ever known.

That is correct, but human error does occur, and sometimes the wrong chapters receive the clean copy.

Also, it is a very Panhellenic campus, and people know whose younger sisters are coming through recruitment. In one case, an ADPi legacy came through with the intent not to join ADPi, as she wanted to do her own thing and her sister was a current collegian. Through her sister, she had strong relationships with members of other sororities. These girls fought hard for her, but she was dropped because of her sister being well-known and well liked and a current member of ADPi. At the end, the sister joined ADPi and was actually really happy about the decision, but I feel she got cut hard early on because of her legacy status. Conversely, we recruited another young lady that year who was a triple legacy to another sorority, and we were very excited to have gotten her, for her own attributes and the thrill of "stealing" someone else's leg... So I guess it plays both ways.

At Ole Miss some older houses will have 50+ legacies going through...sometimes more! I know one house who had 80 legacies going through one year and obviously they could not take all 80 legacies!

I get frustrated when an alumna has a daugther going through and for whatever reason her daugther picks another group to pledge. Sometimes the alumna will get mad at her chapter when really their daugther was never told about her mother's sororities until she was a freshman in college! I think in order for it to be a true mutual selection for a legacy the mother, grandmother, sister, etc must talk to their legacy about their sorority and share memories, experiences, etc...

It is a tricky situation. I hate to hear that a pnm is released from a sorority when she was a legacy, it breaks my heart. However, each woman is different from her mother/grandmother/sister and we all know that houses do change over years. It might be tough to see your daugther/sister go to a different GLO from your own but if she's happy isn't that the most important thing? I know my mother told me when I went through recruitment to just join the group that makes you happy. I know that's what I want for my daugther, for her to be happy....

This is exactly worries me. There was a time when the number of women in any given college was much smaller, and less in sororities. Now, we have a situation where there actually could be more legacies than quota.

I see this as something that NPC really does need to address on a national basis - before too much damage (and hurt!) is done.