I like this. I don't know how any trust can return to a relationship in which there has been infidelity. I know too many stories of women who are always questioning their guys after an affair...and it becomes too stressful.

I take it you're back in Texas, and doing well? :)

Ok whatever happened to these people?

They are still together. They are both working really hard to make things better. She called me about a month and a half ago and they basically hit rock bottom and were having it out. From there they have started to grow a new relationship. She is still having a hard time trusting him completely but as she said "At least I know now that we both have tried to make it right, if it doesn't work out."
I am happy because she is happy but I still worry about her. I have heard that the "lady" has moved out of state, which is good....BUT is there someone else??? Right now they are dealing with some issues with their pet (he is in the puppy ICU) and it has taken their minds off of this for a while.

Yep. I have been back in Texas since late June and I am doing great. I am happier than I have been in a LONG time. I am getting used to focusing on myself which, I must say, feels damn good!

I can't imagine what this would have been like for me if I did not have a good education and a job. I mean, I am certain that there are young women out there who stay in relationships with their unfaithful husbands due to their inability to provide for themselves. So sad.