Jules,
I really don't want to hear that BS. You have been to the same places as me and you've seen the same pretty girls as me and these really very pretty girls are never alone.

Also have you given thought that some of these girls never make any effort to go and be friendly talking to other guys? Ugly girls always talk to guys, but the really hot ones make you work. Sometimes it's just easier to just take what lands on your plate.

-Rudey
--Me...I seem to have no problem dating hot chicks, sometimes taller, sometimes shorter, sometimes blonder, always dumber than me

Thanks. :):o

Maybe this could happen in the state of Utah, but not anywhere else... Why? because of alcohol. Where there's a hot chick and alcohol nearby there will be a guy intoxicated enough to think he's invincible and of course he will go up to the girl...

Conclusion: The hot chick is square and doesn't get out enough!

Haven't read this whole thread, but I think some guys assume that girls that are "too good looking" will be super high maintenance too. I would think that scares some of them off.

Very well stated..

There is a dfference between hot and beautiful. Hot is easier to approach because its a straight sexual mesage.

But usually, if someone is unapproachable there may be some personality issues involved.

Maybe she's a freak of nature- I think I'm going to go tell her that.

She's really outgoing, but not obnoxious. She's not afraid to strike up a conversation with the guy she's interested in. She's a social drinker, likes to dance.

As OTW would say, we here at AXJules are mystified.

OMG!!! :eek:

While I do think that this is an excellent research opportunity for members of the H&A, lets not get totally carried away!!! Imagine if she did all of our makeup, my god the whole world would probably die from fright after seeing so many girls looking like her.

Plus if she did our makeup I'd have to spend like 10 days trying to chisel the crap off...and really my time is too valuable for that. ;)

So maybe we should get one of her sorority sisters to do it for us? Or maybe her cousin, aunt, some sort of distant relative. We'd still get some of the effect that way I think, but it wouldn't be over the top like her. :D

And I don't think me being too beautiful has ever been an issue. I think guys are intimidated by me b/c I am loud and obnoxious and I more than likely make fun of them within the first 5 minutes of meeting them...I guess I should try and work on that...:confused: :( :)

I know this is true.

My psychology professor told us that numerous studies have been done that prove that attractive women generally go on less dates than average women in college.

My ex also told me this was true. He told me that if I hadn't approached him first, he sure wasn't going to approach me because my looks intimidated him- he thought he no chance. He's told me that several times,...even after we broke up and were friends, I told him I was having trouble getting a date in college, and he swore up and down that was the reason why.

It's true. Ugly guys would come up cuz they have nothing to lose but the good looking guys wont even try unless you make it obvious that you are interested. When I was in college, I met some guys from HS or talk to them online and they said they had crush on me or they would notice me around but never had guts to ask me out. I was like....... I thought people didnt like me cuz i was deaf but didnt have a clue i intimidated some guys. In fact I remember my freshman year, a guy gave a letter to the teacher to give me, cuz he seen me around and was afraid to come up to me cuz i made a comment to my friend that if a guy approached me I would kick his ass lol........ he has a class with that friend LOL...also a lot of people assume you have a man or that you are a snob cuz you look good. I notice guys come up to me when i have my period or didnt have time to put on makeup or cute outfit y a know.......i would never understand this until later in college LOL............

I'm glad this thread was bumped, 'cause I wanted to add that I've done some field research, and my conclusion is . . . boys only like me when I'm ugly.

Every single time I've hooked up this summer, I was wearing jeans and a tee shirt and next to no makeup, and more often than not my hair looked like isht. (I have guy friends who are in the habit of saying, "Okay, you're coming out to the bars with us. We'll pick you up in ten minutes.") And every time I took the time to get all dolled up? No play.

I'm just sayin'.

sugar and spice- you are SO right on this one! And this thread has made me realize this even more.... From now on, I'm going to be comfortable when I go out.... And if that means walking down 6th street in a t-shirt and jeans, then so be it. I think it will do the trick. I'll test this later on this week and report back. ;)

I haven't read this whole thread but would like to comment. I have a close friend who is beautiful. She knows it and everyone around her knows it. However, she has obvious issues with self-esteem and is really really picky when it comes to guys. If HE is not drop dead gorgeous she won't give him the time of day, but complains that she can't find a good boyfriend. She has been dating a guy for the past year that is gorgeous in her eyes but treats her like crap. She always tries to get people to set her up but we've all given up after the way she treats guys. There are other issues at hand with her but this is about looks, so I will not post them. I also have another friend that is very pretty and all the boys like her. She can never seem to keep a boyfriend though and I've heard from some of the past boys in her life the reason for this is because she comes on too strong from the beginning. So I guess even really hot girls have issues too, is what I guess I am trying to say.

i heard the real good looking ones aren't too good in bed because they're too prissy to do the freaky stuff...any takers?

Good looking and prissy are NOT the same thing.... You can find girls who are one but not the other. Take that as you will. :)