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OPhiARen3 12-04-2005 01:11 PM

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Originally posted by kddani
OPhiARen3, i'm not trying to pick, but it seems that you have a hard time understanding/appreciating that not every group does things the same way yours does. The way your org does things isn't necessarily the "right" way or the only way of doing things.

Personally, I read your posts as being somewhat negative and condescending towards NPC groups because they don't do things the way your group does. It is coming across as you're looking down your nose at NPC groups. I could be wrong as to this, but this is the way that it is just the way i'm reading it.

I wouldn't dream of questioning the way your group does things, especially in a negative way. Every group does things for a reason. Why they do it is their business, certainly not any of mine. Some put more emphasis on other aspects, some things just are the way they are. For instance, I can't say why we get paraphanelia in all different colors and patterns. Women like color and variety, but other than that, I don't know. There's not a reason behind everything, somethings just are the way they are.

Most of our groups have been around for 100+ years and collectively have millions of members, obviously we're doing things right.

Back to the jersey question- NPC groups don't have an "official, standard" set of letters. My chapter had what we called "house letters"- i.e. everyone had the same set of letters. They were sorta in our colors- a dark green, with silver letters sewn on a white background (our official colors are olive green -though many chapters use a more flattering and modern shade of green- and pearl white). But this was our decision, for similar purposes as UKTriDelt's- it looks nice and uniform.

I'm not trying to say that what you do is wrong, and I'm really sorry if I come off as condescending toward the NPC groups - I'm not trying to! I'm just not very familiar with NPC groups and the way that they operate, and am trying to understand that better. I definitely know that my org doesn't not have the best or the only right way of doing things - heck, I don't think half of us know what we're doing, we're just trying to find out ;p

I think the confusion for me was just over the word "jersey" - for me, I think that jersey maybe has different implications than maybe it does for others of you. So I think that may be where the confusion comes in. I mean, it's a shirt, yes, but it's your most important letter shirt, and while you can have others in other colors, you have that one that is the jersey, it is official, and it is typically your first set of letters. If that makes sense ...

Again, I'm really sorry, I didn't mean to offend anyone!

Sock Puppet 12-04-2005 01:23 PM

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Originally posted by kddani
I wouldn't dream of questioning the way your group does things, especially in a negative way.
HEFFA PLEASE! That's a little misleading, don't you think?

OPhiARen3 12-04-2005 01:29 PM

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Originally posted by jitterbug13
Hi OPhiA sister,

Some NPC groups and even some OPA chapters do their jerseys and shirts differently than they do than you chapter. They decide to vary on the shirts to try something different. For example, I have OPA shirts in white, different shades of blue, yellow, red and garnet (to reflect one of our school's colors). I don't have a OPA jersery, but if I wanted to do it in colors besides the blues and yellow, that's my choice. One of my friends had a shirt made for another sister with part of the Texas flag (she's from there). My OPA bag has Mickey Mouse on it. With DST and other NPHC groups, I'll have to co-sign with sigmadiva--that is a big no-no. My DST shirts come in three colors--red, white and black(and I have a lot of them).

I also understand where you're coming from with the familes. I was an Alpha Angel with OPA in college. You become in the family when you get your big sis and your little sis becomes a member as well. It is to bring unity and to build a closer relationship with some of your sisters.

I hope my explanation helps!:)

We have OPA shirts in a variety of colors and things (some of them very cute :) ), it's just the jerseys that there are standards for - every sister has the same. Before my time they had pledge class info on them, but I guess that got too expensive :( I luv my polka dot OPA bag - I'm really not anti-variety, I swear!

I didn't know that Chi had families too - Nu got the idea from Omicron (at Auburn). I used to be a Theta Frog - but our chapter grew, and I got bumped into the new family, so now I'm a Xi Tiger.

PM_Mama00 12-04-2005 01:49 PM

But that's where you're assuming kinda wrong again. What I've noticed in most NPCs is the letter sweatshirt is the "most important" and your first set of letters. The only time I've seen orgs having jersies (am I spelling that right?? it looks weird) is for sports. Unless I'm assuming jersey wrong?

OPhiARen3 12-04-2005 02:32 PM

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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
But that's where you're assuming kinda wrong again. What I've noticed in most NPCs is the letter sweatshirt is the "most important" and your first set of letters. The only time I've seen orgs having jersies (am I spelling that right?? it looks weird) is for sports. Unless I'm assuming jersey wrong?
That's what I was trying to say - I think the confusion was over our different meanings attached to the word "jersey". We (I'm speaking for my chapter here, I don't know about all the other OPA chapters) wouldn't typically wear our jerseys for sports, we'd have other matching shirts for that.

PhoenixAzul 12-04-2005 02:53 PM

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Originally posted by OPhiARen3
Do any NPC sororities (or really, any sororities or fraternities represented on here) have families within your chapters? For instance, for some chapters of OPhiA, we have the chapter broken down into smaller family groups based on big sister-little sister lineage, to create some closer bonds within the larger group, and each of these families has their own traditions in addition to the overall sorority traditions (colors, mascot, etc.). Just wondering how common, if at all, this is ...
my sorority does that. Every one initiated from 1989 on is one of 5 trees. Each tree has several branches, and those branches have things like " family letters", a pattern of letters typically given as a first set (my line has a hawaiian print, another has an ivy print, another one has sunflowers, another is ladybugs...) others have traditions (one has a tradition of giving gifts late!) and specific items that get handed down only through the tree and not to other members (specific cat gifts, specific frames/cups, etc).

33girl 12-04-2005 11:18 PM

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Originally posted by OPhiARen3
Typically a tee with sewn-on letters, yeah - although I know some chapters have their shirts in a jersey material, instead of just a regular tee. But the difference between your jersey and just another shirt you may have with sewn-on letters is that the jersey is the official, standard one. I just really don't get why this wouldn't be in official colors.
Maybe because there is another sorority with the same colors that's been there longer than Tri-Delta has and they don't want to wear the same colors? There are like 4 NPC sororities with silver/blue/gold combos.

We never had these "official jersey" things - I think it must be a southern thing. When you needed to wear letters to Greek Week or whatever, you just wore some form of letters. Some of our girls HATED red - if we would have told them they had to buy a red sweatshirt they would have had a fit.

33girl 12-04-2005 11:24 PM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
In DST you just would not have received tote bags in any colors than what I mentioned above.

I understand that NPC groups have HQs and boards, but with threads like this that keep surfacing and other posts I read about NPC and IFC I just wonder if we function with stricter standards, because of the way our governance infrastructure works. It's not a knock, just an attempt to address the initial post from a DST point of view.

As far as para and stuff, I don't know that "stricter" is the word.

I think the whole thing is - there are fewer NPHC groups, so each will be more (for lack of a better word) proprietary about the things that are theirs. For example, it wouldn't do for me to get all upset about a DZ wearing a red and white shirt, because Chi Omega's colors are also red and white (well, cardinal and straw) and AOII's color is cardinal. Plus there are other groups that have red as one of their colors, and a buttload of other groups that have white as one of their colors. I don't have a special "claim" on red or white within my conference. Does that make sense?

sigmadiva 12-04-2005 11:48 PM

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Originally posted by honeychile
I imagine that she meant the sororities which also have a local mascot. I never heard of that prior to Greek Chat, but I guess they do!
Yes, this is what I meant. Thanks HC!!:)

sigmadiva 12-05-2005 12:02 AM

Re: Re: Re: National "Personality"
 
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Originally posted by PM_Mama00


Nationals doesn't set quota or totals. It's set campus by campus and figured by different numbers. I'm still confused on how some campuses do quota and all that crap so I won't go into it. Not everyone is obsessed with it, but perhaps the reasoning for those who are is because it is very rewarding to reach a goal.... the goal is quota and total. Of course people are gona be happy and strive for reaching a goal. While some may see it as a negative thing, I'm very happy that we do quota and total. It stops one organization from being a total powerhouse in the Greek system. It still happens, but on many campuses it works.

See, this is what I was trying to say. Where there are NPHC orgs on a campus, the NPHC on the campus does not set a total or quota that each group 'should' meet.

I probably said NPC groups are 'obsessed' with quota / total because a small percentage of the recruitment / rush threads are 'Hey, lets post each chapter's quota and what total was on the campus.' I'm only getting this info from GC posts. I think it is great that each group is able to achieve that campus goal. I did not mean to imply that reaching for quota / total is negative.

Bottom line, I agree with MTSUGirl. Trying to compare NPHC to NPC to NIC/IFC is like comparing apples to oranges to grapes. Obviously there are things that work for each group for different reasons. And, I like and appreciate the differences.

AchtungBaby80 12-05-2005 12:06 AM

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Originally posted by UKTriDelt
It's very very common for sororities here to get letter bags, shirts, or anything that is wearable in colors other than the official colors. For instance, our jerseys (t-shirts with block letters that we wear during inter-sorority competitions) are teal with black deltas.
Yeah, ours were navy shirts with pale pink letters. I don't know of many sororities who actually had jerseys in their official colors.

The school I go to now takes it a step further. Their letter totes, which for us were the same colors for everyone in each pledge class, are all different. It's wild. You can walk down through campus and see dozens of different colors and patterns on bags with the same sorority letters.

Come to think of it, the jerseys we got when I was a pledge were in our official colors. They were white shirts with pink and green letters. I think they might've decided to switch 'cause the white was hard to keep clean, and no one wanted a green or pink shirt. :p

OPhiARen3 12-05-2005 12:10 AM

This thread got kind of off track onto colors and para and whatnot - which is all really interesting, but I'm still confused about the core part of my initial question (probably because I had a hard time wording it well, lol). The NPHC groups seem to have more distinct national identities. The other groups, as one poster put it (I'm sorry, I can't seem to find the post again, and I'm paraphrasing here) seem like essentially all the same thing just with slightly different rituals and colors, and there's a lot of variety from school to school. Are there national identities for the NPC sororities that I just don't see, not being part of those groups, or is it something that is just not seen as really desirable with NPC?

This is probably coming off sounding condescending again ... I am really not trying to be, I just don't know how better to phrase what I'm trying to ask.

sigmadiva 12-05-2005 12:13 AM

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Originally posted by 33girl
As far as para and stuff, I don't know that "stricter" is the word.

I think the whole thing is - there are fewer NPHC groups, so each will be more (for lack of a better word) proprietary about the things that are theirs. For example, it wouldn't do for me to get all upset about a DZ wearing a red and white shirt, because Chi Omega's colors are also red and white (well, cardinal and straw) and AOII's color is cardinal. Plus there are other groups that have red as one of their colors, and a buttload of other groups that have white as one of their colors. I don't have a special "claim" on red or white within my conference. Does that make sense?

Yes. For colors wrt the NPHC, maybe it is because there are fewer orgs that the NPC and NIC, but I tend to see an org's colors as an integral part of the organization, just as the shield/crest, motto, and pledge. Could I wear a pink and green SGR shirt. Sure I could, especially if I bought it :p , but would I? No. While the colors pink and green are very nice, when it comes to my greek letters I'll choose my own colors, or a color combo that is not crimson/creme, blue/white, pink/green. Why? Because I respect the other org's colors.

AchtungBaby80 12-05-2005 12:17 AM

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Originally posted by OPhiARen3
The NPHC groups seem to have more distinct national identities. The other groups, as one poster put it (I'm sorry, I can't seem to find the post again, and I'm paraphrasing here) seem like essentially all the same thing just with slightly different rituals and colors, and there's a lot of variety from school to school. Are there national identities for the NPC sororities that I just don't see, not being part of those groups, or is it something that is just not seen as really desirable with NPC?
I think you're right. I honestly don't see an across-the-board "personality," for lack of a better word, for each NPC group. One of the cool things is that personality really does vary from chapter to chapter. I have heard of some sororities as being classified as "southern" and "northern," but that's about as far as it goes. NPHC groups, on the other hand, each seem to have something they're known for as a whole group, although I don't know about individual differences between chapters. That's just my point of view as a member of an NPC sorority, so I may be a little off.

sigmadiva 12-05-2005 12:24 AM

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Originally posted by OPhiARen3
This thread got kind of off track onto colors and para and whatnot - which is all really interesting, but I'm still confused about the core part of my initial question (probably because I had a hard time wording it well, lol). The NPHC groups seem to have more distinct national identities. The other groups, as one poster put it (I'm sorry, I can't seem to find the post again, and I'm paraphrasing here) seem like essentially all the same thing just with slightly different rituals and colors, and there's a lot of variety from school to school. Are there national identities for the NPC sororities that I just don't see, not being part of those groups, or is it something that is just not seen as really desirable with NPC?

This is probably coming off sounding condescending again ... I am really not trying to be, I just don't know how better to phrase what I'm trying to ask.

I think everyone has answered your original question to the best of his / her ability. I get the feeling you are fishing for a specific answer. What do you want to hear? Do you want someone to come on here and say 'Yeah, those NPCs just don't have it together like the NPHC's.' What type of judgement are you trying to achieve?

Maybe you need to try to understand why you see what you see. Are you looking at NPHCs harder? Do you have some issue with NPCs?

I don't think you are going to get the answer you are looking for because I don't know of many people, at least on GC, who are a member of both an NPHC org and a NPC org, who could give you the answers that you are looking for. I can only give an answer from a NPHC perspective. An NPCer can give her answer from her perspective, and both answers may still not give you the answer you are looking for. Again, you are trying to compare two (2) different systems.


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