I think they were freaky back in them days too, they just didn't have a Sex in The City to expose it

exploring a woman's body with the tools i've been given will NEVER be overrated

I hate you... lol....

tools? plural? :eek: :D :cool:

i mean what man doesn't use what he's been blessed with when pleasing a woman.

gotta be creative.

:rolleyes:

hmmm...
 

It's possible. Most MEN respect what they have to work for. Note that I said MEN not boys. Cause boys are all upset cause they don't get any free dairy goods :)

I couldn't have put it a better way. I couldn't agree with you more. If a couple can agree on no sex before marriage then that's kool. I've never heard of a couple doing that though. I think sex with the same woman gets played out though. It's never as fresh as it is in the beginning of the relationship.:p

its true, men are pigs

That's not true. What makes you think this?

ROTFL... real talk... womyn folks can be pigs too

^^^If not worse. Women are something else.

But to to answer the question: Yes, do I believe that unmarried couples can have a relationship without marriage.

Now, the confession: I've been celibate for over two years and I am very sexual!! :D Don't get me wrong...it's hard out there for a sista. :) I've been single for a while and choose not to have casual sex, but aside from that, when I do get in a relationship, he and I will have a serious conversation about sex because I still don't want to just hop in the bed.

As someone said in a previous post, there are too many people loosely having sex with people and I want to make sure that this is a serious relationship before I give the goods. And my goods are good! :D

^ In my experience (a Christian one) dating/courting is a kind of friendship, but the purpose of it is to explore possible marriage partners or prepare people for doing that. A lot of people think that if you don't "test drive", you might end up married to a bad sex partner, but in reality sex is mostly mental and not about skill. Your feelings about someone are more likely to determine whether sex is good. And statistics show that those who are celibate before marriage have more satisfying sex lives than those who aren't.

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Yay for me! :D

On a serious note, I am doing this for spiritual reasons. Sex complicates relationships so much. And Quietstorm, if you really believe that relationships without sex is friendship, well...that concerns me a bit. But I believe that it will all work out in the end because I serve an awesome God.

Yes I know the difference, I was far from serious.