Bobby do girls feel threatened that your mom works in a strip club?

-Rudey

I wouldn't say I'm "threatened" by stripclubs...more like disgusted!

:)

maybe, maybe not. But I'm sure if you put in a good word for me she'd hook me up with a discount. :D

I don't have a problem if my boyfriend went to a strip club on rare, spur of the moment occasions with his buddies, as long as it wasn't just like him and one other guy going to get lap dances or whatever. I understand that groups of people will go after a night of drinking and it can be fun/funny. I've actually been to one, and it was an experience, but not one I'd like to repeat. I guess my problem would be that I would wonder what those girls could POSSIBLY offer my boyfriend that I can't. I mean... really. But all in all, if him and the boys wanted to head that way, I'd say have fun honey, and I'll do the same out with my girlfriends.

Do you walk around naked? Do you dance to terrible music, naked? Do you show nothing in the way of hang-ups about your sexuality? Do you request no sort of response back from him? Can he watch you with his friends, while drunk and joking around, with almost zero reprocussions? Do you provide the visual images that men entertain, without forcing in the emotional issues that men do not in any way associate with these visuals?

-RC
--You also offer things strippers don't. In fact, this is the very reason why there's no reason to even compare apples to oranges.

Very true... I think that's what I was going for, only you put it a lot better.

You make me laugh!!! :D Awesome post.

it's never bothered me. the only clubs i've been to were women strippers, never been to see the men, yet.

All times I was with a bf - heck once was even my bday and he bought me a tittie-shot - that was fun! Another time was with all his fraternity bros and travelling consultant :p

I've known both women strippers and men who bartend/dj at the rippers - none of the ppl i knew were exploited or exploited others....however one friend did quit because of a rough time with her boss (a cheat), and mostl had stories of women who were being used/abused. Esp immigrants, we've all heard stories like that..women brought over and don't know their rights.

So on the one hand i'm totally open to that sexually but on the other there is the fear that not all women are truly willing participants (and does this affect the way men view women in general? - most women would say yes, but in my experience, I don't see that, yet).

bump

Or, honeydew melons to oranges.

Hey I went to a strip club the other night.

Man it was boring as hell. Ugly chicks and beat up women. Well. I was in Ontario for whatever reason. I think they were all doing 8 balls of coke in the backroom or something.

At one point the DJ guy goes " Alright all dancers to the stage! All dancers to the stage!" So like 6 dancers came up so drugged up. The Dj was trying to get the crowed all hyped and the strippers were clapping hteir hands to the beat. This place was so cheezy that they were playing that LAKERS pump up song that WIll ferrel used in his Soccer movie. Anyways these girls were clapping as if they were listening to End of the Road by Boyz 2 Men. One Stripper just kept staring at me without blinking. No no not that kind of stare. But the "I am going to kill you stare". I was scared man. I went up to the restroom because I wanted to hide and I had to bring my homies and some heat with me.

But anyways...It was so bad, that I looked at each woman and played the " How did she end up being a stripper in Ontario california Game" with my bros.