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I work at a hospital in Pediatrics, so lots of times we get magazines like Parenting and stuff like that sent to the office. When I'm bored on my lunch break, I sometimes sit and read them. The magazine did a survey of its readers if they thought that women should go back to work after having a baby or not. This one woman thought that it was "selfish" and "bad parenting" to bring a child into this world if you couldn't stay at home with it and be there for it 24/7. Umm excuse me, in that case, at least half of the women in this country are bad, selfish mothers.
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I'm curious about what you posted earlier about how girls used to learn more about how to run a household. Do you know what they actually learned? I'm curious about it -- it was an entire course of study? I find that fascinating because I can't imagine how it would be necessary -- I mean, it's not that hard to clean the house, or read a cookbook if you don't know how to cook. Was there a lot more to it than that? |
ha I totally thought it said women against men. I would like to change my initial response of "bring it on" to "whose got the jello and a video camera?"
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I tend to think that its those women that feel their lifestyle/stance is the "correct and only one" is what causes problems.
I for one tend to lean more towards traditional gender roles. I love being a feminine women in the tradtional sense (likes looking pretty, smelling nice, make-up, wears dresses, enjoys cooking for her man, marriage, SAHM, etc.) - everything that some people may think are "June Cleaver-ish" or a "southern lady". If another woman isn't into all that - cool, but don't criticize my choices nor call them archaic because you don't agree with them (hence where the the "beef" starts I guess). Its those people that say things like "I'm horrified that you work and have kids" or on the flip side, stuff like "Women that look forward to marriage are stupid" that are short-sighted and are often at the middle of any trouble between the two groups. |
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http://www.brescia.uwo.ca/fac/dbsc.htm for the science program http://www.brescia.uwo.ca/fac/dba.htm for arts It is not just foods/nutrition, but also clothing and human behaviour, housing, etc. |
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What you think that just because we choose not to have the stress of children than we sit around and do nothing with our time away from work? You need to get a reality check. See when you're single everything that gets done by TWO married people (cleaning, yardwork, errands, etc) is now left for only one person to do. Hell, most of my non-work life is more stressful than my work life. |
I think many times when women with children don't get promoted, it's not related to stress -- it's because they take time off of work, say, for several months after the baby is born. If you're not working during that time period and someone else is, that other person is more experienced if you both started working at the same time. Although I think employers should be sensitive to the needs of working mothers, I also don't think it's fair for working mothers who take time off to do things with their kids to expect that it will have no consequences at all.
Also, people without children sometimes have to pick up the slack for those who do -- if you have to take off early to go to Susie's soccer practice or pick up Billy because he's sick, it may be the people without kids who are covering for you. They don't get paid any extra for that. No matter what you do, something is going to suck one way or another. |
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You also seem to be assuming that people without kids have no hobbies, interests or responsibilities outside of work. We don't all just have free time because we're not driving kids around all afternoon. Some of us are in school, or do volunteer work, or are writing novels, or are doing tons of things all at once. It's not like there's a huge void in someone's life because there are no children in it. |
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