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cashmoney 05-03-2004 11:17 AM

Re: I have to get this off my chest....
 
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Originally posted by DGqueen17
Maybe a month or so ago I started talking to a boy that I knew casually in high school. It led to flirting which led to HIM telling me that he was in love and blah blah.

So anyway everything was good, he was coming home to go to formal with me (he goes to the Naval Academy and I live in WV), and BAM!

We were having a slight disageement when he tells me that not only did he have sex with a girl over spring break (while I was in Washington because my grandpa died) he also had sex with a girl that weekend.

Of course I was devastated. Not only did he break my heart but I also didn't have a formal date.

So why am I still sad about this? :(


why do you still feel sad about this? You obviously liked him a lot. Usually when you are the one who gets done wrong you're the one who feels shitty afterwards. Why? Because you think something's wrong with you since he did that behind your back. Had it been the other way around and you were the one telling him that you fucked another guy......you'd feel bad for maybe a day but then you'd be done with it.;) Cheer up, you'll be here in Florida before too long.:D

Cashmoney

DGqueen17 05-04-2004 12:54 PM

Re: Re: I have to get this off my chest....
 
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Originally posted by cashmoney
why do you still feel sad about this? You obviously liked him a lot. Usually when you are the one who gets done wrong you're the one who feels shitty afterwards. Why? Because you think something's wrong with you since he did that behind your back. Had it been the other way around and you were the one telling him that you fucked another guy......you'd feel bad for maybe a day but then you'd be done with it.;) Cheer up, you'll be here in Florida before too long.:D

Cashmoney

That's very true. Fuck 'em. If he wants to get with skanky ho's good for him.

The bad thing is he will be in Florida too. But Pensacola is pretty far eh?

James 05-04-2004 12:57 PM

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It actually sucks when things get really intense really fast and then one person. . just basically vanishes or makes themselves repulsive.

Its kind of like cruising along at 60mph only to turn the corner and see a Wall right in front of you . .. it takes a bit to stop and change direction.

I think its great that yo got over it so quickly.

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Originally posted by DGqueen17
That's very true. Fuck 'em. If he wants to get with skanky ho's good for him.

The bad thing is he will be in Florida too. But Pensacola is pretty far eh?


cashmoney 05-04-2004 01:06 PM

Re: Re: Re: I have to get this off my chest....
 
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Originally posted by DGqueen17
But Pensacola is pretty far eh?


Too far!;)

sororitygirl2 05-04-2004 09:24 PM

Re: Re: Re: Re: I have to get this off my chest....
 
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Originally posted by James
It actually sucks when things get really intense really fast and then one person. . just basically vanishes or makes themselves repulsive.

Its kind of like cruising along at 60mph only to turn the corner and see a Wall right in front of you . .. it takes a bit to stop and change direction.

I think its great that yo got over it so quickly.

This is SO true, James! I once had a relationship end after just a few months and it hurt more than one that had gone on for years. I was like "wait, don't go - we're still in the happy honeymoon phase... things aren't supposed to go to s**t yet!"

DGqueen17 05-05-2004 02:48 AM

Soooo Mr. Naval Academy called today. At 8:30am. I was not pleased. He said "Call me later."

Uh nope.

Now I feel so in control and I am totally over this now that he's trying to crawl back (at least that's what I'm telling myself).

:D

AGDee 05-05-2004 06:42 AM

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Originally posted by James
It actually sucks when things get really intense really fast and then one person. . just basically vanishes or makes themselves repulsive.

Its kind of like cruising along at 60mph only to turn the corner and see a Wall right in front of you . .. it takes a bit to stop and change direction.

I think its great that yo got over it so quickly.

That's why I don't trust it when it's intense so early. Crash and Burn Syndrome!

DGqueen17 12-17-2004 10:48 PM

This jackass called me a little bit ago. I answered and was like "Uhh hello?" (I didn't recognize the #) and he was like "Hey DGQueen, it's Navy Boy.....are you coming to Phi Psi tonight?"

I was like "click"

Peaches-n-Cream 12-18-2004 12:37 AM

Good for you!

PhiPsiRuss 12-18-2004 07:37 AM

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Originally posted by Peaches-n-Cream
Good for you!
What she said.

KillarneyRose 12-18-2004 07:16 PM

Re: Re: Re: I have to get this off my chest....
 
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Originally posted by DGqueen17
The bad thing is he will be in Florida too. But Pensacola is pretty far eh?

Look at the bright side; there are still '04 graduates who haven't started flight training yet because there is such a huge backlog of pilot selectees. So come service selection night in January, there will most likely be many seniors who want to go pilot who might end up being SWOs instead. :D

And Surface Warfare School is up in Newport, RI. Where it's very cold, and very far from you :D

DGqueen17 12-20-2004 01:20 AM

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Originally posted by KillarneyRose
Look at the bright side; there are still '04 graduates who haven't started flight training yet because there is such a huge backlog of pilot selectees. So come service selection night in January, there will most likely be many seniors who want to go pilot who might end up being SWOs instead. :D

And Surface Warfare School is up in Newport, RI. Where it's very cold, and very far from you :D

Is that the one where they have to go on the submarines for months and months?

That's what I want him to do. Be under the water for the majority of the year.

KillarneyRose 12-20-2004 09:33 AM

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Originally posted by DGqueen17
Is that the one where they have to go on the submarines for months and months?

That's what I want him to do. Be under the water for the majority of the year.


lol, no, sorry. But it's where he'd be stuck on a ship in the middle of the ocean for long periods of time, if that's any consolation :)

KSig RC 12-20-2004 11:32 AM

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Originally posted by Rudey
You know what? When I drink and I'm around a lot of guys, somehow urination or public nudity always happens (including dropping your sack on them when they're not paying attention). It's harmless fun. One time I remember my buddy walking out naked in the middle of a party and peeing into a pitcher. Another buddy dumped the pitcher on him. Fun times.

-Rudey
--And none of that was gay by the way...I'm just saying ok?



http://www.lesen.ch/de/aktion/images/teabag.jpg



-RC
--one time i puked off the porch at Bent Willy's, not sure if that helps you get over it but it was funny

krazy 01-07-2005 11:04 AM

What a douche.

I would not worry though, at least you didn't get too serious with him before you knew his true colors. Now you know he isn't worth a sh*t.

Hey, please do one thing though -- STAY AWAY from him for now on. Don't let him weasle his way back into your life.

What a jerk, who does that?

Hey, rock on girl!


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